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Do you have your eye on a special Gemini man in your life? Gemini men are known for being charming, exciting, and great conversationalists, so it’s no wonder you’re captivated by one. Unfortunately, freedom-loving Geminis can be a little hard to pin down, so you might be wondering what you can do to attract him and get him to commit. You’ve come to the right place! We’ve compiled a complete guide on how to make a Gemini man fall in love, including insights from expert astrologers Stina Garbis and Tara Divina. Keep reading for everything you need to know!
How do you get a Gemini man to fall in love with you?
If you want to make a Gemini man fall for you, be spontaneous and open to trying new things with him. Show him that you're okay with being independent but that you love spending time with him. Chat about things he likes and ask for his opinion to keep him interested in you.
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9 Ways to Make a Gemini Man Fall in Love
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Try being his friend first. As an air sign, Gemini is known for being a bit hard to pin down. They like to feel free and unburdened, like a gust of wind blowing through the sky, so they can struggle to commit. [1] X Research source If you’re interested in a Gemini man who seems like he isn’t settling down anytime soon, try building a friendship with him first .- This will give him a chance to get to know you without any pressure. If you have chemistry, your friendship could be a solid foundation for a future relationship.
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Show off your conversation skills. Ruled by Mercury, the planet of communication and the mind, Geminis love a good intellectual debate. [2] X Research source Try asking him for his opinions on current events or philosophical topics to get an interesting convo going , and don’t be afraid to share your own thoughts. A Gemini man is looking for someone who can match his talkative energy and stimulate him intellectually, so he’ll likely be impressed!- You could also try asking for his opinions on art, music, movies, or books. For example, a Gemini would love it if you asked him to pick between two movies and explain his reasoning for why one is better than the other.
- “Geminis are also dual-minded about things,” explains Divina. “So showing them both sides of a coin, like ‘Hey, do you prefer this or that,’ would be a very entertaining conversation for a Gemini.”
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Connect over your love for reading. Quick-witted Geminis need a lot of intellectual stimulation in romantic relationships, which is no surprise, considering they’re ruled by the planet of the mind (Mercury). [3] X Research source To really captivate a Gemini man, try telling him about any interesting books or articles you’ve read lately, and ask if he has recommendations to share. Intelligent Geminis are often avid readers, so this can be a great point of connection for you two! -
Be playful and spontaneous with him. Fun-loving Geminis need constant excitement to feel fulfilled, and they avoid boredom at all costs. [4] X Research source To win him over, show off your spontaneity and your sense of adventure . Call him up out of nowhere and ask him to go rock climbing with you, invite him to a midnight silent disco, or suggest a day trip to explore a cute little town you’ve never been to. When you show him how exciting life with you can be, he’s much more likely to fall for you!EXPERT TIPAstrologer & Psychic MediumJessica Lanyadoo is an astrologer with over 20 years of consulting experience. She is the author of Astrology for Real Relationships: Understanding You, Me, and How We All Get Along and is the host of the popular astrology and advice show, Ghost of a Podcast. Lanyadoo co-hosted TLC’s digital astrology show Stargazing and writes weekly and monthly horoscopes that help you heal.Geminis love spontaneity. Grab their attention with versatile conversation and interactions. Geminis also love people who are quick on their toes when it comes to conversation. Show off your quick wit and knowledge next time you meet.
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5Try to make him laugh. Thanks to their quick wit, conversational skills, and playful spirits, Geminis are known for being pretty hilarious. If you want to pique his interest, try showing off your sense of humor , too. “You could be playful with words,” suggests Divina. “That would work really well for a Gemini.”
- For example, when you’re hanging out with a Gemini man, try to make a witty comment about your surroundings or tell a funny joke.
- You could even try teasing him a bit in a playful, flirtatious way. As long as you’re getting him to smile and chuckle, you’re on the right track!
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6Show him that you’re comfortable in social situations. Geminis aren’t the biggest fans of alone time. They tend to have very large friend groups, and they love being around other people. [5] X Research source To show him you’re compatible, really lean into your social side and make sure he knows you’re game to hang out in groups.
- A Gemini man would usually prefer going on a fun group date or attending a party to having a quiet night in, and he’s looking for a partner who can match this energy!
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Be flexible and adaptable about your plans together. As a mutable sign, Geminis are all about going with the flow, and they hate feeling constrained by a rigid schedule. [6] X Research source It can be hard to get a hold of a busy, fast-moving Gemini to make plans, and even when you do, he might struggle to follow through. Although this can be frustrating, if you show him that you’re able to adapt to his ever-changing schedule, it can definitely help win him over.- For example, if he calls you the day before a date and says he has to cancel because he just scored tickets to a sports game, try not to get too frustrated about your plans falling through.
- Instead, be as understanding and flexible as you can, and suggest that the two of you reschedule for another night. He’ll appreciate your willingness to go with the flow!
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Lean into your independent side. Geminis definitely enjoy it when you’re affectionate and flirty, but they also need a fair amount of freedom and space. They tend to get turned off by people who come across as too clingy. [7] X Research source Because of this, it’s a good idea to show the Gemini man in your life that you’re a strong, independent person with interests of your own and that you don’t mind spending time without him.- For example, try spending a Friday night hanging out with your friends or participating in a hobby, rather than asking him to meet up.
- If he’s going out with his friends, try not to be jealous or possessive of his time, and let him know that you're glad he's having fun.
- This will show him you’re confident and self-assured enough to give him his space and spend time apart, which can definitely help convince him that you’re a great match.
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Once he shows interest, act quickly. Although you don’t want to rush a Gemini man or press him to commit too early, you don’t want to wait too long to make your move, either. Quick-thinking, ever-changing Geminis don’t have the longest attention spans, and they can move from one prospect to the next at lightning speed. [8] X Research source If you’re getting the vibe that he’s attracted to you, don’t be afraid to ask him out for coffee or dinner. Your confidence and boldness could definitely pay off!
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You may have more luck making a gemini man fall in love if you make your move quickly and try out new activities together. Gemini men can get restless quickly and move on, so ask him out soon after you meet him. They also like spontaneity, so try a relaxed date rather than something that's planned out in detail in advance. Once you get to know him a little better, suggest going to social events, like art gallery openings or music festivals, since geminis like to talk to likeminded people about their thoughts and views. For tips on how to find topics of conversation to interest a gemini man, keep reading!
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