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What if he thinks I'm a hoe when I do these things?

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Then drop him. No man should make you feel bad about expressing yourself however you want. If he's uncomfortable with what you're doing, that would be different, but no one should ever call you a hoe.

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How does someone feel while being kissed?

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They should feel a feeling of protection and love and passion all at the same time. Kissing should be a way to express how you feel to someone.

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How can I figure out if my boyfriend is really into me, or if he just wants sex?

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Does he take you on dates and actually listen to what you have to say or does he just text you for booty calls? Does he want to know more about you and introduce you to his friends and family or keep you a secret? Be honest, and you'll have your answer.

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Where do I kiss a guy's neck to turn him on?

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On the side of the neck below the ear where you can feel the pulse.

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How do you get him to kiss you?

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Sit close and engage in some physical contact, such as your leg against his. Biting your lip might send him the message. Pretend that you're tired, lean your head on his shoulder, look up at him and smile

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I'm scared to initiate the first part. I feel like he should kiss me first. What can I do?

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Lean in close and talk in a quieter voice. Keep eye contact and look at his lips. If that doesn't work, you can always start rubbing his chest/thigh or tug on his shirt to encourage him to come closer and kiss you.

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How do I turn on a guy who is skinny when I'm fat?

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It doesn't matter what your body type is or what his body type is. If you have an emotional connection then those factors shouldn't matter.

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What if the man wants more than a kiss and I'm not ready to give more?

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Just tell him that you're not ready for more than a kiss. Most people are glad to know their boundaries before they start making out so they don't have to worry about over-stepping them.

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How can I stop being shy around my boyfriend?

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If it's a new relationship, get to know him before you start anything physical. Talk to him, ask him questions about himself, ease into more personal topics. Talking about things like that can bring two people closer together and will likely make you feel less shy.

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What does turn a man on mean?

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To sexually arouse him.

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What does it mean if my boyfriend does not like kissing?

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It's just a preference and (probably) does not mean anything is wrong. Some people don't like to kiss, in just the same way that some people don't like certain foods or movies. Kissing isn't the only way to initiate physical contact with a guy, so there are a lot of things to try. If you're concerned about it, a gentle question of 'Why don't you want to kiss?' is fine. Remember to be patient and understanding, he may open up eventually.

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How would I know if he wants to kiss in the first place?

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He might try to stay close to you, especially if he brings his face close to yours. He might also play with your hair or touch your face. Once he does that, give him a peck on the cheek and wait for his reaction.

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What if we make out all day?

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If you make out all day, things will either progress to the more sexual and intimate things or (if you and you significant other have excellent self-control) it'll just be what it is.

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How do you let someone know you want your relationship to move past kissing?

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You can initiate it yourself either verbally or physically. For a more subtle approach, drop hints every now and then about what you'd like to try next.

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What if turning him on with a kiss doesn't work?

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Keep your hands around his waist and rub up and down. Pull back every now and then while kissing him to tease him. Works every time.

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What does it mean if my boyfriend is tired of having sex every day?

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That means you are probably overdoing it. Tease him. Kiss him passionately, but stop before it goes any further. That will leave him wanting more. If you don't spoil him, his desire will swell.

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How do I improve my kissing skills as a girl?

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Focus on keeping your lips soft and not using too much pressure. Ask people you have kissed for feedback.

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What can I do if a guy says that he loves me, but doesn't want me to touch him?

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Go at a comfortable pace for the two of you. Perhaps he isn't ready quite yet and needs time to warm up to the idea of it. If you're not sure, you could always ask him why he doesn't want to be touched.

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Is it okay to touch my boyfriends private part while kissing?

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As long as you are both ok with it, go for it.

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How should I react if we are both turned on but I'm not ready for sex?

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Talk to him about it. Discuss what things you are worried about, what you are and are not comfortable doing, and make sure you both know the risks of sex and sex-related activities (pregnancy, STIs, etc.).

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Should I stop feeling guilty about kissing my boyfriend in public?

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PDA is not illegal. Just be consciencious about others and keep it light and affectionate.

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What if the guy doesn't like the way I touch him while kissing?

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Just release your grip and keep kissing if he wants you to. You can ask him if he wants to stop kissing or if he needs a minute.

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I told my boyfriend that I wanted to try something new (making out underwater), but when he tried to do it I backed off because I was scared. How do I accomplish an underwater kiss like in movies?

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Remember that what happens in the movies isn't reality, so achieving this may be difficult, and perhaps a little dangerous. If you still want to do it anyway, be safe, kiss in shallow water.

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What does it mean to grind when making out?

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It means to move your hips up and down on your partner's body to arouse them.

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What can I do to get aroused?

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Try fantasizing about some "naughty" things (whether it involves your partner or not). You can also use erotica, porn, or toys to get you aroused.

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