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  • Question
    If I am a male, why do I enjoy wearing a bra?
    Community Answer
    Some men just like the look and feel of a good bra. There's no real explanation; people just like what they like.
  • Question
    As a man, is it better for me to wear a bra or not?
    Community Answer
    If you need and want the support, then you should wear a bra. Also, you should wear one if you enjoy doing so.
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    How can a male buy a bra?
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    There are a few options. You could buy a bra via the internet; however, it should be noted that with regards to size, the standard size of clothing varies between different clothing outlets and can even vary within the store itself and even for the same bra design. (An example of this is if you buy two dresses from an online store that both say 32, but are actually different fits). You can also buy a bra in person, though this does carry the risk of you being outed. However, lingerie assistants are known for their discreetness. The positives for doing so are that you will be able to see the bras before you buy them. If you are going to do this and don't want people to know, either choose a reputable and discreet place or travel to another area.
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    I need to fill my bra with my breasts, so how do I grow to an AA size to start?
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    Taking estradiol (brand name Estrofem) in the proper dosages (usually 4mg per day) will develop breasts and feminine nipples. It takes time--usually you will notice your nipples enlarging and the aerola darkening and expanding. Growing to an AA cup and then stopping hormones may result in some unpleasant effects. Many men who start developing breasts this way think they will stop with only a modest growth. However, what they don't understand is that once nipples enlarge they become very sensitive, like a woman's. The feelings are very pleasant and many men change their minds and keep taking estrogen. Talk to your doctor first.
  • Question
    A women's bra holds the silicone inserts too high on my chest, even with the shoulder straps fully extended. What can I do to achieve a more natural appearance?
    Community Answer
    Simply purchase a bra with longer straps or consult a specialist at a lingerie or department store.
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    How do I measure myself to determine what size bra I need?
    Community Answer
    Lingerie shops and department stores selling lingerie can measure you and inform you fully of what bra size you are. You might also find it helpful to read Measure Your Bra Size .
  • Question
    Where can I purchase a male bra?
    RamuneRoo
    Community Answer
    There isn't a specific male bra; you must use a regular bra. You can buy a regular bra at most stores that sell clothing.
  • Question
    Why do guys like to wear bras?
    Community Answer
    Some guys like the feel, how it looks, or just as an accessory to feel more feminine.
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    Are there rubber or silicone bras?
    Community Answer
    Yes, but they tend to be expensive and are more of a fetish item and not for day-to-day wear. You can find bras that are basically breastforms by doing a simple online search. The best option is to buy a real bra and use inserts.
  • Question
    Is a wonder bra the best thing to wear for cleavage?
    Jasper Stuart
    Community Answer
    There are a lot of different ways to achieve good looking cleavage. Find what works for you. If you want to go all out, try makeup to enhance it.
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    What if I want my breast to have that uplifted look?
    Community Answer
    I recommend a Triumph Doreen bra. They are an old design that bring back the days of conical or pointy breasts.
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    Should I have a rubber or silicone bra?
    Community Answer
    These are usually only for fetish use, it's best to purchase a nice sexy panty and bra set in your size. I find padded or slightly padded bras give me an uplift and a very nice look.
  • Question
    How can I hide a sports bra?
    Community Answer
    Undershirts one size larger than normally worn will help hide any bulge created by your bra.
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    What would be the smallest sized bra for man with a 48 inch chest, slightly overweight and small man boobs?
    Community Answer
    Maybe a B or a B and a half. This depends on weight, and in genetic cases mostly this can be affected by your height. Look hard for a bra that's your style and fit. You can try to measure yourself or get it done by a professional tailor.
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    What size do bras go up to?
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    In most stores, a DD or DDD is the highest you can get. However, plus-size stores like Torrid and Lane Bryant carry larger ones - up to an F or G cup. There is typically a larger selection of large sizes if you order online.
  • Question
    Are there bras that can give the illusion of breasts under a dress shirt without collapsing in?
    Community Answer
    To prevent your bra from collapsing, you will have to stuff it with inserts, tissues, or a very padded bra.
  • Question
    I wear bras at home, but now I want to wear bras in public, but I am not out yet. I am a 38B, what style bra can I wear that is not too noticeable?
    Norman
    Community Answer
    I would just wear a sport bra. Although you can't stuff them, you still get the feel of wearing a bra.
  • Question
    Is it common for a guy to wear a bra and want to show it off?
    Norman
    Community Answer
    The showing off part could be counted as uncommon but there are a lot of guys who love to wear bras and that is okay.
  • Question
    Can I wear a bandeau?
    Norman
    Community Answer
    While you could, if you are going for a real look, then breast forms would look better in a normal bra.
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    What do I do if my band size is not my actual measurement when wearing a bra as a male crossdresser?
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    Pick up a few different band sizes of bra that you think may possibly fit. If you’re in a store, try them all on and find the one that best fits you, if you’re online try them on at home and return the ones that don’t fit (just be sure not to remove any tags / hygiene stickers and be sure to check the website you’re buying from to make sure they allow the return of undwear). Once you find a band size that fits you can try a few different cup sizes on in that band depending if you’re using inserts or not.
  • Question
    Is it bad or strange for a transgender male to want to crossplay as a woman, even after top surgery? Isn't that the opposite of the goal?
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    No. There's a difference between crossdressing or crossplaying and actually identifying as or being involuntarily viewed as a gender you're not. Some trans people are more comfortable with crossplaying or other forms of gender expression than others, just like how some cisgender people are more comfortable crossplaying or expressing their gender in nontraditional ways. And just like how crossplaying doesn't make cis people transgender, crossplaying (or any other form of crossdressing) doesn't make you any less transgender.
  • Question
    I want my breasts to look smaller. As a guy, it feels very bad to have breasts. Which bra should I wear?
    Nico
    Top Answerer
    A sports bra or a strapless bra might work for you. A tube bra could also be a good choice.
  • Question
    Does it matter if anyone sees my bra?
    Top Answerer
    It's not the end of the world. Some people don't want their bra to be visible at all. But if it is visible, it's not a big deal.
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