What are the biggest red flags in Virgo men?
05/06/25 8:21pm
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Virgo men are ruled by Mercury, so they are very analytical and philosophical. This is a good thing, but it can also lead to some red flags. Because their minds are always working and always analyzing, they can be prone to anxiety and even hypochondria.
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I try to stay away from the gendered personality because we're so much more multifaceted than that – and social conditioning plays a big role in it. So, I don't really think it's Virgo men versus Virgo women.
The answer is red flags in general for any Virgo would be someone who is a little too calculated . You may wonder, why are you asking all those questions? Are you trying to gather more information so that you can control the situation and possibly manipulate me?
One thing with a Virgo is to pay attention to whether the person is a little too different among different groups of people. See if they are really good at doing the mercurial thing of putting on masks and shape shifting as needed.
The other thing I would say is that a Virgo may be a little too wound up and rigid or safe, so if you’re someone who wants adventure and spontaneity, there might be red flags in Virgos to look out for, like being too risk-averse. That's not necessarily a red flag. It just depends on where you're coming from and what you want out of a relationship.
And a lot of Virgos can have anxiety too, which might impact compatibility. A lot of Virgos may be anal, uptight, rigid – some Virgos can have that. But you can decide for yourself, is that a red flag for you?
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The answer is red flags in general for any Virgo would be someone who is a little too calculated . You may wonder, why are you asking all those questions? Are you trying to gather more information so that you can control the situation and possibly manipulate me?
One thing with a Virgo is to pay attention to whether the person is a little too different among different groups of people. See if they are really good at doing the mercurial thing of putting on masks and shape shifting as needed.
The other thing I would say is that a Virgo may be a little too wound up and rigid or safe, so if you’re someone who wants adventure and spontaneity, there might be red flags in Virgos to look out for, like being too risk-averse. That's not necessarily a red flag. It just depends on where you're coming from and what you want out of a relationship.
And a lot of Virgos can have anxiety too, which might impact compatibility. A lot of Virgos may be anal, uptight, rigid – some Virgos can have that. But you can decide for yourself, is that a red flag for you?
Some potential red flags associated with Virgo men include perfectionism, overthinking, and a tendency to be harsh or overly critical of others. They may also struggle with vulnerability, which can make them seem cold or emotionally detached sometimes. Just remember that, like all zodiac signs, Virgos have both positive and negative traits.
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