What are some flirty questions to ask a guy?

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WikiLynxJumper585
01/09/25 11:29am
Please give me your favorite flirty questions to actually get a guy hooked. I’ve got a few guys I’m talking to, but I feel like I’m always struggling to keep the conversation going in a way that doesn’t sound like I’m talking to my parents. I’m just not naturally “sexy” I guess when it comes to texting or chatting. So yeah, lay your best lines on me! The more the better!
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WikiCheetahTamer353
01/10/25 2:52pm
Ooo okay, I love this game. It’s so fun finding those little curious, testy lines that feel like they’re just one-degree away from being full-blown flirty. I spent a few minutes crafting my favorite lines, so feel free to borrow anything I’ve got here!

“If you could plan the perfect first date, what would it be?”
“What's your idea of the perfect lazy Sunday?”
“What's something you're passionate about that most people don't know?”
“Which childhood cartoon character did you have crush on growing up?”
“What kind of trouble did you get into as a kid?”
“If you had the whole city to yourself for a day, where would you go?”
“What’s your guilty pleasure?”
“What’s the best compliment you’ve ever received?”
“How would you describe your style?”
“Are you a boxers or a briefs guy?”
“What’s your absolute favorite way to be surprised?”
“What's the most sensual food in your opinion?”
“What's the perfect soundtrack for a romantic evening?”
“What's your ideal morning-after breakfast?”
“What’s the best place you’ve ever been on a date?”
“If you had to seduce someone using only words, what would you say?”
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WikiAxolotlWatcher104
01/11/25 10:04pm
The way that you deliver questions can have a huge impact on whether they come across as flirty! Think about your body language and your tone of voice. If you lean into him and make eye contact, or smirk, or play with your hair, or touch his arm, these can all heighten the flirtiness factor. Just make sure not to go overboard or it can just sound like a sexual innuendo. I know it's easier said than done to strike a balance between getting to know someone in a flirtatious manner and laying it on too thick.
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WikiStoatWatcher119
01/12/25 5:16pm
Sprinkle in some compliments when you ask questions to make it feel more flirtatious! Then combine that with follow up questions to get them talking more about themselves and make them feel like you're genuinely interested in learning about them. Like if you're talking about what you like to do for fun and he says that he enjoys biking, you could say something like "Wow, you must have strong legs! How did you get into biking?"
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