Share your favorite interesting questions to ask a girl!

02/18/25 1:09pm

What are some interesting questions to break the ice with a girl you like, either over text or in person? Let us know in the comments!

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Rebecca Tenzer, MAT, MA, LCSW, CCTP, CGCS, CCATP, CCFP
Clinical Therapist & Adjunct Professor

03/05/25 8:10am

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Anonymous wikiZebra

02/18/25 4:34pm

I have a few standard questions I like to ask a girl when I want to learn more about her. I think these questions tell you more about her and some will also give you an idea of whether you'd be compatible in a relationship:
What music are you listening to lately?
What's your favorite TV show these days?
What's something you're looking forward to?
What would you do if you didn't have to worry about money?
Where would you most like to travel to?
If you had a second life, what would you spend it doing?
Do you believe in aliens? Lol
What do you like most about your friends?
What's the weirdest dream you've ever had?

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Anonymous wikiGopher

02/19/25 9:06am

basic rule of thumb, treat her like a person, not a "girl." another way to think of it is what questions would you ask a guy/someone you're not romantically interested in to get to know them better, it's no different really (and itll probably take some of the pressure off).

also remember that texting is fine sometimes but if you're getting to know someone it's always better to just meet up in person if you can.

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Anonymous wikiWalrus

02/19/25 11:15am

These are all great questions, I also think it's important to keep in mind that you only really need a few solid questions in your back pocket and if she's receptive the conversation should flow. Instead of asking rapid-fire questions, ask a question and then build off of it for a bit--and let her ask you questions too!

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Anonymous wikiZebra

02/20/25 3:46pm

If ur looking for some flirtier questions (probably best to save these for a girl you've already gone out with once or twice):
- If you were in a relationship right now, who would your celebrity pass be?
- What do you think is the sexiest thing about yourself?
- What makes for a perfect date, in your opinion?
- What attracts you to other people?
- Do you think you're a good kisser?
- Describe your dream date.
- What's your favorite place to be kissed?

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Anonymous WikiValley

03/02/25 1:21am

-whats ur fav hobby
-whats ur fav book and why

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