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    My boyfriend doesn’t spend a lot of time with me. What should I do?
    Janice Tieperman
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    Remind him that your time is valuable! Let him text and call you first, and wait a little while before you reply to his messages.
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    My boyfriend doesn't call me but I do frequently. What should I do?
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    Stop calling him as much, and let him miss you.
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    What shall I do to make my boyfriend miss me? He's so into his work and his new car and he rarely calls me. We decided to marry, but he has been withholdng emtion, as he wanted to focus on his career and financial stability.
    Aaliyah Love 37
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    Sit down with him and express how you feel. If he wants to be with you, he will fix things.
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    What do I do if my boyfriend answers everything I share, even deep things from my heart, with "Oh"?
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    That's frustrating. You should definitely let him know that "Oh" is an inadequate response in those situations. Some guys haven't had a good model for how to communicate with women, so he may need some help from you to know how to better reply.
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    What should I do if my boyfriend doesn't appreciate me?
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    Tell him that you feel like he doesn't appreciate you and if he still doesn't change his actions, then consider ending the relationship. If someone doesn't treat you as if you're more than just an ordinary person, then they're not right for you.
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    How can I keep my boyfriend's interest?
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    Express interest in fun activities that you know he would enjoy. Don't forget to give him his personal space, but at the same time, make sure you let him know that you will always be there for him. It may also help to be little naughty.
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    How to make your boyfriend respect you?
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    See How to Get Respect from Your Boyfriend or Guyfriend for some tips. However, if your boyfriend regularly disrespects you, he's probably just not a good person and not worth being with.
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    What is the best answer to give my boyfriend if he asks what's on my mind?
    Aaliyah Love 37
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    The honest truth. Don't think too hard, just say whatever comes to mind.
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    What do I do if I think that my boyfriend is cheating on me?
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    Look for proof that he's cheating on you, such as if he's not spending a lot of time with you or spending too much time smiling or blushing to his phone every day and hiding his phone from your eyes, etc. For more help, read How to Catch a Cheating Boyfriend .
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    My boyfriend is too busy, sometimes we agree on a date then turns down the date without communicating. What do I do?
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    He shouldn't cancel a date without telling you why or trying to make it up to you--this is disrespectful. Tell him how you feel and hold him accountable for his actions.
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    What should I do if my boyfriend says he wants space, but adds that he doesn't have a problem with me?
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    It's possible that your boyfriend just needs some place. Some people, especially introverts, can get easily overwhelmed when they have to interact with other people. It's also possible that you are trying to rush into the relationship too fast, and that he is not ready for it. Tone down on the calling and texting for about a week and see what happens.
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    My boyfriend is too busy at work and doesn't have much time for me. What should I do?
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    Try to set up little date nights or date days (if he works a night shift or want to spend a whole day together) on one or more of his days off. Find other ways to connect like writing notes or emails during especially busy times.
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    What does it mean when your BF says "he has to go" even though you just started the call?
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    Maybe he's in the middle of something or has something urgent to attend to. You can ask him the next time you talk to him why he wasn't able to talk earlier, and he should be able to tell you. If he doesn't have an answer, and especially if he does this a lot, it could be that he's not interested in you anymore, that he's hiding something, or even just that he doesn't like talking on the phone.
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    I'm in high school, and my boyfriend goes here too. He asked me for some space and said he "wants to spend more time with his friends". What should I do?
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    Just give him some space and he will appreciate it. If you see him not wanting to talk to you after that, that's a sign that he doesn't want to be with you anymore. I've had this happen to me, and the biggest mistake I made is believing that I did something wrong. If you break up do not blame yourself. I know that you really care about him, but you need to let him have some space if he asks for it, and then maybe he'll realize what a catch you are and want to spend more time with you again.
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    My boyfriend always calls me whenever he is in school, does that mean he loves and misses me ?
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    Yes, this is a good sign. If he calls you frequently, that means he is thinking about you throughout the day.
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    How do you clear your boyfriend's suspicion that you are cheating on him?
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    What has happened for this suspicion to arise? The answer will really depend on that and whether or not he truly has reason to be suspicious. If there is no reason, make it clear that nothing has happened and that you love him alone but that you would like to know why he feels this way. Then address his reasons one by one. If he still doubts you, then perhaps he as a bigger agenda about finding a reason to dump you than actually holding this belief. If there is a reason for his suspicion, own up or shift out, as there is no point to living a lie.
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    My boyfriend is a farmer, so I don't get the chance to go on dates. If he ever asks, should I refuse so I don't seem desperate?
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    No. Turning him down without a valid reason when he is free means that you both will miss out on quality time and it could make him feel undesired.
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    How to make my boyfriend text me everyday?
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    Text him open-ended questions, especially about his interests or things going on in his life.
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    My boyfriend does not call me. I always call him. What can I do?
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    Maybe he is busy. Try to talk to him about that. Don't blame him or start a fight. Instead, tell him you would appreciate if he tried to call you more.
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    I just started dating him and he already acts like he hates me. What should I do?
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    Dump him! You deserve so much better! He should give you love instead of hate.
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    What if my boyfriend and I live in different countries?
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    Do you think you can make it work? Are you both really into it? If the answer to the question is clear and yes, then be patient and try to stay in touch trough texts and calls. But if the answer is not sure or not really, then you don't need to keep up the charade and it's probably best to let each other go.
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    How do I text a potential boyfriend to say good morning?
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    Try something like "Good morning baby," or "Missed you last night (winky face)." Just have fun with it and use cute emojis.
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    I've lost myself in my relationship and am not myself. My boyfriend has stuck by me throughout it all but I can see he's losing interest. What do I do to show him I know better without clinging to him?
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    You need to honestly talk to him about your concerns and see if he has really lost interest or noticed anything. After that, begin working towards creating a relationship that works for the both of you.
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    When leaving something behind, should I leave my panties?
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    Yes, you should! Another idea is to "accidentally" send him a nude pic to remind him of what he's missing.
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    Every time I tell him something, he always replies with "okay" and I'm usually the one that starts the conversations. What do I do?
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    It sounds like he is a bit disinterested and distant. If you are feeling neglected, bring it up to him and explain how you are feeling. Men aren't that complicated, but they are extremely oblivious, so he might not even know that he is doing it.
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    What should I do if my boyfriend assumes things, doubts me, beats me, and embarrasses me in front of others?
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    Leave him. That is an abusive relationship, and abusers almost never change. You can do better. If he threatens to hurt you when you leave him, file a restraining order.
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    What should I do if my boyfriend is so cold to me after our fight?
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    Just give him time, and give the argument time to de-escalate.
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    What should I do if my boyfriend at times decides not to pick up my calls or text me back for a week with the aim of making me miss him?
    Community Answer
    You should communicate that that isn't acceptable, or you should find a new boyfriend. It's very rude and inconsiderate to do that to someone you care about.
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    What should I do if we won't be together for life?
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    You can choose to distance yourself from your partner as it will be beneficial for you in the long run. Try not to be overly attached.
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    Broke up with my boyfriend for 3 weeks. We recently got back together, but he said we should take it slowly and not tell anyone just yet. I feel I'm the only one trying here. Where is it going?
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    If you're confused, talk to him about whether he's even serious about your relationship with him. Talk to him calmly, never raise your voice and tell him how you feel about it. You'll get answers from him and maybe he IS trying but you don't see it. If your relationship has great improvements after a break-up, then you're very lucky.
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