Should I go for it?
The person I have a crush on is kind of mean to my best friend. I try to ignore my crush, but he's just... AHH!!! When I first came to the school, he was rude to me like once, but I just took the test, and it says he's into me. I took another test and I'm into him!! But my BFF said he's mean to her! But I can't just ignore crushes! Please someone help!
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It’s tough when your crush and best friend don’t get along—we feel for you! The right thing to do in this situation depends on how your crush is actually acting. Is he only being a little standoffish or slightly rude? In this case, he might just be shy or awkward around people he doesn’t know that well. Once he gets to know your bestie better, they might warm up to each other.
It might also be worth talking to him about it. Explain that your friend finds his behavior mean and ask him why he's been acting that way. That said, if he’s being truly mean, offensive, or insulting, he might not be a good match for you. At the end of the day, you deserve to be with someone who is kind and respectful toward you and your BFFs! Plus, your relationship with your friend might suffer if you date someone who treats them poorly.
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It might also be worth talking to him about it. Explain that your friend finds his behavior mean and ask him why he's been acting that way. That said, if he’s being truly mean, offensive, or insulting, he might not be a good match for you. At the end of the day, you deserve to be with someone who is kind and respectful toward you and your BFFs! Plus, your relationship with your friend might suffer if you date someone who treats them poorly.
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I mean if he was rude to you, and your friend at least once think of what would happen to the relationship. I don't mean to be rude but he seems kind of like a bully.
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And if he accepts to be your bf your friend might feel betrayed, Knowing what he did to you guys...
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