Q&A for How to React When Being Caught Doing Something Wrong

Try to humanize your situation. Remember that we all make mistakes all the time, so cut yourself some slack for making something wrong. That said, reflect on why you decided to engage in that behavior and try to avoid repeating the same mistakes.

Just be more responsible next time. You know where you went wrong, so just learn from your mistake and be careful not to repeat it.

Even though you will have a bad consequence either way, you should tell the truth. This is best for your reputation and your conscience. If necessary, make sure to give a heartfelt apology so the person knows you are serious and telling the truth.

Make a daily decision to not tell any lies. When you do, the truth will be easier to speak.

If you did so during class and she emails your parents, tell your parents that you are really sorry for doing that, and really mean it. Express that what you did was wrong and that you won't do it again.

The answer really depends on who caught you. If it's a girlfriend or spouse who would feel hurt and betrayed by your actions, you need to apologize, for starters.

Apologize, give her space, then do something kind for her.

Everybody says things they don't necessarily mean when they're angry or upset. It's very unlikely your parents really plan to never speak to you again. If they won't talk to you right now, write a letter to your parents in which you apologize sincerely for what you did and promise never to do it again. If they've given you a punishment, accept this without complaint.

Tell him the truth. It's better to tell the truth about something and get in trouble than to lie and get in even more trouble.

Just try to get along with her for your friend's sake. Be pleasant and polite. If her sister does or says something rude, ignore it. You're there to hang out with your friend, don't let her little sister ruin your good time.

Admit your fault. If you deny it or try to make it less major than it is, the people you work for are more likely to fire you. Give them a reason to keep you, tell them you will accept whatever outcome gracefully. This way, if you are let go, you're more likely to receive a positive recommendation in the future.

If it's someone you know fairly well, just ask them if they plan to tell. You might even be able to convince them not to. If you don't know them, or if they say they're going to tell, just come clean about what you did. Your punishment will probably be less severe if you own up to your mistake.

Be sure to fully confess to what you did wrong and apologize, as a clear conscience automatically feels better. Tell yourself that everyone makes mistakes, and you are still valuable and loved. Then, find an activity you enjoy in order to move on from that sad place.

She probably doesn't hate you, that's a really strong emotion. This situation forced her to be angry, which changes the relationship between you, which is annoying because it may not have been what she wanted to have to do. Try and find a way to show that you understand why what happened was wrong, that you'll try and avoid it, and will try and avoid forcing her to be angry with you.

Come clean and accept your mistake. Tell them you are sorry for doing what you did and you will not do it again.

If the rules say "If you do this, then that will happen", then it is likely that this rule will be applied to your case. You did the action, so you can expect the consequences. I don't think that what you did would merit a suspension, but if your school's rules say it does, there is little you can do. Not knowing the law does not excuse you from not abiding by it, so you can't plead ignorance, as in, "I didn't know I would get suspended." But you can make your case. Show you understand why it is not allowed, and apologize. Show you have given thought to how to avoid doing it again, that you have learned. Then ask to consider giving you a warning instead of a suspension.

Just because someone has the "tendency to overreact" doesn't mean those feelings are invalid or the person is just being dramatic. It's not the other person's fault; it was yours, and you need to take responsibility. Own up to it, sincerely apologize for your actions and let the person know you have learned from the experience.

It depends on how they reacted. If they were embarrassed and quickly backed out of the room, it's probably best just not to mention it. If they were really angry or upset, apologize to them. Try to lock your door when you're watching porn, or if you don't have a lock, do it in the bathroom.

If you weren't doing anything wrong, she's no right to judge you. You could say something like: "What makes you feel it's okay to go around accusing people of doing things without even listening? It's none of your business and you're being rude and nosy. I am now going to call the authorities on you." Then get your phone out and start calling the officials or even the police.

Talk to her about how it makes you feel to keep on hearing this, so she might feel a little guilty about going on. making it obvious. Remind her you're young and young people make mistakes. And let her know if she keeps it up, you'll move away.

Act as if you were checking the time, date, etc., or if viable, then act like you're simply fiddling with it but most important act casually and relaxed. If you don't feel comfortable lying, then simply pay attention to your surroundings and keep it hidden.

Tell the person that you didn't understand it was wrong and express contrition. Tell them that you have learned from your mistake and won't do it again. In future, talk to someone before doing things again that you are unsure of.

Act natural. Delete evidence of the song from your device, and switch your usual seat on the bus. But the best thing to do would be just to be honest, apologize, and just do a few detentions.

Best thing you can do is talk to your parents if they confront you about it and be honest. And remember that this will pass; by next month, you won't be thinking about this.

Learn from your mistake. If you work together make, sure you are writing your own thoughts and answers. Look up the difference between plagiarism and summary, which will help you learn what I mean. Plagiarism in college can lead to being expelled, so it's best to get caught now and not later.

Talk to them and be honest. Talk to them about why you felt you needed/wanted to have it. Apologize and seek to have an understanding about why you did what you did.

You should either write the stories somewhere else, or completely quit writing them altogether. If your parents don't approve of the writing, then listen to them and respect their wishes.

Tell them what you did. Explain how you didn't mean to do it, explain how it happened, and apologize. Even if they don't accept your apology, it is his old computer and he'll get over it and before you know it, it won't be important anymore.

Continue to be friendly to her, and act like it is over and done with now. Offer to fix the dent, it's a good learning opportunity for you and action speaks louder than words. wikiHow has plaster/drywall repair instructions, as do other places online including YouTube. Actions to fix things often speak louder than apologies.