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  • Question
    What is the minimum age to become a drag queen?
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    There is no minimum age to be a drag queen, but if you want to perform at clubs, the age requirement depends on local laws.
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    Can a nonbinary or trans male perform as a drag queen?
    Community Answer
    Yes, anyone who wants to can perform drag.
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    What is the purpose of being a drag queen?
    Community Answer
    Being a drag queen allows for self-expression, live performance, and embracing your true self. Drag is what you make of it, reflecting your inner desires.
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    Can I be a drag queen if I'm a woman?
    Community Answer
    Yes, you can. Female drag queens are often referred to as bio queens or faux queens.
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    Can I be a drag queen if I'm non-binary and was born in a female body?
    Community Answer
    Yes, anyone can be a drag queen, regardless of their sex or gender identity.
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    Will I be judged harshly as a drag queen?
    Community Answer
    It depends on the location. In some Southern states, you might face harsh judgment, while in places like Los Angeles, you are less likely to experience that.
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    Do drag queens have to tuck?
    Community Answer
    No, tucking is common among drag queens, but it is not required. Drag is about personal expression, so you can choose what feels right for you.
  • Question
    Can I become a drag king?
    Community Answer
    Yes, you can become a drag king by creating an exaggerated, overly masculine character, regardless of your gender.
  • Question
    How can I get women's clothes at age 13?
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    If you have some of your own money, try shopping at thrift stores. You could also ask female friends or sisters if they have clothes they no longer wear.
  • Question
    How can I effectively tuck and tape to prevent my balls from falling down?
    Community Answer
    Using a stronger medical tape can help keep everything in place more securely.
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    Can I be a drag queen if I'm a straight man?
    Community Answer
    Yes, you can! Many drag queens are straight men, and the community welcomes individuals of all sexual orientations.
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    Can I have more than one drag persona?
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    While it is uncommon, it is possible for drag queens to have more than one persona, often arising from jokes or gags. Ultimately, drag is an art form, and you should perform in whatever way feels right for you.
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    Is "Miss Fortune" a good name for a drag queen?
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    When selecting a drag name, it's important to choose one that reflects your personality and gives an idea of who you are as a performer. If you plan to perform professionally, ensure the name is easy to remember and search for.
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    Is surgery required to become a drag queen?
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    No, surgery is not necessary to become a drag queen. Drag queens are performers who use clothing, makeup, and wigs to create a feminine appearance without permanent alterations.
  • Question
    Can I still become a drag queen even if I'm not naturally talented?
    Tom De Backer
    Top Answerer
    You can absolutely become a drag queen with dedication and practice. Just like learning any new skill, it's important to study and train yourself carefully. Watch videos, practice your moves and attitudes, and experiment with clothes in front of a mirror. With hard work, you can achieve your goal.
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    Can I be a Christian drag queen if I'm not gay, trans, or interested in changing my gender?
    Tom De Backer
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    You can be a Christian drag queen regardless of your sexual orientation or gender identity. Everyone is unique, and you should express yourself in a way that feels authentic to you. The important thing is to understand and embrace who you are at your core.
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    Why does Andrew believe women can't be drag queens, even though a bio queen is a woman doing drag?
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    Drag stands for "Dressed as Girl," originating from Shakespearean stage notes when only men performed on stage. When a woman performs as a flamboyant character, it's often referred to as "Camp." Therefore, traditionally, women are not considered drag queens.
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    Can a woman be a drag queen and still dress extravagantly?
    Andrew Serrano
    Top Answerer
    Yes, women can be drag queens and dress extravagantly; drag is about performance and expression, not gender.
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    Can drag queens hire personal makeup artists?
    Rio Fuentes-Bell
    Community Answer
    While some drag queens hire personal makeup artists, many prefer to do their own makeup to develop their skills and maintain their personal style, even if they are not experts.
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    Where can I safely buy makeup and wigs online?
    SkiddoTheKiddo
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    You can buy makeup and wigs on websites like Amazon or eBay; search for "daily wigs" for variety. Always check reviews, especially those with pictures, to ensure quality and fit. Properly care for your wigs by cleaning them with shampoo and conditioner to maintain their appearance. If a wig is too shiny, soaking it in fabric softener for five days and then washing it may help.
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    How can I start doing drag as a beginner without my parents knowing, especially when it comes to tucking?
    Tom De Backer
    Top Answerer
    Check out resources like the "Tuck and Tape" guide for tips on tucking safely. Remember, at 11, you're still exploring who you are, and it's normal to go through different phases. Embrace your feelings and stay true to yourself, knowing that choices you make now aren't set in stone.
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    What should I say if a shopkeeper asks why I'm buying clothes or wigs?
    Tom De Backer
    Top Answerer
    You could say, "We're having a costume party, and this is my theme," or "I'm picking these up for a friend who can't make it." Alternatively, you could be honest and say, "I'm a drag queen and love this style." It's unlikely a shopkeeper will ask, as most people make assumptions. However, if they do ask, be prepared to lie, deflect, or tell the truth, depending on your comfort level.
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    My girlfriend wants to try having sex with me dressed as a woman. I'm willing, but can I do a 'simple' drag just as a tryout?
    Tom De Backer
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    Imagine arriving at a holiday destination and the 'pool' that was promised turns out to be a 2-by-2 bricked water holder not even knee-deep. If this is just a one-time thing, why not give your girlfriend the entire fantasy she's thinking of? Shave your legs (in fact, shave everything), let her do your makeup, wear stockings and high heels, a cute sexy dress, get some boobs - as natural as you can fake them, and when it happens, go all out. Behave feminine, be seductive, take control. It's only in the privacy of your own bedroom. Above all, you should only do what you're comfortable with, but if you're willing to experiment, you might as well go all out.
  • Question
    Do I always have to do drag for money?
    Community Answer
    No. You can do drag every day. You can go to events like Pride and drag there. Try to find drag shows in your area.
  • Question
    I'm 13, my parents won't take me to the thrift store, and my friends have no extra clothes, what now?
    Community Answer
    Save up your money for clothes and ask an older friend, relative, or a friend's parent to drive you to a store, or take public transportation if you're allowed to. Otherwise, you'll just have to wait until someone can drive you or you can drive yourself.
  • Question
    Can I become a bio queen or faux queen at 14 years old?
    Aquapixiemermaid
    Community Answer
    Before pursuing this at 14, it's important to discuss it with your parents or legal guardians. If they are not supportive of the idea now, you might have the opportunity to explore it when you are older.
  • Question
    I'm nervous about tucking; is there another method I can use?
    Community Answer
    You can consider wearing dresses or skirts that don't require tucking.
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    What if I’m really tall? Are there dresses that will fit me?
    Belle K.
    Top Answerer
    Yes, dresses come in all sizes: tall, small, short, and everything in between. Just Google "dresses for tall women"; you are sure to find several outlets.
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    How do you do drag make-up with little makeup? I have 2 eyeshadow palettes and 1 eyeliner. That's all.
    Burnt_ramen
    Community Answer
    Every queen has their own style so it's all on personal preference. If, you're going for the dramatic look, then use the boldest color on the palette, along with the second and third with a little bit of a mild color. Then, use a lot of eyeliner with a dramatic wing.
  • Question
    I'm a cis woman. Can I be a drag queen?
    Ashlie Hathaway
    Community Answer
    Yes, anyone can be a drag queen, no matter their gender identity. It's a form of expression.
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