I'm not insecure...

WikiCassowaryReader988
11/15/24 12:18pm
This quiz says that I'm insecure but I don't necessarily agree with it. I'm just a realist. What did you get?
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Wendy Lynne
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04/30/25 5:12pm
Insecurity comes from believing a false story about yourself—that you're less than, unlovable, or not good enough. But your true self knows that’s not true. Sometimes these beliefs come from things people told us growing up. I had a client whose dad always said her friend was prettier and more athletic than her. She internalized that and carried the belief that she was unlovable and ugly. That’s how insecurities are born—from lies our minds repeat until we believe them. I'm glad that you don't believe the results of this quiz at face value!
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Anonymous WikiIbis
Anonymous WikiIbis
12/02/24 7:54am
It says ‘you may be slightly insecure’ idk what that means bc I can barely talk to ppl without going into a severe panic attack, and running into a bathroom to listen to my music.
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Anonymous WikiGlade
Anonymous WikiGlade
02/18/25 3:30pm
thats anxiety not insecurities
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WikiGladeCatcher583
11/15/24 10:23pm
Okay yeah I got called out by this quiz, it knows that I'm insecure
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Anonymous WikiOwl
Anonymous WikiOwl
12/02/24 12:12am
I am insecure too!
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Anonymous WikiMongoose
Anonymous WikiMongoose
12/13/24 7:07pm
I am just felling really bad today and now I'm just wanting to give up on school and joy and family. I don't think I'm going to get a Christmas present or birthday one
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Anonymous WikiEagle
Anonymous WikiEagle
02/09/25 12:44pm
Just take it 1 step at a time
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Anonymous WikiStoat
Anonymous WikiStoat
12/29/24 9:33am
I also sometimes think like that, and it's okay, life will get better even it it keeps getting worse!
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Anonymous WikiKangaroo
Anonymous WikiKangaroo
01/13/25 11:57pm
Yeah even if it feels like you will never feel better, it eventually will
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Anonymous WikiCheetah
Anonymous WikiCheetah
11/25/24 1:31am
I got "may be insecure". I do usually feel like I can't do anything right, I get embarrassed in public, etc.
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Anonymous WikiEmu
Anonymous WikiEmu
12/02/24 9:04am
It said I might be a little insecure,I kinda agree with it because I sometimes look at the mirror and think I’m too ugly.But my opinion is that I think we should think we’re great people,each of us are unique😊.
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ANIME AND FNAF FAN!!!
02/22/25 5:29pm
that's a nice way of thinking! hearing that actually brightens my day!
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Anonymous WikiLemur
Anonymous WikiLemur
11/29/24 6:34am
Likely insecure
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Anonymous WikiFerret
Anonymous WikiFerret
11/25/24 7:20pm
It says that im Insecure I part agree with this because I don't like myself and no one likes me
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WikiChinchillaFlyer503
11/16/24 11:09pm
Not insecure
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Anonymous WikiStoat
Anonymous WikiStoat
11/22/24 1:52pm
im insecure
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Anonymous WikiStoat
Anonymous WikiStoat
12/03/24 8:36am
I don't really feel insecure, but apparently I am.
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Anonymous WikiCheetah
Anonymous WikiCheetah
12/08/24 12:41am
Not insecure at all, idk why I even did this lol my ego is too big anyways.
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Anonymous WikiMist
Anonymous WikiMist
11/23/24 8:42am
Im insecure but i feel like it might be just a phase, been happening for a whil tho
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Anonymous WikiFox
Anonymous WikiFox
11/30/24 8:31pm
Ummm what happens if it says “u might be insecure” but I feel insecure, BUT I also feel like I’m kinda overreacting?
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Anonymous WikiDesert
Anonymous WikiDesert
11/24/24 2:45am
Lately I haven’t thought I was insecure but when I got my results they made sense. For example I actually do think im bad at everything, I actually do compare myself to others a lot. I don't even know what to think anymore
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Anonymous WikiFerret
Anonymous WikiFerret
11/30/24 2:02pm
it says im kinda insecure, but I AM VERY INSECURE SOMETIMES
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Anonymous WikiCave
Anonymous WikiCave
11/24/24 4:11am
I got insecure, and I for sure feel it sometimes...a lot of times
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Anonymous WikiToad
Anonymous WikiToad
11/27/24 9:33pm
it says I am insecure and I think I am, I needed a second thought
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Anonymous WikiGorilla
Anonymous WikiGorilla
02/05/25 2:43am
I got "you may be insecure," because I always compare myself to people. I don't cry much but it said I break down and cry like a baby.
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Anonymous WikiEagle
Anonymous WikiEagle
02/09/25 12:44pm
I have ADHD, so the quiz telling me that I am insecure made me go into full panic mode. I feel like a bad person. Thank goodness that I have my therapy session in 3 hours (10 am). Being a 19 year with ADHD is not easy.
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Cookiespuppy121
02/20/25 5:07pm
This quiz says that I'm insecure bc i answer all questions yes and one no
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ANIME AND FNAF FAN!!!
02/22/25 5:28pm
Im likely insecure. I guess
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Andrea Shaul
03/19/25 1:57am
it said I'm likely insecure though i know I'm insecure as heck I'm overweight so everytime I look in the mirror I think "ew your fat !" or "no wonder nobody likes you your ugly!!" or "your in iep math for a reason u know!"
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Anonymous WikiTiger
Anonymous WikiTiger
03/21/25 10:27pm
"Likely insecure" what does that mean, am i or am i not?
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Anonymous WikiChinchilla
Anonymous WikiChinchilla
03/23/25 9:51pm
The test said I was insecure but I don’t think so. Sometimes I feel insecure but usually it only like10% of the time and even then it’s not that bad.
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Anonymous WikiButterfly
Anonymous WikiButterfly
04/02/25 6:21pm
It says I’m likely insecure, prob because it took me 1sec to answer yes for like the first 5 questions. Ig I am but don’t wanna admit it.
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Anonymous WikiValley
Anonymous WikiValley
04/30/25 2:30pm
I feel mostly insecure at school. Friends, they sometimes hate me and my bff left my school. Hard time here
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Ayame_thestorm
04/16/25 2:17pm
It says that I am "likely insecure", I have high social insecurity which means that when I feel down, it almost feels like a panic attack whenever I get rejected by someone, like I did something wrong to make them mad, so much so that whenever I get rejected, I almost always run into the restroom and start crying and thinking of what it went wrong.
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Anonymous WikiMist
Anonymous WikiMist
04/29/25 8:50pm
It said that you are likely insecure. That’s true. I care what people think, people pleaser, even if it gets me in trouble, so yeah. It got me
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Anonymous WikiLemur
Anonymous WikiLemur
12/16/24 1:34pm
Just finished the quiz, this called me out.
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WikiBirdReader943
11/28/24 5:30am
Said I'm not
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WikiBirdReader943
11/28/24 5:30am
said i might not be
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Anonymous WikiCloud
Anonymous WikiCloud
12/03/24 4:30pm
I got told I am most likely insecure
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Anonymous WikiLemming
Anonymous WikiLemming
12/03/24 6:08pm
it says I'm likely insecure, idfk
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Anonymous WikiStoat
Anonymous WikiStoat
12/13/24 10:56pm
If you're not insecure why did u takethe test
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WikiBookworm
12/15/24 12:41am
"may be insecure" I don't want to believe but, oh well. I knew I was, for example, always judging myself and wondering why I am so awful, but I didn't know it was insecurity...
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Anonymous WikiCave
Anonymous WikiCave
12/15/24 11:09pm
I kinda have the same problem it says that I'm " likely insecure " even tho im like EXTREMELY insecure.. I just took this quiz to see how accurate it is..
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Anonymous WikiMongoose
Anonymous WikiMongoose
12/16/24 4:50am
I don't like being insecure but the quiz says I am likely insecure.....
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Anonymous WikiLynx
Anonymous WikiLynx
01/05/25 4:39pm
it said i was insecure
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Anonymous WikiKoala
Anonymous WikiKoala
12/23/24 3:07am
Why I am insecure in my friendship??
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Anonymous WikiDesert
Anonymous WikiDesert
12/24/24 3:46pm
I also got insecure even though I am kind of insecure
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Anonymous WikiStoat
Anonymous WikiStoat
12/29/24 9:31am
Me too! I don't really feel insecure, but the quiz told me "Your likely insecure". I am not insecure, I just don't sugarcoat things, I keep visiting reality from time to time and I know that many people are better than me in lots of things and that I could be better at stuff, I have never really felt insecure
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WikiBookworm
12/29/24 5:57pm
it might be the way you give it to yourself, for example, if you saw someone doing better, you could think 'oh wow, look how good they are, I want to be as good as them!' or you could be like 'omg, they're so much better than me! aarrrggghhh, why can't I be just like them? *tantrum, childish foot-stomp, pout-y face, arms crossed*
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Anonymous WikiBird
Anonymous WikiBird
01/02/25 11:39pm
Likely Insecure; which was very true
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WikiZebraGlider226
01/04/25 7:36am
I'm insecure. I believe probably because of my choice of answers which may not entirely reflect my personality though.
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