My brother (age 19) just got in a car accident. I am really sad and worried because we don’t know where he is and what state he is in, but all we know is that he is alive. I have always been closest to my brother ad nobody besides me and my parents seem to care about my brother, which makes me want to cry. I am starting to tear up as I write this, because he is really nice and might stay in the hospital for a while. My birthday is tomorrow and he said he was going to get me something, which he hasn’t done in years. Please tell me how to cope with all this while we wait for information.
Aww, LLN, I feel for ya - A while ago, a friend of mine died in a car accident, it was pretty tramatic, worst thing is, everyone have seem to forgot about it - The best thing to do is know you’re not alone, and you have friends standing by you.
If he’s alive, there’s no doubt he’ll be back with you within months.If you want to talk through it, e-mail me with the little blue envelop next to my user name - I’m a good listener, and uh, if it counts, happy birthday.
June Days
:). Thanks June. My grandparents are watching me right now. My little sisters don’t really understand the importance of this, so they are at their friends house. Finally some quiet. But my grandfather is on the phone with my mom as we speak (or type).
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T_i50Uyg1OI
A band I went to last night - The lead singer said that you’re not a victim of all of this, let it all go and move on with life, this is a back fall that won’t go unnoticed, however, you’ll heal in time.I understand no one took anything from you, but this song sinks through.June Days
:). Thanks, both of you. My brother just got home. No serious injures, but he got in a lot of trouble with my parents. I asked why, and my mom said it is not because of the car, and she will tell me why he is in trouble later. Thanks again, I have been really worried.
system
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Awwwwww, I’m so sorry. One time, a person zoomed in front of me, and I almost got hit! I hope your OK and same goes for your brother.
system
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Lives Are Worth Living. LAWL
Thanks guys. My mom said my brother was in a chase with the police and he crashed into a tree. The police searched his car and found marijuana in his car. He didn’t smoke it, but he and his friends (who were in the car with him) were planning to. It turned out he wasn’t in the hospital, but in jail and he went to court and the judge was really nice and let him stay out of jail. My brother told the judge all about his sisters nd how he didn’t want them to be like him. My parents searched his room and they found nothing. My parents told me all this before I went to bed and I cried a lot. But when I went to sleep my brother came in and said he was sorry he disappointed me and I told him I wasn’t disappointed and I still loved him. Now it is morning and i am still sad. But, on the bright side, today is my birthday!
Happy Birthday LLN!Sending my birthday wishes to you! I’m glad your brother is safe and okay, but that must have been scary, knowing the actual story.
system
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Hey. Your user name does say " live life"
:). Thanks, all of you. We are going to a baseball game tomorrow, and I am going to ask my brother to come.
system
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Best of luck to bost of you!
Thanks B2BM (I think all of my sentences have started with thanks!). My parents had to leave to court at 5:30 this morning and I have been really worried about what is happening in there.
Steve5
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Did your brother know his friends had marijuana in his car?
Love2
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It’s sad to hear that. I can feel you by the way. My father died in a car crash. I thought that I’m will never stop crying, but I knew that I can’t spend my whole life doing that. I remembered that I have so much friends…Not only friends, I have my mother, my family, my boyfriend and other people that I love. I’m sure that he is going to be okay. Happy birthday! ~Love2
