Q&A for How to Become More Masculine when Feminine

You can make it look like you're just going through a tomboy phase. All you have to do is make this phase last for years. Cut your hair if you're allowed, and wear baggy clothing. They probably won't be worried, as long as they think you're a girl. The only bad thing is that you can't change your name or pronouns, but if you don't want them to know you're transgender, this is the only way.

It doesn't have to be. Crying is a natural human reaction, and doesn't have to be gendered. Obviously, don't cry all the time or whine and complain about everything, but crying whether you're in front of people or not just means you aren't an emotionless robot. If anything, cry and show your emotion so that you aren't seen as emotionless. Being emotionless isn't masculine, it just makes it a lot harder to reach out to people.

Being masculine is about being in control. This doesn't mean becoming completely devoid of emotion. Show emotion when appropriate.

The jawline helps you appear more masculine, but it's not a necessity.

Sit with your legs wide apart while leaning forward and keeping your hands linked -- this is a very classic masculine sitting pose. Also, like this article says, focus on strong eye contact and good posture as well.

They probably don't care, and you shouldn't worry about what they think, anyway.

You will probably need to wear a binder. Check out the article on How to Bind Your Chest for tips and safety precautions.

You can try a "double sports bra" method where you wear two sports bras, one worn normally and one backwards.

You can't just be trans one day. You either are or aren't. If you mean you want to transition one day, then the first step would be to start referring to yourself as a man, and having people use he/him pronouns. You don't have to look like a man to start living as one. As for extra tips, the most general thing is to buy clothes from the mens' section, get a masculine haircut (if possible, go to a barber and not a hairdresser, so long as they won't be transphobic), and avoid using things meant for women overall.

Remember the golden rule: treat others the way you want to be treated. If you want respect, you give others respect. They may appreciate it. Give it time and be consistent.

Try putting your hands in your pockets or crossing your arms. Those are good if you're standing, but if you are sitting, cross your arms or fold your hands together. Please remember that there is nothing wrong with having "effeminate" hand gestures, and you should not try to change yourself to please other people.

Try going to the gym or working out however you like. Focus on your upper body.

Some people might think so. But what does it matter what others think? Drive the kind of car you like.

If it's just shading it should be fine, but if you are doing eyeliner, blush, lipstick, eyebrows, etc., you should stop. Most masculine people don't wear makeup, whatever their gender. Either stop wearing makeup entirely or just tone it down a lot.

Try to adopt a confident posture. Even if you are not confident, fake it. Do things that make you feel good and that you are good at.

If you’re just going for a masculine look, then just focus on Part 3 of the article. You may want to change your posture or gestures as well, as it can help you appear more masculine, but it’s not necessary if you just want the fashion/look.

Some hobbies include archery, chess, photography, reading, bowling, paintball, playing the guitar, woodworking, playing pool, cooking, geocaching, etc. Articles online give some more examples.

Most people don't care whether or not you are masculine. Of course, there will always be people who aren't satisfied with who you are; some people make fun of people for being too masculine as well. If you want to change, change for yourself, not for what you want others to think of you.

You could wear a beanie if you tuck all your hair into it and it should look pretty cool. You can also ask your parents if you could dread your hair. Also, some men have 'man buns' so you could keep your hair like that.

Binding isn't always painful and harmful if done properly but there are also other ways to look more flat-chested. For example, you can do things like wear baggy clothing or wear lots of layers. You can also wear two sports bras to compress your chest a bit or make your own binder from an old pair of togs.

You can adopt a more masculine look or if you can’t do that, then try talking with your family about how you feel.

If you don't want to do it, then don't. It is your personal preference whether you want to be a more masculine lady or not.

Whether or not to take hormones is a major step. You should consult with a healthcare provider familiar with transgender issues. They will advise you on your options, and how best to proceed.

Most people don't pay much attention to thighs. If you're still worried, try wearing baggier pants.

Add black eye shadow under your waterline, it'll give your eyes a droopy, more masculine look!