How do I tell if I'm lesbian or bisexual?

I feel the same way. Instead of forcing myself into picking a specific label that didn't feel quite right, I found that calling myself "queer" captured my attraction without getting into the details. You don't have to decide if you're a lesbian or if you're bisexual

I got the same answer! I'm pretty much exclusively attracted to women, but if the perfect man comes along, I could see myself being in a relationship with him. Some people may argue that this makes me bi, but for me, I'm more comfortable calling myself a lesbian. You don't have to be 100% only attracted to women to be a lesbian. Go with whichever label you like better!

I already know i'm lesbian so i took this test for fun. It said i might be lesbian. I never would have guessed.

i thougth i was a lesbian.

I've always thought I was a lesbian, and I rarely actually get the "that guy is nice looking" but I can't tell anymore. I easily get butterflies around ladies, but I can barely picture myself with anyone... except for this one girl, whose probably forgotten me, hell, she's probably already taken by now... I still can't let her go to be honest, even though I moved away.

i think ur a lesbian

The quiz said i might be in the lqbtq community as it seemed that i was kinda into both girls and guys, and could potentially end up with sonething like Bi or Pan. Would anyone from experince be able to tell me how you figured your sexuality out? I think I have a crush on my best friend who's the same gender as me. I have found multiple guys attractive before, but never a girl, not until now. And now, i don't really know what to do, as i want a lable, i don't feel forced to have one, i just want one for whatever i am. Wait . . . Yk what? When I think of it, i've actually found multiple girls i've known, attractive. I've liked multiple women and men at this point, but idk what I am. Any advice anyone?

That is totally relatable! I’m not sure yet either and I’m thinking of just saying I’m queer for now. I don’t get butterflies for females the same as males but I know I have been attracted to females before.

I got the same thing too! I like girls better than boys. Me and this one girl have a crush on each other and she’s Bi and her parents are hard core Christian and they won’t let her date me😭

As a girl, I learned I was lesbian when my best friend started flirting with me, btw shes a girl. it got complicated but now we are together and i'm happier than I've ever been in my life. I guess I figured it out when I got the most intense butterflies in human kind and I had a bad case of blushing. hehe😀🥰

I wish I knew what I was lesbian or bisexual ? I don't know yet it's just I do get a funny feeling when I'm around the person I like I just hope I will figure this out soon.

Same

I'm transgender, so I don't know exactly how to identify as. Since I'm a woman and attracted to girls, does that make me lesbian? Or does the trans part change everything? I seriously want to know but IDK what to do :(

Ya it said I might like guys and girls

If you experience any attraction, even the slightest bit, to guys, then you might be bisexual. However, lesbians can experience attraction towards guys too, or occasionally like the idea of them. Just remember that you don't have to label yourself, just do what feels right to you!

I have a girlfriend now and i got a little bullied by it that i am lesbian but it is howi rlly feel

i,m a girl and have a girlfriend my son said to be that he likes a boy in his class and i am proud of him that he said it to me

i got 2 different answers - lesbian and bisexual - so know im taking it again to triple check and wichever one i get next ill feel confident about my sexuality

Guysss if ur r transgender THAT DOES NOT AT ALLLLL CHANGE THE LESBIAN LABELLL it doesn’t change it one bit! Ily allll I hope u guys find out ur labelll!🫶🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

Same. I was watching this movie and the most beautiful girl was featured. I really liked her. The test said I was either bisexual or pansexual.

u do u girl

I have been sexually Attracted to females Lately I did not know this at 1st But now I'm starting to get That I am gay and I have to accept it. Love yourself.

OMIGOSH bro just say lesbian bi or straight seriously it’s not that hard just cuz I’m young it said might😩😒😤

it said I am straight

It said I might be lesbian but I'm actually a guy

I got the same answer, I'm just so confused because I think I'm a lesbian but I sometimes like guys. WHAT DOES IT ALL MEAN??!!

I think u are bi I have been in the LGBTQ+ community for 4 years and I pretty much think you're bi

Apparently i may be straight

My friend told me that I should picture myself married to a man and a woman. Depending on what I see, that could be a giver as to my sexuality (or not, I’m still a big fat mess so who knows)

And also, the word that is really getting me is "might". WHAT THE HECK DOES "MIGHT" MEAN?!!!!!! Like, I know that the result is not what the "real" answer is, but why "might"?

You can think about your childhood how you only ever had female friends, you only had crushes on fictional men. you don't see yourself in a relationship with men etc.

It said that for me as well. I know Im Bisexual but am just more attracted to girls than men.

The Quiz said i am Straight.

I'm pretty sure that I am pansexual, but to be honest, I've just been doing heaps of quizzes to see if that fits me. Obviously you can't get an answer from a quiz, but it helps to hear some ideas.

the quiz said "You’re probably straight." Well, yeah, I love men, they cute and stuff, but do I like women? I don't know. But I would hands down get intimate with a man unfortunately not a femeale.

I feel the same way ....never had butterflies for guys....but did find them cute.....but girls .....i could explode....i get excited and i start imagining....stuff.... someoneee helppp

I’m bisexual and planning on coming out soon, but it said I might be lesbian so…

Yeah I agree and my friend asked if I'm actually lesbian or if I'm just fake ing it made me kind of mixed up about my feelings expressly when IV been talking about this girl I'V liked for awhile and she said "you just seem like your facing it you've talked about guys before so are you lesbian or straight " I don't think she understands that there are more kinds of sexuality. If anyone can comment any problem solvers to this thanks and I'm glad I can talk about that s with out feeling weirded out.

How do you figure out if some one is lesbian or not cause I really want to talk to this girl that is friend is friends with cause I think she is cute but I don't know how to tell if she is lesbian do I just ask or find out through other people cause my goal before Christmas break is to talk to her and there are two weeks till Christmas break so I don't know if all reach !y goal give me some advice

Idk bc i absolutely would do everything with a girl but i think guys are attractive i just don’t feel the same kinda level of being attracted to guy from a girl it’s different i do see myself being flirty with a guy but just fun but when im flirting with a girl its totally different i can see myself marrying a guy i just don’t know if id be as happy with marrying a guy or than a woman yall i need help and the test said i might be lesbian so idkkkk

The quiz says you “might” be a lesbian even if you check all the top boxes (the ones where you are like “i dont like guys, i dont think about guys, i don’t want to be with guys”). This quiz is not going to give you a definite answer, because no quiz truly can. If you see a future with a man, that doesn’t necessarily mean you are a lesbian. If you can’t see a future with a man, that still doesn’t mean you are necessarily a lesbian. It can be really confusing! I used to think i was in love with a guy, and i would picture a fantasy life with him all the time. I didn’t really like him as a person though. Everything i liked about him was something i made up. I was in love with the idea, not the person. A lesbian isn’t super specific either. I know i am physically attracted to men occasionally, i even know i find a certain type of man attractive. Some lesbians are not like this. Something i do share with all lesbians is the fact I never want to be in a relationship with a man. I never want to be intimate with a man, i even find that idea a little disgusting. It took me THREE YEARS to come to this conclusion. Even though it can be frustrating, you have to give yourself time. I was worried i would go my whole life without a label when i really really wanted one (you can also not want a label, that’s fine, but for a lot of people a label is really helpful). Here’s my best advice: If you haven’t heard of comphet (compulsory heterosexuality), i would recommend looking that up. I would read the lesbian masterdoc (available with just a google search). I would evaluate my feelings, talk to others (a lgbtqia+ therapist?), and research different labels. Research the difference between romantic and sexual attraction. For example, you could very well be biromantic but homosexual. You could still identify as a lesbian because you only want to be in a relationship with someone you are both romantically and sexually attracted to. Lesbian isn’t a hyper specific term, that’s why I like it! Until you figure it out, umbrella terms like queer are here for you, so you can be open about liking women and wanting a relationship with a female while you are still questioning. Anyways, no one quiz or comment like this can determine it for you. You just have to give yourself some time to figure it out. You will, though. I hope this helped!

It said I'm Aroace? but I'm very much lesbian so I'm pretty confused what it meant..

It's weird I find a lot of what the quiz calls "queer media" really off-putting and ham-fisted. But I've dated men and women and some genderqueer people and have many queer friends. I guess like I identify with "straight" culture, but I am sexually and romantically queer? But like don't wear rainbow socks and go to bdsm clubs every weekend? And that's okay?

I feel the exact same way but how do I know the difference from a crush and just a really really close friend

It said I was probably straight and I believe it because I like a guy named Colton he is 2 years older than me but who cares

I am doubting my sexuality but my gay parents say that I'm not bi or lesbian until I have gotten intimate with a woman is this true?

This didn't really help. I needed this to figure out who I am, but instead it just left me confused and with even more questions than before.

Yeah I exactly feel like you

I might be les but my thing is I like one girl and that was it