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I can't talk to him without getting nervous 💗

GuineapigsRcute
GuineapigsRcute
04/15/25 9:50pm
I'm sure I'm not the one but I need tips. I always say "I can do it" then I give up the second I see him!
I don't know what to talk to him about... The only time I see him is at our homeschool group and I just have no idea what to say 💡
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04/15/25 9:51pm
If you want to feel less nervous around your crush, try starting small: next time you see him, plan to sit near him, even if you don't talk. The time after that, plan to say hello or smile. Gradually work up to a full conversation (and you can start with small talk here: "How was your weekend?" "Did you finish the homework?").

Not only will it be easier to overcome your anxiety in baby steps, but each friendly interaction (a smile, a greeting) will give him a chance to respond. Getting a smile or a "hello" back from him may give you more confidence to keep talking to him. Good luck!
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