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How do I know if a girl wants to hook up?

Candice Mostisser
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Don't be afraid to ask her upfront about it. More subtle signs might be her moving closer to you and flirting.

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Can I get back a girl who has friend-zoned me?

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If a girl only wants to be friends with you, it's important to respect her decision. It hurts to feel rejected, but she can't change the way she feels. Remember, you've probably disappointed a few girls who like you but are in your friend-zone. It's best to focus on girls who you like and like you back.

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What if I find that she's into feet? Do I still proceed to have sex or should I leave?

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There's nothing weird or wrong about having a foot fetish. At the same time, it's up to you to decide what you're comfortable with. If she's making you uncomfortable, tell her that something came up and you need to leave. Otherwise, go ahead and have sex with her.

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What if I approach her with a kiss and she rejects me? What should I do?

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First, don't try to kiss her until you're both comfortable with being intimate. That means you've been talking to her, you have a connection, and she's agreed to continue things in private. If she pulls away or tells you not to kiss her, respect her wishes and give her space. Say, "I'm sorry, I think I misread your signals."

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