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    What causes someone to be an attention seeker?
    Supatra Tovar, PsyD, RD
    Licensed Clinical Psychologist
    Dr. Supatra Tovar is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist (PSY #31949), Registered Dietitian, Fitness Expert, and the Owner of Dr. Supatra Tovar and Associates. Dr. Tovar has worked in the fields of health education, clinical dietetics, and psychology. With over 25 years of holistic wellness experience, she practices Holistic Health Psychotherapy. She combines her psychology, diet, and fitness knowledge to help those struggling with depression, weight gain, eating disorders, life transitions, and relationships. Dr. Tovar holds a BA in Environmental Biology from The University of Colorado Boulder, an MS in Nutrition Science from California State University, Los Angeles, and a PsyD in Clinical Health Psychology from Alliant International University, Los Angeles.
    Licensed Clinical Psychologist
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    Attention-seekers usually feel unsure of themselves and need some extra validation about their self-worth.
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    How do I change my thoughts from negative to positive?
    Supatra Tovar, PsyD, RD
    Licensed Clinical Psychologist
    Dr. Supatra Tovar is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist (PSY #31949), Registered Dietitian, Fitness Expert, and the Owner of Dr. Supatra Tovar and Associates. Dr. Tovar has worked in the fields of health education, clinical dietetics, and psychology. With over 25 years of holistic wellness experience, she practices Holistic Health Psychotherapy. She combines her psychology, diet, and fitness knowledge to help those struggling with depression, weight gain, eating disorders, life transitions, and relationships. Dr. Tovar holds a BA in Environmental Biology from The University of Colorado Boulder, an MS in Nutrition Science from California State University, Los Angeles, and a PsyD in Clinical Health Psychology from Alliant International University, Los Angeles.
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    Challenge your negative thoughts as they pop up! Change thoughts like "I am unworthy" or "I am nothing without attention" to more positive ones, like "I am whole and complete" or "I don't need anyone to give me value."
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    Is it bad to praise yourself?
    Supatra Tovar, PsyD, RD
    Licensed Clinical Psychologist
    Dr. Supatra Tovar is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist (PSY #31949), Registered Dietitian, Fitness Expert, and the Owner of Dr. Supatra Tovar and Associates. Dr. Tovar has worked in the fields of health education, clinical dietetics, and psychology. With over 25 years of holistic wellness experience, she practices Holistic Health Psychotherapy. She combines her psychology, diet, and fitness knowledge to help those struggling with depression, weight gain, eating disorders, life transitions, and relationships. Dr. Tovar holds a BA in Environmental Biology from The University of Colorado Boulder, an MS in Nutrition Science from California State University, Los Angeles, and a PsyD in Clinical Health Psychology from Alliant International University, Los Angeles.
    Licensed Clinical Psychologist
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    Not at all—there's nothing wrong with celebrating yourself! Adopt a superhero pose, pat yourself on the back, take yourself out for ice cream, or do something else that makes you feel good. Recognize the hard work you are putting in and give yourself a little treat!
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    How can I boost my self-esteem and confidence?
    Supatra Tovar, PsyD, RD
    Licensed Clinical Psychologist
    Dr. Supatra Tovar is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist (PSY #31949), Registered Dietitian, Fitness Expert, and the Owner of Dr. Supatra Tovar and Associates. Dr. Tovar has worked in the fields of health education, clinical dietetics, and psychology. With over 25 years of holistic wellness experience, she practices Holistic Health Psychotherapy. She combines her psychology, diet, and fitness knowledge to help those struggling with depression, weight gain, eating disorders, life transitions, and relationships. Dr. Tovar holds a BA in Environmental Biology from The University of Colorado Boulder, an MS in Nutrition Science from California State University, Los Angeles, and a PsyD in Clinical Health Psychology from Alliant International University, Los Angeles.
    Licensed Clinical Psychologist
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    Find personal satisfaction in what you're doing! Studies show that internal motivation stemming from personal satisfaction is more helpful for achieving long-term goals than external motivation, like praise or rewards. Recognizing your own efforts is a great way to boost your personal satisfaction while also decreasing your need for validation.
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    How can I make me feel better about myself?
    Supatra Tovar, PsyD, RD
    Licensed Clinical Psychologist
    Dr. Supatra Tovar is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist (PSY #31949), Registered Dietitian, Fitness Expert, and the Owner of Dr. Supatra Tovar and Associates. Dr. Tovar has worked in the fields of health education, clinical dietetics, and psychology. With over 25 years of holistic wellness experience, she practices Holistic Health Psychotherapy. She combines her psychology, diet, and fitness knowledge to help those struggling with depression, weight gain, eating disorders, life transitions, and relationships. Dr. Tovar holds a BA in Environmental Biology from The University of Colorado Boulder, an MS in Nutrition Science from California State University, Los Angeles, and a PsyD in Clinical Health Psychology from Alliant International University, Los Angeles.
    Licensed Clinical Psychologist
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    Take a look at your strengths and positive qualities. What are you really good at? What are your talents? Paying attention to these qualities can help boost your self-confidence and lower your need for praise and validation.
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    A boy called me a whore, is it true?
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    No, he was just being immature and trying to get a reaction out of you. Don't give him one. If this happened at school, tell a teacher.
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