Q&A for How to Ignore Your Husband

Walk away with dignity, and let him go. Find closure. Know your worth.

It really depends on the person. If being silent seems to save you some aggression from your husband, then it's probably better to do that than to confront him. However, this does not sound like a healthy marriage, and you should not stay with someone who is violent toward you. This is unlikely to ever change, and you will have a miserable marriage. See How to Divorce Your Abusive Husband .

Call the police. Physical abuse can escalate. Please seek help, for yourself and your husband.

This is abuse, even if he doesn't physically touch you. Insist that he goes with you to couples counseling. If he won't make an effort to do that, leave him. Go to a relative's house or look up domestic abuse shelters in your area.

If it's been like this for a long time, and you don't think it's going to change, it would be best to consider divorce. There's no sense being stuck in a miserable relationship. If there is still hope, you can try to work things out with your husband. Tell him how you feel and what bothers you. Maybe get some marriage counseling.

That's not a normal amount of bathroom time per day, so you need to talk to him about what he's doing while he's in there. If he's using the bathroom for three hours a day, then you should encourage him to see a doctor. If he's doing other things in there, then you should talk to him about why he feels like he needs to hide away in the bathroom to conduct his business.

This shows a serious lack of respect for you, both as a partner and a person. You should let him know that you will not tolerate this behavior if he intends to stay married to you. If he continues to yell at you, then you should think about divorce.

Let him know that you don't feel like it's appropriate for him to talk to his ex. If he continues to do it despite your objections, you may want to consider counseling or divorce.

You two may need to consider counseling. A professional might be able to help the two of you work through your sexual differences and find compromises to keep you both happy. However, you may have to decide whether or not your marriage is worth saving if you'll always be sexually unsatisfied.

Talk to him and explain how his actions make you feel. If need be, seek out marital counseling.

Both of you sound immature. You need to work on your communication -- ignoring your husband instead of trying to fix the problem isn't healthy. However, if you need some space to calm down before talking about a problem, then let your husband know that. Your husband needs to learn how to manage his anger and frustration as well. If you two are unable to learn how to communicate in a healthy way on your own, you may need to seek counseling.

Have you explained what you need from him? Was he like this before marriage? If so, why did you expect him to change? if not, explain that you miss how you used to be so close and tell him you want that back. Keep in mind that you can initiate snuggles too.

For starters, appreciate (verbally, to him) the fact that in an age when so many people don't honor and take care of their parents, your husband does. That's a pretty awesome thing. Of course, as his spouse, you must be his first priority. If you're not feeling prioritized, something has to change. Praise him and then gently explain how you feel, providing examples of when he's put his mother first over you to back up your assertion. Ask if there's any way to work together to figure out how to balance his time and attention more.

This is abusive behavior and you need to think long and hard about whether or not you'd be happy with this for the rest of your life. Would you let your brother, sister, or best friend be in your situation where they were unhappy, abused, and feeling as if they have no self respect? You deserve to be loved, happy, and to love yourself. If being with him is making you feel this horrible then you need to either seek marriage counseling, have a serious talk with him, or consider divorce.

Try to explain to him calmly, when he is in a calm mood, that it is important to discuss things like this within a marriage and important, in general, to communicate rather than avoiding communication. Make sure he knows you are not trying to attack him or make him feel bad, just to have a normal, productive discussion - and make sure you are nice, not hostile, when you bring up such a topic. If he continues to react the same way, then marriage counseling, therapy for your husband to help him with whatever it is that makes him so insecure/aggressive, or divorce would be the best options to consider.

You need to communicate honestly. Your marriage will never work if either of you feels unhappy and unheard. You need to talk openly and be willing to find a compromise.

Your husband's comments are hurtful and disrespectful. Reflect on whether this is the relationship you want. Calmly discuss with him how his words affect you. If he doesn't change, consider seeing a counselor or therapist for guidance.

Talk to your husband about how his comparisons make you feel. Explain that it can be hurtful and make you feel inadequate. Ask him why he does it—is it to motivate you or point out shortcomings? Consider building confidence to lessen the impact of his comparisons, and encourage him to focus on positive aspects of your relationship. Seek professional help if the comparisons become frequent and distressing.

Dealing with stonewalling can be challenging. Try to understand why your husband is stonewalling, as he may need time to process his thoughts and feelings. Approach him in a non-confrontational way, express your desire to understand, and offer to listen without judgment. Give him space to process his feelings, but establish boundaries by communicating that prolonged stonewalling is not acceptable and that you need open communication.

This is a complicated issue, and it's important to clarify the main problem, as it might not be what you think. Visiting a counselor alone could help you understand and address it effectively. Stay positive and good luck!

You can't force someone to respect you; it has to come from them. My best advice is to stand firm and not allow disrespect, which might mean staying with a trusted friend, leaving, or considering couples therapy.

This is a tough situation. Try discussing your feelings with him in a calm setting, using "I" statements like "I feel hurt when you flirt with my friends" to express how you feel. Avoid starting sentences with "you" to prevent him from becoming defensive.

Try to find an appropriate time and place to talk to him away from those distractions. Express how you feel and ask how he feels about what you've shared. Starting a dialogue can help you understand each other better.

Consider buying specific cabinets for his collectibles to give him a designated space, while explaining that you don't want it to take over shared areas. Compromise is key.

You should communicate with him and express how you feel. If he doesn't understand, this may not be healthy. While your love might feel real in the moment, if he ignores or argues with you afterwards, it's a red flag. Consider if he only loves you for your body, as this might mean he's not the one for you.

Talk to him directly to understand why he is ignoring you, as communication is vital. If verbal communication is difficult, consider writing a letter. If he continues to ignore you, involve a third party to help address the issue, as unresolved problems can damage a relationship over time.

Consider seeking professional help or counseling to address these issues with your husband. If the situation does not improve, you might need to evaluate the relationship and consider other options for your well-being.

If you are certain of your concerns and have already spoken with a counselor, but your husband doesn't try to improve, it might be best to consider separation. You cannot love someone who doesn't allow you to do so.

If you are both comfortable discussing your feelings, try to have an open and honest conversation. Discuss the issue and why you both feel the way you do. Make sure to listen to each other and work towards finding a resolution together.

Some people naturally have a higher sex drive. It's good that he finds you attractive, but it's important to communicate your needs and boundaries.