How to Be an Alpha Bad Girl

Co-authored by Alexandra Janelli

Last Updated: October 19, 2023

Becoming a legendary alpha bad girl just got a whole lot easier thanks to this step by step guide that will increase your inner confident and help you become a more independent bad girl. It may not be for everyone, but if you know how to pretend then you can do anything.

Steps

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Work on defining and achieving your goals. Being an alpha is difficult because you have to live up to everyone's standards and also accomplish even more in a small period of time. Still if you know how to manipulate while living freely, then you've already done step number one making you closer to being that alpha bad girl.
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An alpha bad girl is mean at times, but overall she just wants to have fun and go out every night and day.

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You will always need to be the star of conversations and the center of the universe before anyone else ever gets the chance.
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An alpha bad girl is an eyecatching jaw dropper. She loves the confidence she possesses. She is very popular, feeds off of her social life, and the people that she leads.
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Your confidence is what will make you the most beautifully striking bad girl around.
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If you have a clique or want one then you'll need to make a lot of friends. remember to only keep 3 or 4 in your inner exclusive circle. However, never ever get too close to anyone because you don't want the possibility of being humiliated or back-stabbed.
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Do everything persuasively sneaky or people won't want to listen to you. Otherwise you'll fall apart.
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Get rid of the things you don't want people to know then make the things you want to share more exciting and amazing.
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Make people feel like if they don't invite you, then they won't have fun. Being the life of the party is what you're known for! Even if it's not a good spotlight. Don't be shy go for it!
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Try not to get hooked on a hot guy, because if your heart gets broken then it could be embarrassing and shameful. Then again, never settle for less.
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Get a squad. To be an alpha bad girl you can have a squad, people that respect you and want to follow you. You need to be smart and make them feel special. Make your bad girl gang look trendy and hot, so you get more attention.

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What is an "alpha" girl?

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An alpha girl is the leader of the "it" clique and the center of attention at all times. They run the school, and manipulate anyone they can to get what they want. If they aren’t getting what they want, or they’re having a bad day, they depend on their clique to take care of them.

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Do I need to stop being friends with people if I want to become an alpha bad girl?

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Not at all! You don't need to end your friendships, but it's probably a good idea to make more. You only need to end friendships if the people are toxic/not good friends.

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Can I have sidekicks if I am an alpha bad girl?

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Sure. Those are usually called "betas." Just make sure they don't try to take your spot as alpha!

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Tips

Carry yourself with a great deal of noticeable confidence.

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Laugh and act like you're having the time of your life even if you're by yourself.

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Make great first impressions.

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People will want to fight you more often than usual

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If you start getting bored go do something to spice up your life, even cause a bit of drama if you need to.

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Being an ordinary alpha and being an alpha bad girl are two different things so don't mix those up.

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You don't have to smoke or drink if you don't want to or if you're not of age.

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Don't come across as a fake or people won't want to hang out with you. Still be a little fake and manipulative.

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If you try too hard you'll be known as a poser.

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Be rude at your own risk.

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Be extremely confident without being too conceited or you'll lose some friends and start a bad reputation.

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Make sure being a bad girl doesn't make you go way out of your comfort zone so much that you appear fake and insecure. Otherwise you might end up without friends and in trouble.

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