Love Lust You care for this person despite his or her faults YES NO The two of you stick together even in the toughest of circumstances YES NO You are prepared to commit to this person for the rest of your life YES NO You want this person to speak the truth, even when it is hard to hear YES NO You think about the person as a prize or a catch NO YES You are secure in your relationship and feel confident the other person is as well YES NO You genuinely enjoy being with the other person, both when the two of you are physical versus just hanging out YES NO You’re very interested in having sex; once that’s over, you can take or leave the other person NO YES You think about ways to get the other person to sleep with you NO YES You think about ways to brighten the other person’s day YES NO