Remind her of who you are and how you met. “Hey Chelsea, this is Aaron, Julian’s friend haha. We met the other night at the barbecue” “Hey this is Jackson, we hung out yesterday at the ski lodge. What’s up?” “Hey it’s Emma. It was really cool meeting you last night :)” Start the conversation with a friendly question, bringing up any common interests or previous experiences you’ve had together. “Wanted to make sure you were ok after that wipeout yesterday. Roller skating rinks can be deadly 😂” “Still amazed that I met someone who’s as obsessed with hockey as I am. Did you catch the game last night??” “I’m still laughing at the karaoke from last night. you didn’t happen to take any videos, did you 😂” Ask them out in a casual, friendly way. “Yeah, so I’m texting you cause I had a great time hanging out last night. Would you wanna get lunch sometime this week?” “So there’s a new Chinese restaurant that just opened up down the block from my office and I know from our convo that you love egg rolls as much as I do. Would you wanna try it out this Thurs for lunch?” If they’re interested, show that you’re excited and make plans to set up the date. “Awesome, let’s plan on 12 pm this Wednesday then? It’s supposed to be a great restaurant👍” “Cool, I’m pumped to see you again. Does Friday night work?” If they’re not interested, be polite and friendly before ending the conversation. “No hard feelings, maybe I’ll see you around at a baseball game sometime :)” “Don’t worry about it. Really cool to meet you, good luck with everything!”