Q&A for How to Ignore Your Husband

Walk away with dignity, and let him go. Find closure. Know your worth.

It really depends on the person. If being silent seems to save you some aggression from your husband, then it's probably better to do that than to confront him. However, this does not sound like a healthy marriage, and you should not stay with someone who is violent toward you. This is unlikely to ever change, and you will have a miserable marriage. See How to Divorce Your Abusive Husband .

Call the police. Physical abuse can escalate. Please seek help, for yourself and your husband.

This is abuse, even if he doesn't physically touch you. Insist that he goes with you to couples counseling. If he won't make an effort to do that, leave him. Go to a relative's house or look up domestic abuse shelters in your area.

If it's been like this for a long time, and you don't think it's going to change, it would be best to consider divorce. There's no sense being stuck in a miserable relationship. If there is still hope, you can try to work things out with your husband. Tell him how you feel and what bothers you. Maybe get some marriage counseling.

That's not a normal amount of bathroom time per day, so you need to talk to him about what he's doing while he's in there. If he's using the bathroom for three hours a day, then you should encourage him to see a doctor. If he's doing other things in there, then you should talk to him about why he feels like he needs to hide away in the bathroom to conduct his business.

This shows a serious lack of respect for you, both as a partner and a person. You should let him know that you will not tolerate this behavior if he intends to stay married to you. If he continues to yell at you, then you should think about divorce.

Let him know that you don't feel like it's appropriate for him to talk to his ex. If he continues to do it despite your objections, you may want to consider counseling or divorce.

You two may need to consider counseling. A professional might be able to help the two of you work through your sexual differences and find compromises to keep you both happy. However, you may have to decide whether or not your marriage is worth saving if you'll always be sexually unsatisfied.

Talk to him and explain how his actions make you feel. If need be, seek out marital counseling.

Both of you sound immature. You need to work on your communication -- ignoring your husband instead of trying to fix the problem isn't healthy. However, if you need some space to calm down before talking about a problem, then let your husband know that. Your husband needs to learn how to manage his anger and frustration as well. If you two are unable to learn how to communicate in a healthy way on your own, you may need to seek counseling.

Have you explained what you need from him? Was he like this before marriage? If so, why did you expect him to change? if not, explain that you miss how you used to be so close and tell him you want that back. Keep in mind that you can initiate snuggles too.

For starters, appreciate (verbally, to him) the fact that in an age when so many people don't honor and take care of their parents, your husband does. That's a pretty awesome thing. Of course, as his spouse, you must be his first priority. If you're not feeling prioritized, something has to change. Praise him and then gently explain how you feel, providing examples of when he's put his mother first over you to back up your assertion. Ask if there's any way to work together to figure out how to balance his time and attention more.

This is abusive behavior and you need to think long and hard about whether or not you'd be happy with this for the rest of your life. Would you let your brother, sister, or best friend be in your situation where they were unhappy, abused, and feeling as if they have no self respect? You deserve to be loved, happy, and to love yourself. If being with him is making you feel this horrible then you need to either seek marriage counseling, have a serious talk with him, or consider divorce.

Try to explain to him calmly, when he is in a calm mood, that it is important to discuss things like this within a marriage and important, in general, to communicate rather than avoiding communication. Make sure he knows you are not trying to attack him or make him feel bad, just to have a normal, productive discussion - and make sure you are nice, not hostile, when you bring up such a topic. If he continues to react the same way, then marriage counseling, therapy for your husband to help him with whatever it is that makes him so insecure/aggressive, or divorce would be the best options to consider.

You need to communicate honestly. Your marriage will never work if either of you feels unhappy and unheard. You need to talk openly and be willing to find a compromise.

It's important to have an open and honest conversation with your husband about your concerns. Explain why you feel the need to check his phone and why it's causing you distress. If he isn't willing to discuss it, consider seeking couples counseling to work through the issues in a safe, non-judgmental environment.

This is a complicated issue, and it's important to clarify the main problem, as it might not be what you think. Visiting a counselor alone could help you understand and address it effectively. Stay positive and good luck!

You can't force someone to respect you; it has to come from them. My best advice is to stand firm and not allow disrespect, which might mean staying with a trusted friend, leaving, or considering couples therapy.

It's important to recognize that your feelings are valid and that finding a job can be challenging due to competition. Focus on industries or occupations that interest you to narrow your search, and network within those fields. Consider short-term roles for experience. Remember that your worth isn't determined by your job, and your husband's comments might come from concern. Stay positive and persevere.

This is a tough situation. Try discussing your feelings with him in a calm setting, using "I" statements like "I feel hurt when you flirt with my friends" to express how you feel. Avoid starting sentences with "you" to prevent him from becoming defensive.

Dealing with stonewalling can be challenging. Try to understand why your husband is stonewalling, as he may need time to process his thoughts and feelings. Approach him in a non-confrontational way, express your desire to understand, and offer to listen without judgment. Give him space to process his feelings, but establish boundaries by communicating that prolonged stonewalling is not acceptable and that you need open communication.

Communicate your feelings to your husband and explain how his behavior impacts you. Suggest ways he can be more considerate and set boundaries for acceptable behavior. Practice self-care by engaging in activities that bring you joy, and consider seeking professional help to better understand your feelings and improve communication.

It can be difficult when one partner feels taken for granted. Communicate your needs and feelings to your husband in a respectful and non-confrontational way. Let him know why you feel frustrated and that you'd like him to help more around the house. Suggest various responsibilities for him, like cutting grass, and express your willingness to assist. Set aside time to spend together to strengthen your bond.

Communicate openly and honestly with your husband about how his silence affects you. Ask him to explain his reasoning, be willing to listen, and try to come to a resolution together.

It is not acceptable to use the silent treatment as punishment, even if the husband is confrontational. It's important to communicate constructively and respectfully to resolve the issue.

Seek professional help from a therapist or counselor experienced in treating pornography addiction. Communicate openly about the addiction's impact on your relationship, and set healthy boundaries, such as no pictures of other women on his phone. Prioritize self-care and manage your stress through activities like exercise or meditation.

Your husband's comments are hurtful and disrespectful. Reflect on whether this is the relationship you want. Calmly discuss with him how his words affect you. If he doesn't change, consider seeing a counselor or therapist for guidance.

Communicate calmly and honestly. Offer to discuss the issue and express your willingness to work together to reach a resolution. Stay calm and patient, and try to encourage your husband to talk in a non-confrontational way. If he remains silent, take a break and revisit the conversation when emotions have settled.

Talk to your boyfriend about why you feel sex and romance have diminished in your relationship after 10 years. Find out if he shares these feelings and if he has any ideas for rekindling the spark.