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Want to make your boyfriend laugh and start a random, funny conversation? Asking him silly and nonsensical questions is a fun way to learn more about him and get you both in a good mood. In fact, laughing and playing with your partner can strengthen your relationship! To help you get the conversation and laughter going, weβve compiled 100 funny questions to ask your boyfriend, ranging from βwould you ratherβ to random questions about his interests and beliefs.
Things You Should Know
- Start a funny conversation with "would you rather," "this or that," or hypothetical questions.
- Make your boyfriend laugh with questions about his childhood, embarrassing moments, and his best impressions.
- Get to know your boyfriend better by asking about his favorite foods, movies, destinations, and random objects.
Steps
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Spark a funny conversation with a game of βwould you rather.β Play βwould you ratherβ by giving your boyfriend 2 ridiculous scenarios or dilemmas that he has to choose between. Get a conversation going by asking him why he chose his option. Share what you would rather choose after he answers to see how similar or different you think! [1] X Research source
- βWould you rather your shoes are always untied or your pants zipper is permanently down?β
- βWould you rather never listen to music ever again or only listen to your least favorite songs?β
- βWould you rather forget to buy 1 important item or buy 10 unnecessary items every time you go to the grocery store?β
- βWould you rather be able to talk to animals or control plants?β
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Start a silly debate with βthis or thatβ questions. Be creative with your options and make the choices unrelated for a wacky conversation. These questions will highlight you and your boyfriendβs similarities and differences in a funny way! Donβt worry if he loves french fries while youβre a champion for tater tots, itβs actually healthy to have different tastes and interests from your boyfriend. [2] X Research source
- βBeach or mountains?β
- βDinosaurs or mythical creatures?β
- βSalty or sweet?β
- βAlways cold or always hot?β
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Put him in an apocalyptic scenario to see what he would do. Maybe heβd sail away to a secluded island while you think itβs best to hole up in a grocery store. This is a fun way to see how he would react to the situation and gives you the opportunity to tease him about his answer. Get creative with the situations you throw him in by incorporating places he goes or people he interacts with. [3] X Research source
- βYou just won the lottery but you can only buy 5 things before you have to donate the rest. What do you buy?β
- βYou stumble across a time machine. Do you go back into the past or to the future?β
- βYouβre offered a pill that will make you 50% more attractive or 50% more intelligent. Which one do you choose?β
- βIf you were deserted on an island, but could bring 5 items with you, what would you choose?β
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Fire off a totally random question to give your boyfriend a good laugh. Look around your surroundings and have him choose to be an inanimate object or ask him what body part heβd want an extra of. Some questions donβt have to tell you anything about him, but they can be a great way to lift your boyfriendβs mood when he has a bad day. [4] X Trustworthy Source HelpGuide Nonprofit organization dedicated to providing free, evidence-based mental health and wellness resources. Go to source
- βIf you could be any type of musical instrument, what would you be?β
- βHow many geckos would it take to beat a bear?β
- βHow would you reorder the alphabet?β
- βIf you were a type of drinking glass, what would you be?β
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Make him laugh and blush with an embarrassing question. This is a lighthearted way to get him to open up about his past. You can both grow closer and build trust as you share moments and experiences you donβt want anyone else to know about. [5] X Research source
- βHave you ever been caught in a lie?β
- βWhatβs the weirdest thing you did as a kid?β
- βWhatβs the weirdest thing Iβd find in your search history?β
- βHave you ever sent a text or made a post on social media that you regretted?β
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Uncover silly moments from his childhood. You might not have known your boyfriend as a kid, so this is a great way to see what he was like. You can tease him about how different he is from his younger self and grow closer from knowing more about him. [6] X Trustworthy Source PubMed Central Journal archive from the U.S. National Institutes of Health Go to source
- βWhatβs something funny you believed in as a kid that you were completely wrong about?β
- βDid you have a toy you couldnβt live without as a kid? What was it?β
- βWhat did you want to be when you grew up?β
- βDid you have an imaginary friend when you were a kid?β
- "Were you good or bad as a kid? Were you always in trouble?"
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Ask him about funny moments from his past relationships. If you and your boyfriend are still getting to know each other, this is a way to talk about previous partners and crushes and build trust while focusing on the lighthearted, embarrassing moments. Share your answers too so he knows heβs not alone in having awkward experiences.
- βWhatβs the most embarrassing moment you had with a crush?β
- βWhatβs the cringiest line youβve used on someone?β
- βHave you ever been stood up by a date?β
- βWho was the funniest celebrity crush you had as a kid?β
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Test your boyfriendβs impression skills while making him laugh. Make a game out of your questions to see who can do the best impressions. While youβre both laughing and playing, you're growing closer and building a more satisfying relationship. [7] X Trustworthy Source Greater Good Magazine Journal published by UC Berkeley's Greater Good Science Center, which uses scientific research to promote happier living Go to source
- βWhatβs your best cartoon impression?β
- βWhatβs your best celebrity impression?β
- βCan you act out your favorite movie scene?β
- βCan you do a dramatic reading of our most recent texts?β
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Learn about his favorite shows and movies. Understanding the genres, themes, and types of characters he likes to watch might tell you about the kind of person he is. [8] X Trustworthy Source Science Direct Online archive of peer-reviewed research on scientific, technical and medical topics Go to source Asking about his favorite movies and shows also gives you an arsenal of potential gift ideas and themed celebrations to plan.
- βYouβre stuck in your favorite movie. How will things go for you? What will happen?β
- βIf you had to watch the same TV show every month, what would you choose?β
- βWhat would you title the movie about your life?β
- βWhich cartoon character do you think is most like you?β
βIf you could eat only one food for the rest of your life, what would it be?β
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Find out what foods your boyfriend likes and dislikes. Questions about food can lead you to surprising places, like your boyfriend's favorite foreign meal or his nostalgic comfort snacks. As a bonus, you will learn what meals you can cook together to continue building your relationship. [9] X Research source
- βWhatβs the grossest thing youβve ever eaten?β
- βWhat food would you still not eat even if you were starving?β
- βYou have to give up one of your favorite foods for the rest of your life. What do you choose?β
- βWhatβs a food that you hate but other people love?β
βIf you could re-do the day that we met, what pick up line would you use on me?β
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Ask him about your relationship to strengthen your bond. Relationship talk doesnβt always have to be serious. Silly questions about yourself and how you met can help you both reminisce about your relationship and reaffirm your love for each other. [10] X Research source
- βIf we swapped bodies for a day, what would you do?β
- βWhat song describes our relationship?β
- βWhatβs your funniest memory of us together?β
- βWhat embarrassing nickname would you give me?β
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Increase your connection as you laugh and bond over flirty questions. Asking flirty questions can improve your communication and relationship satisfaction. Your questions can be as silly or suggestive as youβd like. [11] X Research source
- βWhoβs your celebrity crush?β
- βWhatβs your favorite part of my body?β
- βWhatβs your favorite romantic movie?β
- βWhat does the perfect date look like to you?β
βYou can travel to one place and then can never travel again. Where are you going?β
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Open up a conversation about travel experiences and wishes. This is a great way to learn more about your boyfriendβs past. Use his answers to plan a trip together that will help you grow your connection. [12] X Research source
- βIf you could live at the bottom of the ocean or on Mars, what would you choose?β
- βWhat are the top 3 places you want to visit?β
- βIf you could have been born in a different country, where would you choose?β
- βWhat popular destination do you have no desire to visit?β
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Ask about his favorite random objects and things. While itβs useful to know your boyfriendβs favorite foods, movies, and books, useless information is fun and can still help you learn more about him. [13] X Research source Surprise him with random categories and keep him guessing about what youβll ask next.
- βWhatβs your favorite tree?β
- βWhatβs your favorite type of cheese?β
- βWhatβs your favorite sea animal?β
- βWhatβs your favorite time of day?β
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Uncover your boyfriendβs wild side. Maybe heβs a secret thrill seeker or had a wild past, but by sharing his funny misadventures you are building trust and vulnerability. [14] X Research source If he is a thrill seeker, start planning some exciting activities that you can do together, like skydiving or zip lining.
- βHave you ever been kicked out of a bar?β
- βHave you ever dined and dashed?β
- βHave you ever crashed a wedding?β
- βHave you ever been skinny dipping?β
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Play a silly game of triviaβand make it all about your boyfriend's life. Ask questions about him that are unique and that you couldnβt find out without asking to keep the game fun. You will both grow closer as you laugh and learn random facts about each other. [15] X Trustworthy Source Greater Good Magazine Journal published by UC Berkeley's Greater Good Science Center, which uses scientific research to promote happier living Go to source
- βWhatβs a random fact that no one knows about you?β
- βWho is the most interesting person youβve met?β
- βWhatβs your favorite memory?β
- βWhat moment or memory will always make you laugh?β
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Ask questions about magic and powers to understand his personality. Magic and superpowers might not exist in reality, but asking questions about them can be a fun way to see if his answers match up with his real personality. [16] X Research source
- βIf you could have any superpower, what would it be?β
- βWhat psychic ability would you choose to have?β
- βIf you had a useless superpower, what would it be?β
- βWould you rather team up with Batman or Superman?β
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Ask about his funny quirks and routines he has at home. If you are spending a lot of time together or want him to move in with you , you want to know your boyfriendβs tendencies and routines. He probably has silly habits that might not make him perfect, but certainly make him more endearing. [17] X Research source
- βDo you wash your hair first or your body first?β
- βWhatβs your worst habit?β
- βAre you an early riser or do you sleep in?β
- βWhat 5 things could you not live without?β
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Find out if he believes in the occult or if heβs had ghostly encounters. Chat about the supernatural and other mysterious topicsβyou might learn that your boyfriend has some surprising, spooky interests. If he doesnβt have any supernatural experiences to share, you can take turns telling spooky stories . [18] X Research source
- βWhatβs the most outrageous conspiracy that you believe in?β
- βWhatβs an urban legend that you believe in?β
- βDo you believe in karma?β
- βDo you believe in astrology?β
- "What is your rising sign?"
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Get to a deeper level while keeping the conversation light. You can ask questions that will elicit a funny response, but that your boyfriend can take deeper if he wants. Ask him questions that will help you understand him more as a person while avoiding intense questions. [19] X Research source
- βWhatβs your greatest dream?β
- βIf you could have dinner with anyone in the world, dead or alive, who would you choose?β
- βWhatβs something you still want to try?β
- βWhatβs your greatest skill?β
Join the Discussion...
- What's the funniest thing that's ever happened to you?
- What's your love language?
- What's something that you've always wanted to ask me but haven't?
- What do you believe is your greatest strength in our relationship?
- What does your ideal date night look like?
- What was your favorite thing to do when you were little?
- What's the weirdest dream you've ever had?
- What's something you've always wanted to try but haven't yet?
- What's your most embarrassing moment?
- What's something you've learned about yourself in the past year?
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