Be affectionate Put your arm around her, stroke her hair, hold her hand, playfully nudge her shoulder, or kiss her on the head every morning. These little physical gestures will show her that you like being close to her. Be supportive Show that you care about what’s going on in her life. “I’ll be at your tennis match tomorrow!” Support her goals and interests by cheering her on when she has big days or important opportunities at work. “Can I help you practice for your big interview tomorrow?” Show that you care enough to listen to her when she’s upset about something. “If you want to talk about it I’m here for you.” Be present Put your phone away when you’re talking to her to show her that she has your full attention. Look her in the eyes and really listen to her when she speaks. Don’t interrupt but you can offer a nod or say “uh-huh,” “right,” or “I understand” every so often to show that you’re actively listening. Be sweet and sentimental Give her small gifts just because, write her sweet notes, or do favors for her from time to time. Whether you make a scrapbook of your times together, write her a poem, fold her laundry, or give her flowers — sweet deeds show how much you love her. Be grateful Text or write her small notes expressing why you appreciate her. Expressing gratitude goes a long way in showing her how much you love her. Be available Schedule a weekly date night out (or more), plan a monthly road trip together, or block out time to unwind together with snacks and a movie at home. Whatever the occasion, show her that she is a priority in your life. Be bold Tell her that you love her outright! Say it simply or be more creative and poetic about it. “Last night I was looking at the stars and matched each star with a reason why I love you. It was going great until I run out of stars.” “Every time I see you, I fall in love with you all over again.” “Even when we are old and gray, I will still be holding your hands in our rocking chairs.”