Can some one help me through it? Please
system
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sure, what caused this heart ache?
Well my boyfriend and I broke up lastnight
system
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How long were you together? What happened between you?
We were together 6 months and he never talked to me anymore for the last month
I was calling him to tell him happy 6 month anniversary and I here a girl in the back ground saying baby who are u talking to? And he said just a friend
system
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Think about it this way. If he’s causing you pain, maybe he doesn’t deserve you? Let bygones be bygones and move on with life. Don’t let a stupid guy ruin your valuable peace of mind. There’ll always be someone better for you
Thanks but we were together 6 months and I loved him
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You loved him and still do, that’s easily deduced from your posts ;). But judging from his behaviour, he’s either found someone else or doesn’t love you anymore. :(. You shouldn’t get upset, heartbreak can’t be overcome by regrets. Maybe you should take him somewhere and talk about it, the good times you had and how you should get back together?
I did regret dating him. He always was acting weird. What do I do? I just want to punch him in his face so bad. I have tried everything to keep me calm.
I was with someone for three years, and I was very young when we started dating. I thought that this person was my soul mate. And then they stopped talking to me. I would get mad at them, and they would tell me that it “wasn’t that simple.” I assumed that they were busy all the time, until I went 3 months without talking to them, and I couldn’t handle it anymore and broke up with them. They told me that it had more to do with themselves, and they couldn’t bring themselves to talk to me. They told me that they weren’t at fault, but I couldn’t help but be hurt by the fact that they chose not to talk to me. I loved them, and I still love them. If I could, I would go straight back to this person. But I know that that isn’t a good idea, and that this person did not treat me well. You will be able to realize that your boyfriend may have treated you well for six months (as did my significant other for three years), but he stopped (as did my significant other in the last days of our relationship) and that is not okay. You should find someone who is ALWAYS good to you, not just the majority of the time. Find someone who would absolutely never cheat on you (which is what it sounds like your boyfriend was doing based on your story about the phone call from earlier), and who would always be willing to talk to you. And know that I am going through a similar thing, and you’re not alone.
And know that it is okay to regret having dated someone. We all go through relationships that we wish never happened.
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It’s okay to be mad. It’s okay to feel bad. You need to take time to feel these emotions, but be careful not to obsess over them. You’ve gone through denial, you’ve gone through isolation, you’re going through anger. I’m not a mind reader, but chances are after you become calm, you’ll start finding ways it could have been fixed, and although most people do that, it’s not healthy. You may go through some depression after that, but then you’ll be able to accept it. I just walked you through the stages of grief, simply because you seem to be encompassing them. I’m going to go ahead and disagree with Mrappbrain on this one in one way: I don’t think you should see him. I don’t think you should call him. I think that’s a dangerous course, will prolong your pain, and possibly cause more hurt along the way. Everything else Mrappbrain said is perfect, though!
Thanks :’( my heart is shattered but I’m pushing through it. He lied and said he would never cheat on me.
Nobody ever says that they’re GOING to cheat on you. If they’re going to, they are going to lie about it. That’s the sad truth. But it is still completely right of you to be hurt by it, because you trusted him. I hope that things get better for you.
Thanks but it looks like it’s getting worse by the second
Also, correct me if I’m wrong, but didn’t @Confusionist
close an extremely similar thread to this one, saying that it wasn’t the place for it? I really don’t fully understand forums, so please just tell me if I’m wrong and don’t be offended.
What about it is getting worse?
