Deb Schneider, LCSW, PPSC
Licensed Clinical Social Worker
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Am I Gay Quiz
How do you know if you’re gay? There’s a whole spectrum of romantic and sexual orientation, and ultimately, you get to choose whatever label feels right. But it can be tough to figure it all out, so we’ve cre...
Am I a Lesbian Quiz
Wondering if you’re into girls? Whether your TikTok’s “For You” page is suspiciously full of WLW content or whether you have zero idea what that means but think the girl from that coffee shop is ''really'' pretty...
Am I Bisexual Quiz
If you have ever wondered “Am I bisexual?”, you’re not alone—and you’ve come to the right place. Bisexuality means romantic or sexual attraction to more than one gender, and there’s no exact set of criteria o...
Am I Straight Quiz
Sexuality. It’s complex, personal, and ever-evolving. So, how do you know if you’re straight, gay, or something in between? We know questioning your sexuality can be tough, so we’ve put together this quiz to help...
Am I Asexual Quiz
If you’ve ever wondered “Why are people so interested in sex?!”, this quiz is meant for you. People who identify as asexual (“ace”) generally don’t experience sexual attraction and/or may have absent or low ...
Am I Aromantic Quiz
Not sure if romantic relationships are for you? Aromantic (AKA “aro”) individuals don’t typically experience romantic attraction and aren’t that interested in romantic relationships. There isn’t just one way t...
Am I Pansexual Quiz
How do you know if you’re pansexual? And what’s the difference between pansexuality and other sexual identities like bisexuality? Sexuality and attraction is a broad spectrum, and at the end of the day, there’s no ...
Am I Demisexual Quiz
Attraction—it sure can be a beast! You aren't totally closed off to the idea of getting intimate with a future partner, but maybe you notice that you prefer to develop an emotional connection before you experience the ...
How to
Get a Lesbian Girlfriend
Finally finding that person who you can cuddle up to, share secrets with, and enjoy life with...now that's something to celebrate. But how exactly can you find your perfect female partner as a lesbian woman? Don't stress...
What Is My Type of Girl (LGBTQIA+) Quiz
When it comes to a romantic partner, how do you know what your type is? Whether you’re looking to date a woman as a woman for the first time or you’ve been out of the closet for a while, knowing the types of persona...
How to
Adjust to Being a Boy when You Really Want to Be a Girl
There's nothing wrong with being assigned male at birth, yet feeling much more comfortable as a girl. Unfortunately, you might not be able to simply start living as a girl for various reasons, like being a minor. Remembe...
How to Determine If You Identify as Asexual
Questions to ask yourself if you think you might be asexualIt’s normal to have some questions when it comes to figuring out your sexual identity. And if you’re not sexually attracted to others or interested in sex, i...
How to
Know if Someone is Bisexual
You may want to know if someone is bisexual because you want to ask them out or hope to be a supportive friend. While you can't tell if someone is bisexual by how they look, you might be able to figure it out if you pay ...
Am I Polyamorous Quiz
Could polyamory be the best type of relationship for you? Polyamory involves being in multiple romantic relationships at one time with the express knowledge and informed consent of all partners. It is a type of open rel...
How to Accept Being Bisexual
A guide to understanding and embracing your sexual orientationWhether you’ve struggled to solve the mystery of your sexuality or have been told it’s “just a phase,” coming to terms with your bisexuality might pre...
How to
Get a Girl to Kiss You if You Are a Girl
Are you a girl who wants to get another girl to kiss you? This is a perfectly natural feeling, thought, or desire. You might wonder what it feels like or question whether or not you are LGBTQIA+. Whatever your reasons f...
How to
Accept That You Are Gay
If you are LGBTQ but struggle with accepting that fact, here is a guide to help you. You have found out your sexual orientation, and you are perfectly normal. Accepting who you are - and being proud of who you are - in t...
How to
Come Out As Transgender
Coming out as transgender can feel scary—you may be worried about how people will react, about how you'll feel, or about saying the "perfect thing." But the truth is, there's no perfect way to come out. This is about y...
What Does Lithromantic Mean? A Guide to People Who Prefer Unrequited Love
Learn what it means to identify as a lithromantic Does the idea of mutual romance gross you out? Do you start to get uncomfortable the second your crush starts to like you back? If so, you may be lithromantic. A lithro...
How to
Determine if a Child is Transgender
If your child regularly goes outside of gender norms, you might wonder if they are transgender. You can listen to how your child expresses their gender identity and pay attention to gender non-conforming tendencies. But ...
