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  • Question
    What do I say if someone asks me if I lied during a truth or dare game?
    Community Answer
    It's really up to you whether you confess or not. It's meant to be a game, not a police interrogation.
  • Question
    Do you need to tell the truth when you say truth?
    Community Answer
    You do need to tell the truth, as the name implies, this game will be the most fun with an honest answer! However, if you don't feel comfortable answering certain questions, that's completely okay.
  • Question
    What limits should I set on a game played at a sleep over?
    Community Answer
    Nothing involving drugs or alcohol, weapons, or sex. If someone refuses to do or tell something, that's OK. It is just a game, after all.
  • Question
    Are there penalties if a player does not go through with a dare?
    Community Answer
    You could set rules beforehand and create a penalty for declining a dare that isn't dangerous or harmful.
  • Question
    What are the age requirements of this game?
    Community Answer
    There are none. All ages may play.
  • Question
    My little sister is 10 years old, what kind of truths and dares do they do at that age? I want to make the game fun for her and me both (I'm 13).
    Puppyandkittyfriends
    Community Answer
    Usually just small funny things like, "stuff seven mini marshmallows in your mouth", "do you like ketchup?" or maybe something more challenging like, "do you have a crush on Jake?" or "I dare you to yell something you hate really loudly!"
  • Question
    Can another person repeat the same question that has already been asked?
    Community Answer
    It's better to choose different questions, but you can decide before you start playing to see what other people think.
  • Question
    My friends played this and I chose dare. They dared me to ask my boyfriend to have sex. Should I do it?
    Community Answer
    No. Sex is a really serious issue and you definitely shouldn't commit to having it on a dare. Talk to your boyfriend about sex after you've thought it through carefully and decided you're absolutely sure you're ready. Don't let your friends peer pressure you with this silly game.
  • Question
    Can you dare someone to tell the truth?
    Community Answer
    There certainly aren't rules against it!
  • Question
    If someone dares me to put my hand down another player's pants, what should I do?
    Community Answer
    As long as you and the other player are both comfortable with it, then you can do it. Otherwise you can skip your turn or ask for another dare, depending on the rules you have decided on for the game.
  • Question
    Can people gang up and tickle mercilessly for 3 minutes as a forfeit?
    Community Answer
    Of course. This is a game where you can improvise. If everyone agrees to this, it's your choice.
  • Question
    Can I undo a dare with another dare?
    Community Answer
    It cannot be undone unless the other players agree.
  • Question
    Many people say that every game of truth or dare ends with someone crying. How can I avoid this?
    SharkGurrrl
    Community Answer
    By stating the person has the option to decline the truth or dare. Also make sure to tell the person who says the truth or dare not to ask anything too personal or deep.
  • Question
    Who asks "truth or dare" first in a large group?
    Community Answer
    You can just pick a player and then go around clockwise in a circle, or you could draw straws.
  • Question
    Can I dare someone to only pick dares, or maybe only truths?
    Demi Lavapies
    Community Answer
    That is the smartest idea that anyone has ever suggested. You are encouraged to do that.
  • Question
    Can I dare somebody to ask me out?
    Community Answer
    You can, but prepare for the aftermath. Don't get offended if they say no, and don't get too excited if they say yes, because they might just be doing it because you dared them.
  • Question
    Is it okay to dare people to go outside when playing truth or dare?
    Community Answer
    It very much depends on where you are, what you are wearing, what the weather is like, and what your parents permit. Don't do anything that could potentially put somebody's safety or health at risk, and if somebody is uncomfortable doing a dare, let them switch to truth or be skipped.
  • Question
    What if I think someone has lied during the game?
    Community Answer
    Try to prove it. If you can, the person should have to face some kind of consequences, like having to do a really crazy dare.
  • Question
    What if someone asks me if I'm gay and I'm not ready to come out?
    Community Answer
    If you are not comfortable answering this question honestly, it is perfectly fine to just lie. There's no way they can prove you wrong.
  • Question
    How do I play Truth or Dare with people I love?
    Community Answer
    The same way you’d play any other game of Truth or Dare. You could set limits, though, on what truths and dares can be given to protect their privacy, or just not ask them extremely deep or personal questions.
  • Question
    What happens if I lie when I'm supposed to tell the truth?
    Community Answer
    I did that at my birthday party because my friend asked me if I had a crush on anyone. The girl I liked was sitting right next to me, so I said no, we moved on, and later, when my friend and I were alone, I told her the truth. So if you don't feel comfortable answering, it's okay. You can either tell a white lie or just say, "I don't want to answer that, it's too personal."
  • Question
    Should I ask my crush to kiss me if he's taken?
    Tom De Backer
    Top Answerer
    Nope. Don't do it. That's asking for trouble, and you'd be in the wrong. It's OK to have a crush; it happens. While you may not care a thing for his current partner, you do care for him, and he has already chosen a person to focus his love and affection on. Just because that choice is not you doesn't mean he's wrong. You have to respect his choice.
  • Question
    What are some good ideas for truths to play in the game, and is it best to make dares easier so that people are more willing to do them?
    Community Answer
    Questions depend on the age of the player, but you could try searching online: "truths for teens", "truths for adults", "truths for tweens", etc. Also, you can, or you could do it as answer a less hard truth and a less hard dare or just one difficult dare maybe.
  • Question
    Can I dare my crush, who likes me too, to kiss me?
    Tara Burke
    Top Answerer
    Yes, if you know the person likes you, but consider (if you’re playing as a group) whether you’ll both be comfortable with the lack of privacy.
  • Question
    What are some truth-or-dare questions I can use?
    Tara Burke
    Top Answerer
    Truths: ‘Who do you have a crush on’, ‘Would you rather...’, ‘Tell us something you’ve never told anyone’, ‘What’s the grossest thing you’ve ever done’. Dares: ‘put ice cubes down your pants’, ‘do a dance performance to the song we play’, ‘cut/dye your hair’, ‘message your crush something weird’.
  • Question
    Is it OK to say "Um" or "Uhhh" when trying to think of the answer a question?
    Anjani Djohan
    Community Answer
    Yes. Everyone does that sometimes, it's often a natural reaction to something (a question) you're having trouble answering!
  • Question
    My friends are obviously not being honest with dares and truths. What should I do to make them tell the truth?
    Anjani Djohan
    Community Answer
    Don't. It might be too personal, and every man is entitled to his own secrets. She/he might even have lied because you wouldn't like it and/or it's just something you might look down on him/her or treat him/her differently than right now.
  • Question
    What if I feel comfortable until someone tells me to do something really embarrassing, and we have no rules against it. Should I still do it?
    Top Answerer
    Only if you're comfortable with that dare--you shouldn't do anything you're uncomfortable with. If you don't want to do a dare, firmly say no and keep the game going. If you're pressured to do anything after you've said no, leave.
  • Question
    Can I dare my friend to kiss me?
    Top Answerer
    You could, but depending on what kind of friend you have, the friendship could become awkward after the kiss. Also, if your friend is uncomfortable with kissing you, you shouldn't force them to.
  • Question
    If you are dared to swap clothes with someone of another gender, how far do you go? Do you swap underwear as well?
    Top Answerer
    No, leave undergarments on, as underwear covers up your genitals. Taking off underwear might make some people uncomfortable. Simply switch clothes, and leave your underwear on.
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