Build up to the moment by telling them the things you love about them and the way they make you feel. “Being around you makes me so happy. I’ve never felt like this about anyone else.” “You’re the best person I’ve ever met. I love how you’re so kind and caring, but so smart and funny, too. You can always make me laugh and feel better, and spending time with you is the best part of my day.” Say you love them when you feel ready. “I love you so much.” “I’m falling in love with you.” Use words other than “love” if you’re not ready for it yet. “You’re really important to me. I care about you so much.” “I care about you more and more every day.” Give them a hug or kiss, if it feels right. This can take the pressure off of them to say it back to you. “Is it OK if I kiss you?” “It’s OK if you’re not ready to say it back. Can I give you a hug?”