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So, I have a crush and I really like him so I told a girl that I talk to and she said she would tell him for me, right. Well, so much people tell me not to trust her and that she might not actually be telling him or lying about what she says. So I wrote a letter to him and she took it out my hand and gave it to him because I was hesitant, I've had a crush on him for so long already. So, she gave it to him and I walked off because I didn't want him to see me and she told me that he had tried to throw it away but that his friend got it.
But I didn't see what really happened. Now she's telling me that he wants to ask out a girl and that she thinks it's me, but he hasn't asked her out yet. She is just putting my hopes up so high and I'm scared to have my hopes fall back down because it will hurt, BAD.
She also told me that he called me cute but I don't know if I can trust her. What do I do I'm SO confused AND I'm hurting. I will take anything, criticism and everything else, just please tell me what to do.
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So, I have a crush and I really like him so I told a girl that I talk to and she said she would tell him for me, right. Well, so much people tell me not to trust her and that she might not actually be telling him or lying about what she says. So I wrote a letter to him and she took it out my hand and gave it to him because I was hesitant, I've had a crush on him for so long already. So, she gave it to him and I walked off because I didn't want him to see me and she told me that he had tried to throw it away but that his friend got it.
But I didn't see what really happened. Now she's telling me that he wants to ask out a girl and that she thinks it's me, but he hasn't asked her out yet. She is just putting my hopes up so high and I'm scared to have my hopes fall back down because it will hurt, BAD.
She also told me that he called me cute but I don't know if I can trust her. What do I do I'm SO confused AND I'm hurting. I will take anything, criticism and everything else, just please tell me what to do.
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It can be so tough when another person tells your crush that you like them, especially if you don't know if that person is telling the truth about it. If you're worried about this girl spreading the wrong message, you might want to limit what you tell her in the future.
When it comes to your crush, don't be afraid to just go talk to him directly about what you're feeling. You could ask him if he read your letter or just tell him that you like him and wanted to let him know so that he isn't confused or hearing the wrong info from anyone else. If he likes you or thinks you're cute, he may be scared to act on his feelings because he's not sure how you really feel, especially if that girl is playing games with both of you.
There's a chance that he might not have the same feelings back, but you won't know for sure unless you open up to him. If he tells you that he's not interested, take a little time to yourself to feel sad, but then spend time doing hobbies you love or hanging out with supportive friends that can help you navigate through it.
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When it comes to your crush, don't be afraid to just go talk to him directly about what you're feeling. You could ask him if he read your letter or just tell him that you like him and wanted to let him know so that he isn't confused or hearing the wrong info from anyone else. If he likes you or thinks you're cute, he may be scared to act on his feelings because he's not sure how you really feel, especially if that girl is playing games with both of you.
There's a chance that he might not have the same feelings back, but you won't know for sure unless you open up to him. If he tells you that he's not interested, take a little time to yourself to feel sad, but then spend time doing hobbies you love or hanging out with supportive friends that can help you navigate through it.
More happened, somewhat. So, I was in after school and his friends went up to me and told me that he liked me and kept trying to pull him towards me, but he said no, that he doesn't like me. Then, not too long ago I dropped off two of my friends for their science class but then when I was walking away I walked right next to him, so close that I almost touched his shirt and he was smiling looking down at the floor but then I walked further away but not too far and I heard his friends kind of like saying, "Oooh" and stuff like that. Kind of like cheering him on or something. What does that mean? and how would I be able to talk to him, he is always with his friends and I don't want to make a conversation awkward.
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If you like him but aren't sure if he's going to make a move, I think it's always good to just start off friendly and casual and start just chatting with them. You can make some comment about whatever situation that you're in. If you're both at school, you can make a comment about your homework or something related. Just strike up a conversation or make an observation about something around you or about them.
Oftentimes, it's best to just be confident and be direct say “Hey, I'd like to get to know you better. Let's get together.” It's showing that you're confident and direct, and that you're just going for it.
If somebody likes you and is interested in you, you will know it because they're going to give you attention and respect. They're not going to just ignore you or not return your calls or your texts.
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Oftentimes, it's best to just be confident and be direct say “Hey, I'd like to get to know you better. Let's get together.” It's showing that you're confident and direct, and that you're just going for it.
If somebody likes you and is interested in you, you will know it because they're going to give you attention and respect. They're not going to just ignore you or not return your calls or your texts.
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