12 Surefire Signs a Venus in Virgo Is Into You

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Recognize their love language & who they're compatible with
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If you’ve got a crush on a Venus in Virgo, you may know they’re hardworking, dependable, and super intelligent—no wonder you like them! However, it can be difficult to tell the signs that a Venus in Virgo returns your feelings because they're so reserved most of the time. We’re here to help you get a grip on this practical, often subtle sign, so keep reading for the most common signs that a Venus in Virgo is into you. We also spoke to astrologer Angel Eyedealism for expert insights into this sign.

Signs that a Venus in Virgo Likes You

Venus in Virgo is usually practical and analytical in love. Performing acts of service is their love language, so they’ll try to be helpful if they’re interested in you. They may appear shy at first, but they want to understand you. When they eventually open up, Venus in Virgo is a committed and loyal partner.

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12 Signs a Venus in Virgo Likes You

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  1. According to Eyedealism, Virgos are "staid and careful and cautious." [1] These traits can lead those with Virgo sun signs to be shy around people they like. A Venus in Virgo who likes you might be chatty in a group of people, but then get quiet when you appear. If they seem shy, it's not a sign of disinterest—on the contrary, it's a sign they like you a lot and want to make a good impression but aren't quite comfortable doing so yet.
    • When shy people like a Virgo in Venus flirt, they're subtle about it. You may also notice them looking at you (but perhaps quickly looking away when you catch them) and getting a little fidgety when you're close.
    • Reader Poll: We asked 503 wikiHow readers how they like to get a Virgo man to take interest in them, and only 9% of them said Flirt aggressively with him. [Take Poll] So, take that as a sign to keep any flirtation light.
  2. Venus in Virgo wants to go slow and ensure their feelings are real. So, if they're trying to talk to you steadily more often, they likely have a genuine interest. They may start by sending you texts here and there, only to gradually ramp up until you get a text every day. They may also start liking your social media posts—a sign that they're checking your account to get to know you better.
    • Eyedealism notes that Venus in Virgo “can be a cold sign, and it'll take them time to warm up.” [2] Be patient, and you'll be closer than ever before long!
    • To start things off slow, reciprocate your Venus in Virgo's interest by commenting on a couple of their social media posts. If they like you, they'll quickly type out a reply.
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  3. When Venus Virgo has a crush, they want to know the real you. If you notice that your Venus in Virgo engages you with lots of thoughtful questions, it means they like you! They'll ask you about your life, past, family, goals, likes, dislikes, and more. It might even feel like an interrogation at times, but rest assured that it's just this sign's natural curiosity.
    • While you're answering Venus in Virgo's questions, you might notice that they're studying you with focus and intensity. When this sign wants to know everything about you, they mean it! That includes your style, looks, and mannerisms.
    • Whether you’re into a Venus in Virgo man or want a Virgo Venus woman to like you , they’re drawn to those with effortless, minimalist types who exude elegance and practicality. They’re not into loud, flashy people who crave attention from others.
  4. Eyedealism believes that a Venus in Virgo with a crush pays “critical attention to detail.” [3] In conversation, you'll notice them referring to small facts about your life that you mentioned previously. When you're hanging out, they'll recall your food preferences, favorite activities, and other details you've revealed in the past. You might not remember saying all these things, but they definitely will!
    • For example, if you mention you're interested in world history, a Venus in Virgo might text you fun history facts here and there because they know you'll enjoy it.
  5. This sign keeps a tight schedule but will be flexible for a crush. Venus in Virgo is introverted and typically a workaholic, so you know they like you when they're going out of their way to see you. They'll start coming over often or inviting you to hang out spontaneously. They may even look for ways to see you more, like throwing a small get-together between friends.
    • Over time, their calls and visits won't be so spontaneous. You'll know they feel strongly about you when you're penciled into their calendar every week, and they start to shape their schedule around you.
    • Even if Venus Virgo makes time for you, remember that they cherish their alone time, too. Don’t mistake this for a lack of interest on their part; they appreciate being with those they love as much as they do being alone.
  6. Practical Venus in Virgo is a problem-solver and loves being helpful to those in their life. Acts of service are their main love language; don't be surprised if making sure you're taken care of at all times is more important to them than sweet words or grand gestures. Venus in Virgo will drop everything to do you a favor or come to your aid! They'll brainstorm solutions to more complicated issues you're having and do their best to fix them. [4]
    • For example, if you need help around your house with repairs, cleaning, or DIY projects, Venus in Virgo will be the first to offer a hand.
    • If you need a ride somewhere or have a last-minute emergency, Venus Virgo will show up to support you—no questions asked.
    • You may notice that Venus in Virgo also uses their offers of help to spend more time with you. This is their way of becoming a constant presence in your life that they hope you'll find valuable.
  7. Virgo Venus goes for sentimental gifts over flashy and expensive ones. When Venus in Virgo likes you, they'll choose gifts that reflect how well they've gotten to know you. To them, an ideal gift would be something you've mentioned needing or a nostalgic item you told them about from your childhood.
    • For example, Venus in Virgo might bring your usual coffee order the next time you meet up as a gesture of kindness.
    • If you let it slip early on that Star Wars is your favorite movie, Venus in Virgo might get you a Star Wars shirt for your birthday months later without needing to ask what you want.
  8. According to Eyedealism, Venus in Virgo "tends to micromanage and criticize their partner a lot." [5] So, if you've been spending time with a Venus in Virgo and haven't heard a single complaint or criticism, it's a surefire sign that they're crushing on you! When this sign likes someone, the little things they usually nitpick about don't bother them so much. They may even start paying you compliments, which isn't common for Virgos at all. [6]
    • For example, if you tend to leave your dirty dishes in the sink for a day or two after use, they won't get upset. Instead, they might just make time to load up the dishwasher themselves without saying anything.
    • If your Venus in Virgo occasionally makes minor critiques, remember that they want to help you, even though it can be easy to take their criticism the wrong way. Constructive criticism is another of their more unofficial love languages. All they want is to show support and encourage you to reach your highest potential.
  9. The uptight Venus in Virgo only relaxes around people they like. Eventually, this sign's shy demeanor will melt away. You'll notice them acting more confident and chill around you and cracking lots of jokes to show off their clever sense of humor. Virgo is ruled by Mercury, the planet of communication, so they'll love having relaxed chats with you every chance they get.
    • When they start joking around with you, show appreciation for Venus in Virgo's funny side and try out a few jokes of your own! So long as your jokes aren't crude or dirty, they'll love seeing this side of you, too.
  10. Venus Virgo shares their emotions and feelings more as their affection grows. Venus in Virgo is a perfectionist and wants to be seen as flawless by the rest of the world. When they like you, however, they're comfortable letting you know every facet of their emotions, both the pleasant and the unpleasant. Your Venus in Virgo is cluing you into their crush when they open up to you about their hopes, dreams, and fears.
    • Listen carefully to your Venus in Virgo, be supportive, and make sure you don't make them feel judged. The more support they get, the more they'll adore you.
  11. When they like you, Venus in Virgo will only have eyes for you. This sign doesn't play around with romance and wants you to know they're serious. They'll always say what they mean around you, and they'll be available whenever you need them. They may also start getting flirty and reserve that behavior just for you to prove that you're the only romantic interest in their life. [7]
  12. Virgo in Venus only gets attached when they see long-term potential in you. They're looking for a partner, and they'll devote their energy to wooing you if they see that you share their values. If Venus in Virgo starts talking about what you might be doing together months or even years from now, they like you and want you to stick around for the long haul.
    • They might invite you to a concert months in advance, without knowing what your relationship status will be by then.
    • They may even talk about what you'll be doing in a couple of years and hint that they'd like you to be part of their life then.
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Venus in Virgo Compatibility With Other Signs

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    Most compatible: Taurus, Capricorn, Virgo, Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces. Venus Virgo appreciates earth signs who value practicality and commitment in relationships. The same holds for water signs, who add emotional depth to the pairing. More details on Venus in Virgo’s most compatible matches follow: [8]
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    Least compatible: Aries, Gemini, Sagittarius, Aquarius , Libra, Leo. Venus in Virgo doesn’t have a lot in common with these signs, and can clash over traits that don’t gel with each other. More details on who Venus in Virgo is least compatible with are ahead: [9]
    • Venus in Aries : They express love and affection in different ways.
    • Venus in Gemini : Gemini expresses love through communication over acts of service.
    • Venus in Sagittarius : Sagittarius’s need for adventure and freedom isn’t practical enough for Venus Virgo.
    • Venus in Aquarius: Aquarius is too unconventional and freedom-focused for the practical Virgo Venus.
    • Venus in Libra : Libra’s need for romantic and expressive gestures goes against the acts of service love language of Venus Virgo.
    • Venus in Leo : Venus in Virgo’s reserved style goes against the attention-seeking, passionate love language of Leo.
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Venus in Virgo Zodiac Key Traits

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    Venus in Virgo is known for their practicality and attention to detail. From relationships to their career, they’re focused on being analytical (and sometimes overly critical) of everyone around them, and themselves. They’re cautious about opening up to people, but are loyal and committed once they do. Venus in Virgo is also hardworking and reliable; they set goals and try their best to reach them. [10]
    • A Venus sign represents the way you express love, pleasure, and affection. Because it’s occurring in the Virgo sun sign, this means that you express love through acts of service, helping with practical needs, and accepting your partner for who they are (while being aware of their weaknesses).
    • As a sun sign, Virgos are born between August 23 and September 22. Their symbol is the Virgin, who is often depicted holding wheat, and their birthstone is sapphire.
    • You can find and interpret your Venus sign with an online calculator by entering your birth date, birth time, and birth location.
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    They value acts of service as their love language in relationships. While other zodiac signs may be more expressive through words of affirmation or physical touch, Virgo in Venus shows love in a relationship by doing nice things for their partner. For instance, if you’ve been busy at work all week and have to clean the house, you may come back to a spotless home because they took it upon themselves to tidy up. It can even involve small acts, like getting your favorite cookies when they know you’re feeling blue. [11]
    • Venus Virgo also believes in quality time as a secondary love language. They want whatever amount of time they spend with you to have meaning, and not be simply superficial.
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    They prefer partners who are grounded over ones who always seek attention. A Venus in Virgo doesn’t go for overly grand romantic gestures; in fact, they can grow suspicious if you go way over the top with lovey-dovey type behavior in your relationship. They like their romance practical and down-to-earth, meaning they’d enjoy a long walk that includes deep conversation over going dancing in front of a lot of people. [12]
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    They need to build an emotional connection before getting physical. They’re not very likely to have one-night stands and usually need a lot of time before getting to know their potential partner. Once there is an honest and close emotional connection, only then will they leap into a physical relationship. [13]
    • This is partly due to their difficulty in being vulnerable. It takes Venus Virgo time to trust, but once they do, they’ll open up emotionally and can be a loyal and committed partner in and out of the bedroom.
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Knowing if a Venus in Virgo Likes You FAQs

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    Does Virgo Venus fall in love easily? Venus in Virgo is known for being cautious and reserved when it comes to falling in love. They’re known for their practicality and analytical nature, which means it takes a Venus Virgo longer before they’re ready to commit to a relationship. It can also take a while before they let you know they’re even interested. [14]
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    Who does Venus in Virgo attract? Venus in Virgo tends to gravitate toward people who share their traits, like practicality and love that is focused on acts of service. They are known to be attracted to fellow earth signs, like Taurus and Capricorn. Some water signs, like Pisces, Cancer, and Scorpio, help bring sensitivity to the very grounded Venus in Virgo. [15]
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    What is the love language for Venus in Virgo? More than any other love language, performing acts of service is how Venus in Virgo shows love the most. They express their feelings by doing nice things for the person they’re interested in, and show support by being reliable. While affectionate gestures aren’t their main focus, Virgo Venus appreciates honest, genuine communication with those they love. [16]
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