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QuestionHow do I get my teacher to stop yelling at me?Katie Styzek is a Professional School Counselor for Chicago Public Schools. Katie earned a BS in Elementary Education with a Concentration in Mathematics from the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign. She served as a middle school mathematics, science, and social studies teacher for three years prior to becoming a counselor. She holds a Master of Education (M.Ed.) in School Counseling from DePaul University and an MA in Educational Leadership from Northeastern Illinois University. Katie holds an Illinois School Counselor Endorsement License (Type 73 Service Personnel), an Illinois Principal License (formerly Type 75), and an Illinois Elementary Education Teaching License (Type 03, K – 9). She is also Nationally Board Certified in School Counseling from the National Board for Professional Teaching Standards.Do some deep breathing to get yourself through the moment. Then, try talking to your teacher a few hours later when you're both calm again. If that doesn't help, don't be afraid to ask to your parents or the school counselor for help.
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QuestionWhy do people cry when they get shouted at?Community AnswerSome people are very sensitive to those sorts of things. Maybe you’ve noticed that the shy, quiet, well-behaved kids usually have the worst reactions (because they aren’t used to it), whereas a “class clown” just shakes it off.
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QuestionWhat do you do if your teacher had been yelling all year?Community AnswerDo your best to figure out why the teacher is yelling and avoid behaviors that you know will push your teacher's buttons. If the yelling seems to be for no reason or is excessively harsh, you may be dealing with a bully teacher, in which case you should consider reporting the situation.
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QuestionWhat about if you get told off for going to see the principal?Community AnswerIt is your right to talk to the principal. If the teacher is treating you worse because of this, let the principal know what is going on.
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QuestionMy teacher is going to yell at me since I missed my Christmas concert. I am so scared because I am an extremely sensitive person who will break down within seconds, and I'm scared to get yelled at. What do I do?Community AnswerTry approaching your teacher about it right away and explaining why you missed the concert. If you don't have a good reason, just say you're sorry. If possible, try talking you your teacher about it before class so that you don't get yelled at in front of the other students.
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QuestionWhat do you do when you borrow something from a classmate and the teacher thinks you're doing something else?Community AnswerTry to calmly explain to the teacher what happened. Keep in mind, however, if this happened during a test, you should not have been talking to a classmate, even if you were just asking to borrow a pencil.
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QuestionHow do I not cry when I go to the principal's office?Community AnswerYou can use the same techniques as you would if you were dealing with a teacher. The only difference is that if the principal is treating you unfairly or bullying you, you will have to report the incident directly to the superintendent or school board.
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Questionis it okay for my teacher to call me an idiot. i was new and didn't know where the paper was kept, so i put my hand up to ask. She yelled at me and called me a "blank idiot" and said that I was wasting her time.Community AnswerThis does not sound like a good way for a teacher to talk to your student. Keep in mind that your teacher may have been stressed and may regret speaking to you like that. If things like this keep happening, you should definitely talk to your parents and/or the principal.
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QuestionHow do you stop yourself from screaming at your teacher?Community AnswerTry to remind yourself that this will only make this situation worse. Use the techniques in Part 1 to calm yourself down.
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QuestionHow do you not get a attitude when your teacher yells?Community AnswerJust try to keep in mind that this is not in your best interest. You don't want to do anything that will make the situation worse, so use the techniques in Part 1 to calm yourself down.
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QuestionHow should you react when a teacher insults you for your mistake?Community AnswerTry to stay calm during class. You may want to consider talking to the teacher before or after class and letting him or her know how this makes you feel. It's possible that your teacher is not intentionally insulting you and does not know that your feelings are hurt. If this doesn't work and your teacher continues to insult you, try talking to your parents about the issues. If it becomes very serious, go to the principal with your concerns.
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QuestionIf your friend tells on you and your teacher yells at you, can you not be friends with the person any more?Community AnswerYou should have a talk with your friend and try to work things out. It's important to understand your friend's motivation for telling on you, as they may have been trying to protect you or protect others. If you did something wrong, you should not blame your friend for the consequences.
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QuestionWhat if my teacher gets mad at me because I cry?Community AnswerA teacher should never do that. If you cry and your teacher gets upset, or punishes you, report it to the principal or ask your parents to call the school.
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QuestionWhat if my teacher shouted at me and told my personal business in front of the whole class?Community AnswerThat is not something a teacher should do. Tell your parents and ask them to call the school to complain, or go directly to the principal yourself and tell them what happened.
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QuestionWhat do I do if I said something behind someone's back?Community AnswerGo tell them what happened and apologize. You'll feel a lot better once you tell them and they'll be less upset if they hear it from you. Clear the air, don't make excuses for yourself, and tell them you hope they can accept your apology and continue being your friend.
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QuestionI'm going to get shouted at for accidentally telling someone to go and kill themselves, and I'm really scared, so if I do start to tear up, what can I do?Community AnswerWhat you did was wrong. There is no such thing as "accidentally" telling someone to kill themselves. You should apologize for what you said to the person and apologize to the teacher as well. If you cry, you cry. Just accept your punishment and be more careful about what you say in the future.
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QuestionCan I see the counselor if I am having problems with my teacher?LordOfTheHungryKoreanPottersCommunity AnswerYes, that is a great idea!
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