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How can I make my clothes more attractive?

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The most important thing is to wear clothing that fits you well. It's also important to find clothes that you like and fit your personality.

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A girl offered to let me sleep in her bed with her twice. I refused, and then she stopped asking me. Is she interested?

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She probably WAS interested, but she might not be anymore, since it sounds like you repeatedly rejected her.

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If a girl constantly stares at me is it a sign she is interested in me?

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This is a sign that the girl may be interested. Try looking back at her and flashing her a smile. If she smiles back, you should introduce yourself. If she looks down or tries to avoid your gaze, this could either mean she's not interested or is just shy. Either way, try to start a conversation.

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Do I need a six pack to get a girlfriend?

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No. It may be a preference for some girls, but it's more important to just have a healthy body and a good personality.

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How do I know when a girl is interested in me?

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She will make, or at least attempt to make, numerous signs/hints that she has a thing for you. Sometimes it's obvious if she thinks you have a good connection going. Talking to you, her hands on your shoulder, and many other 'touch barrier' breaking are also signs.

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How can I attract a girl?

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Just be yourself. She will see your true self eventually anyway. If she likes who you are, then that's great. If not, keep looking.

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How can I have confidence in myself?

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Just be yourself. Be comfortable around people, especially if you are with strangers. They don't know you, so you can be confident.

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If I am overweight, but many girls smile at me. Should I talk to them and do they see me as physically attractive?

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Just because you are overweight doesn't make you unattractive. No one can read the girl's minds and tell you if they think you are attractive or not but they might. It is worth a shot and you should talk to them.

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How do I make her like me more if she says she likes me as a friend?

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Don't try to force it. Be her friend. Maybe she'll feel differently in the future, maybe she won't, but you can't make her change her mind.

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Does having a belly mean that I'm living an unhealthy life, and if so, what should I do to get rid of it?

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It doesn't necessarily mean that you're unhealthy. Everyone's metabolism is different. Try to eat more healthy and exercise more, even if it means just taking a walk during your lunch break.

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Does a girl like me if she interacts with me quite often?

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It is likely, but you won't know until you make a move. There is no way to know unless you ask, and you won't ask if you are afraid. So, don't be afraid.

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If a girl says she is impressed with me multiple times, does it mean she likes me?

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Not necessarily, but if it occurs several times in a row, then it's a strong possibility.

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Does tone or sound of voice play a good part in attractiveness?

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It depends on a girl's preferences. Some girls like more masculine men with muscles, deep voices, etc., and some girls like thinner guys that are more sensitive and that have softer voices. Some girls don't have a preference at all!

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How do I get a woman to accept me, even though I know I'm a jerk sometimes?

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Just apologize when you catch yourself. Do not try to force a relationship with someone who isn't willing to understand you, but keep your inner jerk in check and always be kind when you can.

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Is having a good height necessary?

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Being taller than the girl you like is a popular preference, but not every girl needs their guy to be taller.

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If a girl stares at me, does it mean she is interested?

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It could mean that. Try looking back and smiling. If she smiles back at you, she's almost certainly interested, and you should take that as a cue to strike up a conversation.

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What are good body sprays for men?

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Try using Axe, Giorgio Armani, Azzaro, Versace, or Givenchy. Pick a scent that matches you and your natural smell. Be mindful that the scent has to be mild, because you don't want to stink up the place.

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Do I need to have good looking hair?

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A good haircut goes a long way.

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I like a girl but she has a boyfriend. What can I do?

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You probably should just be nice to her and be her friend. If you want to tell her that you have feelings for her, make sure that you do not pressure her and let her make up her own mind.

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What can I do to be more physically attractive if I can't grow a beard yet?

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Work out. Maintaining a good posture and staying physically fit will do wonders.

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How can I be more physically attractive if I am a preteen male?

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Work out. Having a healthy body goes a long way. Also, shower regularly, wear nice, clean clothes (button-downs, slacks, etc.), and get your hair cut regularly. This will set you apart among the other preteen males who don't care very much about their appearance.

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Can someone who is skinny be attractive?

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Yes. Any body type can be attractive. People have different tastes. Find someone who enjoys you for you, and be confident in yourself.

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How do I make girls like me?

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You can't make a girl like you. As long as you keep up with yourself (hygiene, neat clothes etc.), then you will find the girl just right for you. If you like a girl, make sure you are kept up, and just approach her in a friendly way. Just don't force things.

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What do I do if my self confidence is too low to take any obvious cues?

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Be yourself. If you don’t notice any cues, they probably aren’t being thrown at you.

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Which colors should I stop wearing?

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It varies from person to person. Typically, you want to avoid wearing multiple bright colors together, or two colors that are opposite each other on the color wheel. If you have dark hair, wear mostly dark colors with a bright accent, and vice versa.

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How do I dress well as a male if I don't have much money?

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Casual clothes such as jeans and t-shirts are just fine. Try to avoid sweatpants. You can find nice clothes at the Goodwill store or other thrift stores. If you are going to a profesional meeting or something like that, you can rent a tux if needed.

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If a girl is teasing me, does that mean she likes me?

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It depends on the personality of the person. If the girl acts like this to every guy, it probably means nothing. But if the is only teasing you and draws herself form other guys, she probably likes you (or at least feels comfortable with you and considers you one of her "good friends").

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How do I gain confidence if I'm in a wheelchair?

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While gaining confidence may seem like a big hurdle, girls love when a guy can be comfortable in his own skin. If you practice proper hygiene and maintain a positive outlook on life, then nothing can stop you. Don't let being in a wheelchair stop you from doing anything you want.

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