So it has been 6 months since the accident with my brother (if you are not aware of what I am talking about, check out my other threads about this topic). Apparently, everything has gotten worse. The yogurt shop my brother works at is closing tonight, and he needs to get a drivers license (the court is allowing him to get one just to drive himself to work and to his school). My brother is going to a nearby community college, which was the only one he could get into and he just barely made it in. One night, I woke up to the sound of my parents yelling at my brother again. I cried for that entire week and faked sick just so I wouldn’t cry at school. I try to tell my mom this, but she just says that it is not my worry and I should just stop thinking about it. But I can’t
. Speaking of my parents, things have gotten worse for me thanks to them. I love my parents to death, but for about 4 months, they have been yelling to me about everything I do. And before you say I am just imagining it, I have tallied how many lectures I have gotten over the past month compared to my sister, and I got about 20 more than her. I just want to go away and talk to someone about it, but there is
no one to talk to. I feel trapped in my own house. I am tearing up right now because sometimes I wish everything would just go back to normal and I could be happy again. Please help and try to post without any “I went through the same thing” or “I hope you feel better” because I don’t want any of that. I just want to cope with all of this in my terrible life. Thanks.
system
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Aww, I’m sorry, and I’ll be praying. *hugs*
How do you know for sure your sis has had less lectures than you? She may have had some without you knowing.
system
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Ned, you are kinda making her feel worse…
Why? She said she didn’t want a load of “get better soon” etc. One of the things getting her down is that she feels her sister is getting told off less than her. All I’m saying is that may not be the case and that she shouldn’t worry too much about it.
system
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XOXOX In mama’s prayers. (Mama is me… I guess.) -hugs filled with love- xox So sorry about that luv. Be brave. :] Stay Strong <3
Aww, I’m sorry to hear that, LLN. We love you. Feel free to vent if you need to, I’m always here to listen. As well as us all. I’ll only say this once, I know where you are right now, and I know how you’re feeling. There will be a better day when thiss all gets better. It will
get better. Knowing where you are, you don’t want to hear that, but it will. Even though you’re not suicidal (I hope), read this blog. I’m confident it will help you. =) http://overcomingever.blogspot.com
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Trust me, all of my parents lectures are public to our family. It is sort of like an extra punishment. @Unicorns101
No, it’s fine.
My parents are fighting with my brother right now. I hate this so much.
Steve5
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Why are your parents fighting with your older brother?
system
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I am really sorry. Try not to listen to them fight.
He needs to get a job by tomorrow. All he does is get up, go to classes for about 3-5 hours, play some video games, then sleep for the rest of the day until 1:00. He isn’t even doing community service. I am really worried about what will happen to him if he doesn’t do what the court says.
system
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Your parents will most likely get him to do what the court says.
Stay strong luvvie, sorry about this. <3
Steve5
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I thought you said that he worked at a yogurt place.
system
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Tell him he needs to step up. He needs to get his life back on track. Tell him looking for a job will help him.
It closed. Live, if I were you I would go up to him and tell him quite bluntly that he needs to turn his life around because he is 1. Making life stressful and hard for you and 2. He is screwing up his life and could end up in bad places. Sometimes people just need a real kick up the arse and a reality check to get some sense into them and I think your bro is at that point.
