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How do I get her back after I hurt her?

Courtney Quinlan
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Courtney Quinlan is a Matchmaker and Dating Coach and the Owner of Midwest Matchmaking. With over 15 years of experience, she specializes in finding individuals a compatible partner, providing guidance throughout the dating process, and crafting events for singles in the Midwest. Courtney holds a BS in Broadcast Journalism from The University of Nebraska at Omaha.

Courtney Quinlan

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Actions speak louder than words. Give her all the space she needs and let her come back on her own.

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How do I talk to a girl and win her love?

Courtney Quinlan
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Courtney Quinlan is a Matchmaker and Dating Coach and the Owner of Midwest Matchmaking. With over 15 years of experience, she specializes in finding individuals a compatible partner, providing guidance throughout the dating process, and crafting events for singles in the Midwest. Courtney holds a BS in Broadcast Journalism from The University of Nebraska at Omaha.

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Focus on her love language, her personality, and what's most important to her. Ultimately, there isn't a one-size-fits-all approach to this—some women will want you to bow down and do whatever they want, while others will want plenty of space.

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How do you know when it's over?

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If your ex won't respond to your attempts at communication, or responds angrily or negatively, don't keep trying. Focus on your own life for a while. Either your ex will change their mind and try to contact you, or they'll move on and it's time for you to do the same.

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My ex has started dating someone else. Is this just a rebound or has she really moved on?

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That's a rough situation, but whatever the answer is, waiting around for her relationship to end is going to make you miserable. You don't have to jump into the dating pool just yet, but spend some time on your own activities and stop following her social media. It's more likely a rebound if it happened right away, hasn't lasted long, and if she's trying to rub it in your face, but that doesn't mean you should hang around waiting to be thrown a bone.

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I'm trying to get her to chase me. Should I text her?

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The occasional text is fine. Don't send the next text until she's responded to the last one, and give it a few hours before responding to hers.

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I slapped my girl and she says she needs time to heal. What should I do?

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You made a big mistake and she gets to make the next decision. Apologize and ask her to contact you when she feels ready to talk.

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Can you help me figure out how to text a lady?

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Texts to your ex should be infrequent and low-key. Let her know you're thinking of her and ask her to call you back when she's free. Try to show that you're living your own life by not texting constantly, and perhaps by mentioning your plans for the day.

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