Q&A for How to Look Androgynous

You don't need to cut your hair to look androgynous. Embrace your personal style and decide on hair length based on what makes you feel comfortable. Many people of all genders have both long and short hair, so your hair length doesn't define your identity.

Communicate that you want to make your own choices about your appearance and explain why it's important to you. Respectfully express that while you value her opinion, you believe in dressing how you want. She may not agree immediately, so be patient and persistent.

To become popular, be outgoing and kind to everyone, including those you may not like. Engage in activities that interest you; theater and poetry are often welcoming to the LGBTQ community. Embrace your personal style and queer identity, and always be yourself.

A pair of shorts that hits 2 - 3 inches above the knee is good for both feminine and masculine people. Graphic t-shirts are good for casual looks, and short-sleeve button-ups or polo shirts work for more dressy occasions.

The goth style naturally leans towards androgyny with its flowing, less body-conforming clothing. To enhance this look, focus on layering pieces that alter your silhouette.

Try doing some dreadlocks, a bun, or make your hair curlier to make it look a bit shorter.

Achieving an androgynous look without hormones or surgery can be challenging if you're naturally curvy, but wearing tailored clothing that balances your proportions might help. Binding can also reduce the appearance of curves. Remember, you don't need to look androgynous to be nonbinary—it's about how you identify, and your presentation can be unique to you.

You could layer your clothes and wear more neutral colours like black, blue and green. Also, maybe wear a long sleeve top with a t shirt on top and ask a male friend or sibling if they can let you borrow a hoodie. Wear baggy trousers. There are ones made for girls so if you have any, wear them. You could also wear like jogging bottoms and baggy sports clothes, as these provide an androgynous look.

You might try pinning your hair back or styling it into a faux hawk. Slicking it back with gel or pomade can also make it appear shorter, although this might be challenging with curly hair. Experiment with different options to see what works best for you.

Yes that works well; it gives you a gender neutral look.

Feeling slightly non-binary is perfectly normal, and you may want to explore the concept of being a "demigirl." You don't have to label yourself if you don't want to. Packing is a personal choice, and you should do it if it makes you happy. If you decide to pack, consider reading the article on packing for transgender men, as the instructions can apply to anyone assigned female at birth.

Assuming you are AFAB, try doing more gender-neutral makeup, or none at all! Sneak in pride colors to your outfit that there is no way your mother would know what means. Depending on your race, certain long hairstyles can look very androgynous. Avoid generally feminine colors like pink, and with certain exceptions, don't wear skirts or dresses. Also, discuss this topic with your mother. Tell her that you are further exploring your self-identity and just want to see if this suits you.

Try on a different name and pronouns. How do they make you feel? Try dressing in androgynous clothes. Use FaceApp or something similar to try on a short haircut. Think about your most internalized self. Do you feel in-between the gender lines? Another think that helps me, as a genderfluid person, to identify my daily gender is to look in the mirror. Do your masculine of feminine features show more? What about your gender-neutral ones?

You will likely need to bleach your hair first, as dye often doesn't show well on dark hair. Keep in mind that dark hair has a naturally neutral appearance.

Consider wearing jeans, as they are a versatile and androgynous clothing option. When wearing jeans, you can tuck in your shirts with a belt for a more put-together look, or let them hang loose with sweatpants for a casual style. Avoid leggings if aiming for a more masculine appearance, but if you prefer an androgynous look, pair leggings with knee-length shorts.

Try wearing a hat, like a beanie, and tying your hair into a high ponytail. Push the ponytail forward so it creates the appearance of bangs on your forehead, then slide the hat on to achieve a short hair look with minimal effort.

Try wearing baggy clothing. Tops: oversized tops, oversized hoodies and jumpers, vest tops/muscle tops etc. Bottoms: Joggers, flared trousers, dungarees/overalls, cargo shorts, etc. Footwear: Doc Martens, Converse, trainers, and wellies.

People may choose to appear androgynous to challenge gender norms or express a non-binary identity, but dressing androgynously does not necessarily mean you are not cisgender.

You can tie your hair into a "man bun" and you could even put a beanie on top to hide that. You could try more typically masculine styles for guys with long hair too. Hats will become your best friend. They are very useful and can also help you "hide" your hair so it appears shorter.

Yes, of course! Many masculine-looking people have both traditionally male and female hobbies. You can still enjoy the Sanrio characters like Hello Kitty and Choco Cat. It won't affect whether or not you look like a female.

To achieve an androgynous style in a vintage, dark/light academia aesthetic, focus on clothing that is traditionally masculine yet versatile for any gender, such as sweaters, trench coats, and khakis with belts. Additionally, explore websites like Pinterest for inspiration on light/dark academia outfit ideas that suit any gender.

There are various haircuts you could get based on how short you've cut your hair. Some hairstyles I would suggest are a pompadour, pixie cut, or a sideswept haircut. Try looking online for more ideas.

Hair tinsel or colored hair extensions could be a loophole in the rules. Check with your school. You can also try dyeing your hair a natural color such as brown or blonde.

Yes. However, plenty of girls and feminine people have flat chests, so it's okay if you don't wear them.

If you want to get loose-fitting clothes, get some oversized hoodies. If your parents are skeptical, just say that because the weather is getting colder you would like some war, but comfortable clothes. This works for me, and besides, over-sized clothes are a trend now!

Communicate your desire by saying, "This is how I want to look, and I would greatly appreciate your support." Remind them that personal appearance is a matter of individual expression and style. You can also start with subtle changes to help them adjust gradually before making more noticeable changes.

You might consider gradually transitioning to shorter hairstyles by subtly trimming your hair over time. Sharing examples of popular androgynous hairstyles and explaining their appeal can also help your family understand your perspective.

You could start by plucking and shaping your eyebrows, and shaving facial hair. You could experiment with makeup and try and find what works best for you. Try to shop at unisex stores or wear half traditionally male clothes and half female.

If your parents won't support you at some point you have to realize that it's not your job to change your mind. You have to do what is best for you love. Of course, not having the support of your parents can feel awful but you have to realize that you do not need their support to survive. If you just do you despite whatever your parents feel, they may come around. They may realize it's inevitable.

It doesn't matter what your hair type is, you can be androgynous and have curly hair!