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How can I improve my relations with a guy after being dumped?

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Alysha Jeney is a Licensed Relationship Therapist, the Owner of Modern Love Counseling, and the Co-Founder of The Modern Love Box. She specializes in relationship therapy, intimacy building, and existential exploration. Alysha holds a BA in Psychology from The Metropolitan State University of Denver and an MA in Marriage and Family Therapy/Counseling from Regis University. She has been featured in publications such as The Washington Post and The Huffington Post.

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You can be honest with them and tell them what you want. If you like, you can increase your level of flirtation strategically and work towards improving your relations.

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What can I do to show my partner that I care for them?

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You can participate in some activity that your partner likes but is not in your comfort zone to show that you care for them.

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What do I do if I am too shy to ask him?

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If you are not comfortable telling him in person, you can write him a letter, email, or text.

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My boyfriend seems to have lost interest in our relationship. What do I do to win him back?

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Ignore him for awhile.The point is to let him miss you. If he fails to notice your absence, it means that your presence never meant anything to him. I know it's hard but guys can't stand when a girl is clingy and if it's time to let him go, better to know now.

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My boyfriend liked someone else so he dumped me. How can I get him back?

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You don't. Let him go and try to be happy with her, but he may realize she doesn't love him like you did. By then, you will be happy and moved on, leaving him feeling stupid for letting you go

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How do I get a guy that hates me to like me?

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You can try to find out what he doesn't like about you and change that behavior or if you did something to wrong him you could try apologizing. You're really probably better off finding someone else who doesn't already have these negative feelings about you.

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My boyfriend dumped me due to me voicing my opinion. How do I win him back?

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Don't. It might be hard to see now, but you are better off. You should feel free to express yourself. Find someone else who is interested in what you have to say.

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How can I make my boyfriend love me again after he almost left me?

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Be trustworthy and loving. Love never fails.

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My boyfriend has just dumped me, and he won't tell me why. I have phoned him and texted, but he is not answering.

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Walk up to him, and ask him why. Keep a brave face, and act as though you are in charge.

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My boyfriend asked out another girl. What do I do?

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Let him go. What else is there to do? If it was a monogamous relationship, he wouldn't have gone out of bounds.

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How can I make someone forget everything I did?

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You may not be able to make them forget, but if you wholeheartedly apologize, you can most certainly make them forgive. And forgiveness, over time, causes the memory to fade.

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What if he says he is not allowed to date, but loves you?

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If he really loves you, he'll make a way for both of you to go out, but at the same time wait for the right time.

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What if the guy found someone else already?

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Keep in his close circle of friends so that if they break up, you will be the one he goes to for support, and maybe something else will develop.

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My crush doesn't want anything to do with me because he caught me flirting with another guy. How do I gain his trust again?

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If you think about it, this may not be the relationship you want to foster. Your crush isn't your boyfriend, so he has no right to have any expectations about your behavior with other guys. His response to this issue could indicate a controlling personality or a lack of trust on his part. I would really be worried about his level of co-dependency and/or possible control issues.

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