Q&A for How to Talk to a Girl Without It Getting Boring

Don't be boring! Be open, vulnerable, and honest. Answer questions and ask them back when you're done responding. Don't offer up one-word answers, which tend to end conversations in their tracks.

There are no hacks or tricks here. Just ask her how she's doing, or how her day is going. If you're just approaching her out of nowhere and you're interested in her, you can give her a casual compliment or comment on something that's going on in your shared environment.

If she is shy by nature, the best thing you can do is to keep talking to her. Once she feels comfortable, she will open up to you more. And if she likes you, nothing you say will be boring. Ask her questions to get her more involved, and to get to know her more.

Yes. Give her space and try to work on your obsession. It's never good to have one, especially when the subject is a living being. A girl will most likely find it very repulsing to have someone obsessing over her; it could even get to the point where she starts avoiding you.

Make the questions open ended. e.g "what do you think about.." "how did you.." etc. This forces the other person to respond. If they do not respond, then they may be incredibly shy or they may not like you very much.

You could always ask her how her day is going, or ask her what sorts of movies, bands, or hobbies she likes. If she is wearing a shirt with an interesting slogan (such as something from a band or comic book movie) then you can always comment positively on it.

It's possible she still might be interested, even if there aren't obvious signs. All girls are different in the ways they express themselves. If you really, really like her, it might be worth it to ask her outright if she'd like to go on a date or talk more often (whatever you're comfortable with suggesting as a next step) so you can settle the question in your mind once and for all. If she in fact really isn't interested, it's time to move on.

Of course. The best thing you can do if you like someone is to get to know her better.

Be confident, and find common interests. Ask her a lot of open-ended questions (those requiring more than a yes-or-no answer), and focus the conversation on her. You'll come across as being a really good listener.

Be normal and talk about something you both find interesting, like movies or the cello. Don't be scared, she won't bite. Just be yourself and see how it goes!

You should definitely respect that. Try just smiling when you see her and just do things that help her be more comfortable around you.

She may just be busy with work, school, or life in general. Give her a few days to respond before trying again. It could also be that she is playing "hard to get" or that she is uninterested.

Listen to her. Be genuinely interested in what she's talking about, and ask questions to be actively engaged. Look at her while she's talking.

Find out what she likes, then take the information you found out, and apply it to the situation in a casual way. Avoid "Trying too hard," however, or you'll risk making her grumpier!

There could be many reasons a girl does not respond. Talk to her next time you see her and and ask if she is interested. If not, don't push her too hard and let her go.

Ask her some easy questions, such as about her day, or any interests you know she has. Let the conversation progress naturally.

That will depends on the girl in question. More often than not looks will impress the girl most at first. But if you're just pretty to look at but can't hold a conversation to save your life, she'll likely end the talk with a smile and never text you.

Simply say hello and ask her how her day is going to get the conversation started.

There are a few reasons. The other guy could be a great friend that the girl just loves hanging out with, or she could be more into the other guy romantically than her boyfriend.

Don't overdo it. Don't stare at her for ages if you think she feels uncomfortable. Give her some space and briefly maintain eye contact. This will make her think she has to work to get your attention.

She most likely won't ignore you unless you offend her in some way. If you don't know what she likes, just ask her. It's as simple as saying, "Hey, have you read [name of a book you like]," or, "What's your favorite show?" Ask her to share her thoughts about anything else that comes to mind. Don't stress about it, let the conversation flow naturally.

Don't "chat" on the phone - you'll just end up as her male girlfriend. Use your phone for 3 to 5 minutes to set up a definite date to hang out and have fun. Or text three to four times to arrange a definite date to hang out and have fun. Do the "chatting' in person.

Be yourself and talk about topics that she would be interested in?

While it's okay to talk to a teacher, it's definitely not a good idea to fall in love with your teacher. Try to find someone your own age instead.

You'll probably be in the brother zone for a while, but just keep trying and eventually you'll be out of the brother zone.

Start with a nice compliment about the person you want to start a conversation with. Then, start introducing yourself.

Play Minecraft with her.

A kind, sincere heart and a great personality can compensate for a lot when it comes to physical appearance. Be a true gentleman, take an interest in her life, and learn to be a great conversationalist. Then see what happens.

What she does with her social media accounts is completely up to her. She can be married to you but still refuse to add you on any media. She can choose whoever she likes to follow her, wherever she likes, no matter what is going on between you. If you get married next year, you will still have no right whatsoever to demand that she deletes the person. If she ever cheats on you, you will cross that bridge when you get to it. Right now, it sounds like your paranoia will tell her to immediately stop trusting you if she ever finds out you're this paranoid.

Just politely ask if you could talk privately or approach her at a different time.