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When you’re dating someone new, it can feel like completing a puzzle: do they like me? Do they not? Fortunately, by paying attention to your date’s actions (not just his words), you can feel out whether he actually likes you or if he’s just caught up in the moment. Read through some of the signs that the guy you’re dating likes you to learn more about your relationship and where it’s headed.

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He texts you first.

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He texts you long paragraphs.

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He asks you personal questions.

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  1. When you two chat, he moves the conversation beyond the surface level. He probably wants to know about your past, what you like to do for fun, and what your goals are. This interest is a great indicator that he likes you, because it shows that he wants to know you on a deeper level. [5]
    • He might ask questions like, “How’s your relationship with your parents?” “Where do you see yourself in 5 years?” or, “What’s your favorite relaxing activity?”
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Some guys can feel like a total mystery. How can you figure out if he likes you as just a friend—or if he wants something more? Take this quiz to find out!
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When you two are in a room filled with other people, how often do you catch him staring at you?

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    How do you respond to someone expressing their feelings?
    Shana Tibi
    Certified Professional Matchmaker
    Shana Tibi is a Certified Professional Matchmaker, Date and Relationship Coach, and the Founder of Curated Connections, a matchmaking service for single professionals. Shana specializes in understanding core values and personal preferences to curate dates. She holds a BA in Peace Studies and Conflict Resolution from Prescott College and an MSW in Social Work from California State University, Hayward. She is an active member of the Global Love Institute where she earned her matchmaking certifications.
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    If it's mutual, go for it! Try to learn a bit more about why that person likes you, what are their interests, what are the core values that you two share that are creating this connection and explore that. If it's not mutual, just be honest!
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      References

      1. Shana Tibi. Certified Professional Matchmaker. Expert Interview. 19 October 2021.
      2. https://socialself.com/blog/how-to-tell-if-a-guy-likes-you/
      3. Shana Tibi. Certified Professional Matchmaker. Expert Interview. 19 October 2021.
      4. Shana Tibi. Certified Professional Matchmaker. Expert Interview. 19 October 2021.
      5. Shana Tibi. Certified Professional Matchmaker. Expert Interview. 19 October 2021.
      6. https://socialself.com/blog/how-to-tell-if-a-guy-likes-you/
      7. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/let-their-words-do-the-talking/201607/5-nonverbal-clues-someone-is-interested-in-you
      8. Shana Tibi. Certified Professional Matchmaker. Expert Interview. 19 October 2021.
      9. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/let-their-words-do-the-talking/201607/5-nonverbal-clues-someone-is-interested-in-you

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