Expert Q&A for How to Make a Good Impression on Girls

Sounds like you might be nervous. Remember that girls are also people. They like to be asked about their lives, smiled at, and respected. Don't do anything overtly sexual like staring at their breasts. Get to know them as people first. Ask about their interests.

Pay attention to your grooming; wear a comfortable decent outfit that matches the occasion; make good eye contact, be polite and ask her some questions.

You can make a good impression in general by having good manners, making eye contact, by balancing talking and listening, and by paying attention to your grooming.

You can relax a little on a second impression: the other person likes you enough to want to see you again. Be consistent. Continue to be polite and respectful, make good eye contact, and balance the conversation between you and them.

The good thing about college dating is that you are all new to one another, and there are so many questions you can ask: where she is from from; her major; her favorite class; where she lives--dorm or off-campus; how she likes the campus so far... it is almost endless. Also, college life tends to be pretty casual. It presents an opportunity to make a different kind of start than you had in high school--where people knew you well, and it was hard to shake a certain way of being seen.

There is always a risk when you tell a girl you like her! This is part of the entire dating scene. However, you can ask her out to do something simple--like getting coffee or a soda. If she says yes, there is probably some interest. If she says no, but offers a reason, she might be interested, but just busy the particular time you asked her out for. You don't have to say, "I really like you" until you have been out a number of times. Your original invitation can be quite casual. Good luck!