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How can I win a girl's heart?

Moshe Ratson, MFT, PCC
Marriage & Family Therapist
Moshe Ratson is the Executive Director of spiral2grow Marriage & Family Therapy, a coaching and therapy clinic in New York City. Moshe is an International Coach Federation accredited Professional Certified Coach (PCC). He received his MS in Marriage and Family Therapy from Iona College. Moshe is a clinical member of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT), and a member of the International Coach Federation (ICF).

Moshe Ratson, MFT, PCC

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Act confident around her to show her that you're authentic. Be careful not to act arrogant though, since that could be a turnoff.

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What can I say to a girl to make her like me?

Moshe Ratson, MFT, PCC
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Moshe Ratson is the Executive Director of spiral2grow Marriage & Family Therapy, a coaching and therapy clinic in New York City. Moshe is an International Coach Federation accredited Professional Certified Coach (PCC). He received his MS in Marriage and Family Therapy from Iona College. Moshe is a clinical member of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT), and a member of the International Coach Federation (ICF).

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Try offering her a compliment to let her know that you're interested in her.

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Is it good for a girl to tell me that she has a boyfriend but she needs me?

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No. She's probably just using you - for comfort, for attention, etc. She already has a boyfriend, and you shouldn't try to get in the middle of her relationship. Just stay away from her.

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How do I avoid cheating on someone when I doubt my love for the person I'm with right now?

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If you doubt your love for this person and you're thinking of cheating, just break up with them. Stop wasting your time and theirs and move on.

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How do I make someone love me if I think I'm going to be put in the friend zone?

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Maybe wait a while until you've seen signs you won't be friendzoned but rather, will be received warmly and positively.

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Is she cheating if she doesn't give me her phone?

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No--everyone has a right to privacy; you shouldn’t be asking to see her phone! Respect her boundaries and learn to develop trust.

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How do I deal with her not talking to me much after I told her I liked her?

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She may be feeling awkward because she feels differently and doesn't want to have to reject you. Give it time and give her some space. If she still wants to be friends with you, she'll approach you. Likewise if she just needed time to sort her feelings and discovers that she likes you as well.

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If I tell her that I like her and she says wants time to think about it, can I go on to buy her gifts or I should also wait a bit?

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Wait a bit or she might think you are taking it a bit too fast. She might just think it's just infatuation or lust.

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