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Does he actually like me?

WikiFawnWhisperer885
WikiFawnWhisperer885
06/06/25 10:03pm
He shows off to me, teases me, stares at me, plays and talks to me.. But he also is very shy and used to hi to me, but not anymore. Context: my friend asked why he says hi and apparently that made him back off. he also talks 2 other girls... at his table, but the girl talks 2 every guy so. help me idk what 2 do...
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Selenarrr11
Selenarrr11
06/07/25 3:33am
Talk to him and say, "Somebody said you like me is it true? Honestly, if he says no that doesn't matter. Look at body language. Is he red, looking away from you, fiddling his hands/fingers? Please give me an update if you do it.
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06/07/25 3:30am
Talk to him and say, "Somebody say you like me is it true? Honestly, if he says no that doesn't matter. Look at body language. Is he red, looking away from you, fiddling his hands/fingers? Please give me an update if you do it.
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