Do you want to let your boyfriend know how much you adore him? Try writing him romantic love letters that will touch him deeply. We’ll help get you started with 80 love letters for your boyfriend that he’ll cherish. These love letters range from being traditional , short , and cute to long , funny , and creative . They’re also perfect for long-distance love and when you need to say “I’m sorry” . Read on to find out more from dating coach Crista Beck and professional matchmaker Julia McCurley about how to write a love letter to your boyfriend to make him smile, along with templates you can use for inspiration.
A Perfect Example Love Letter to a Boyfriend
There are days when the weight of the world feels heavy, but then I remember you’re here to hold my hand. It’s not just comfort, it’s the assurance that I’m not alone. You’ve become the calm in my storm, the light in my dark, and for that, I’m endlessly grateful.
Steps
How to Write a Love Letter to Your Boyfriend
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1Begin with a loving salutation or greeting. The way you start your love letter sets the tone for the entire message. Use examples like “Darling” or “To my love” to let him know he’s about to read something special. You can also address him by name or using a cute nickname or pet name you have for him. [17] X Research source
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2Be sincere and specific when writing. Writing a love letter to a boyfriend is an opportunity to let him know exactly how you feel about him. Tell him why you’re writing the letter, express your genuine feelings for him, and offer examples of things you say, either by illustrating your point or sharing a personal memory you both share. Remember to include your favorite things about him, whether it’s how strong he is or how adorable little things he does are. [18] X Research source
- Open by saying that you’re writing the letter as a reminder of how much you love him.
- For example, tell him how much his kindness and patience mean to you in your relationship.
- Share a memory about your first date and how you knew he was the guy for you.
- Remind him how cute he looks when he sleeps or plays with his dog.
- Beck suggests “writing about what you love about your partner. Describe the qualities that make them special to you; they can even be quirky, cute notes . You can also share one of your favorite memories with them, or a very simple moment that touched your heart, but you never told them about.
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3Choose a thoughtful closing. It’s always acceptable to end the letter with “I love you,” but you can also sign your love letter with hopeful thoughts about the future, how he’s made you feel up until now, or by choosing a personalized phrase you might say to each other in parting. [19] X Research source
- Traditional examples include “Forever & always,” “Eternally yours,” and “Longing to see you.”
- McCurley mentions other closings that include, “You are always in my heart,” “I love you now and forever,” and “I am yours forever.”
Expert Q&A
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