Imad Jbara

Imad Jbara is a Dating Coach for NYC Wingwoman LLC, a relationship coaching service based in New York City. 'NYC Wingwoman' offers matchmaking, wingwoman services, 1-on-1 Coaching, and intensive weekend bootcamps. Imad services 100+ clients, men and women, to improve their dating lives through authentic communication skills. He has a BA in Psychology from the University of Massachusetts Dartmouth.

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How do you go in for a kiss?
Take your time! Start by flirting and complimenting them. Get close and lightly touch them on their shoulder or thigh. Then, try looking deep into their eyes. If they seem into it, you can go in for a kiss.
Advice for rizzing up a girl over text
When you're flirting over text, try to be illogical and fun. For instance, when your crush asks, "How are you?" saying, "Fine" can kill the conversation and make it boring. So instead of saying something like that, say something like, "The usual, just saved a group of kids from a burning bush and helped an old lady across the street. How about you?" It'll surprise them and make them laugh.

I always say that the main purpose of texting, at first, is just to set up the date or the phone call. A lot of people try to get to know people through text immediately, but that actually makes it more difficult for you to really develop a deeper relationship or connection because a lot of things can get misconstrued over text. It's only when you meet in person that you get to understand the other person's tone and how they joke.
What should I text a girl I like
My biggest tip is to be illogical and fun. I always say that the main purpose of texting initially is just to set up a date or phone call.

What a lot of people do is they try to get to know people through text immediately, which kind of sounds like what you’re doing. That just makes it more difficult for you to really develop a stronger, deeper relationship or connection because a lot of things can get misconstrued over text. You don't understand the person's kind of tone, their jokes are harder to read over text, and it’s too easy to say something that accidentally offends the other person.

So, when you say something like, “Hey, how are you?” and then they say, “Fine” you’ve just sort of killed the conversation. What I'll usually do is say something like, “I just saw a group of kids help the old lady across the street and it reminded me of brighter days!” Just mix it up. Keep her on her toes, be a little random, and use texting as a way to set up a date. Don’t treat texting like a goal on its own!
What are the best compliments to give a girl?
I feel like the best way to compliment a girl is to compliment her character or intelligence. For instance, if she's texting you and she's funny, compliment her sarcasm. Basically, compliment her character, because it's a lot more valuable than complimenting her on her looks. Don't get me wrong, everyone likes getting complimented on their looks. But when you compliment somebody on their looks consistently and she's used to hearing those compliments, it's not really that special anymore. So instead, compliment her on how smart she is, how intelligent she is, how cool, exciting, spontaneous, or adventurous she is.
What are the best compliments you can give to a guy?
The best thing to do to compliment a guy over text is make him feel masculine by showing some admiration. So for instance, if he does something really good, you tell him "Oh, it's really awesome how you did that" or like, "Not a lot of people will do that." The most attractive thing that a girl can do is actually boost his ego and make him feel better about himself. So a little bit of admiration goes such a long way, especially when you say things like, "You're so strong" or "I love how many sports you play" or "I like how smart you are."
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