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    How can you tell if a guy likes you over text?
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    Text can be tricky because you can’t see his body language or hear his tone of voice. Look for signs that he’s being flirty, like playful emojis or friendly, chatty responses. He may not be into you if he replies to your texts with a lot of 1-word answers (like “yeah” or “ok”).
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    How can you get a guy to admit he likes you?
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    The best way to do that is to have an honest conversation with him. If you feel comfortable enough, you can just ask him outright. Say something like, “Do you like me as more than a friend?” If you’re interested in him, tell him how you feel and see how he responds.
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    Can I figure out if he likes me without talking to him?
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    While talking to a guy directly is the easiest way to find out where you stand, you can also look for other clues. For example, check out his body language and facial expressions when he’s around you. If you catch him looking your way and smiling a lot, he might be interested in you. You can also try asking his friends if you know any of them well enough.
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    One day a guy I like got me a ring. I am only 10 but I like him, so what should I do?
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    Cherish the ring for the sweet gesture it was. You're too young to be taking dating seriously though. This is a gentle crush and the best advice would be for the two of you to be the best of pals and to have some fun adventures as friends.
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    What does it mean if a guy often teases me in a friendly way?
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    Teasing can sometimes be a sign of affection, but it's essential to set boundaries. If the teasing goes too far or feels hurtful, it might indicate immaturity or a lack of readiness for a serious relationship.
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    Is it wise to consider dating my ex again?
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    In general, it's often advised against dating an ex because the issues that led to the breakup might resurface unless both of you have addressed and resolved them. While it's not impossible for it to work out, the chances of repeating past mistakes are higher, making success less likely.
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    Is it wrong to be the one who texts him first every day when I often wait days for his message?
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    By texting him every day, you create a pattern he may come to expect. While he might not mind and lets you lead the conversation, there's a chance he could find it overwhelming. It's best to ask if he minds your daily texts since he seldom initiates contact. Encourage him to be honest, so he doesn't feel pressured.
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    How can I tell if he likes me or the other girls he hangs out with?
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    If there are no clear signs, he might not be interested in a romantic relationship or could be a player. It's best to keep things light and treat him as a friend until you see definite signs. Meanwhile, stay open to other potential partners who may be a better fit for you.
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    How should I interpret our playful roughness if we often smile at each other?
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    Your playful interactions suggest a fun and friendly dynamic, but they may not necessarily indicate a romantic interest.
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    Does the boy I like still have feelings for me even though he flirts with another girl?
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    He may not be worth your effort, as he seems to be keeping his options open by flirting with others. This behavior suggests he might string you along, which isn't a good foundation for a healthy relationship. It's better to move on to someone who prioritizes you.
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    Should I stay friends with the guy I like, even though he has a girlfriend and rejected my feelings?
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    It can be awkward, but deciding whether to stay friends depends on your comfort level. In my experience, trying to come between two people can lead to complications. If he wanted to be with you, he would have indicated that. Remaining friends is usually a good idea for maintaining dignity and social harmony.
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    How can I tell if someone who is known to be a "player" is genuinely interested in me?
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    If someone is known to be a "player," they typically show interest in many people. It's important to be cautious and observe if their actions and attention towards you are different or more sincere than their usual behavior.
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    What if he pretends that his older sister dared him to have a crush on someone he doesn't like and he says that he chose me?
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    This seems to be a very silly reason, so much so that it has to be a cover up for his genuine feelings of actually liking you!
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    How can I handle a situation where my ex is interfering with my feelings for someone new?
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    If your ex is interfering, you should set clear boundaries and firmly communicate that your personal life is no longer their concern. If their behavior escalates to harassment or stalking, it is important to contact authorities for assistance.
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    What should I do if a guy has admitted he likes me but hasn't made a move yet?
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    Since he has admitted his feelings, take the initiative and ask him out. The worst outcome is that he might say no because he's nervous, but at least you'll have clarity. If all goes well, you could end up going on a date together.
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    What should I do if several guys have a crush on me, but I like only one of them?
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    Choose the one you like. You have the right to decide who you want to date.
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    How should I respond if he asks me to be his girlfriend?
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    Consider whether you want to be in a relationship with him and then either accept or politely decline.
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    What does it mean if we chat online but he doesn't talk to me at school?
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    He might be shy and find it easier to communicate with you online. However, this isn't sustainable long-term. If he continues to avoid talking to you at school, ask him why (even through chat) and express that you find it odd and a bit impolite that he's not speaking to you in person.
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    How can I tell if he likes me if he flirts with everyone?
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    If he flirts with everyone, it might just be part of his personality. You'll need to determine whether you can accept this behavior. If you can, focus on building a deeper connection with him to see if he shows interest in you beyond flirting.
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    What do I do if a guy likes me but I don't like him back?
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    Is he friendship material? If so, then it's easy to friend zone him. But if he's not even friendship material, there's no need to beat around the bush. Just make it clear that you're unavailable and that your heart is already set on someone else. It happens to everyone in life, there is no need to feel bad about refusing a relationship with someone you just don't click with.
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    What do I do when he stares at me? Look away, smile, or stare back?
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    A bit of each is good. Look and smile intensely. Then catch his gaze and hold it for a few seconds. Then look away quickly and carry on with what you're doing. It'll leave him dizzy.
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    What should I do if he is trying to make me jealous?
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    Try to figure out why he is trying to make you jealous. Once you know why, try to eliminate the source of jealousy. You can find more tips and advice in How to React if a Guy Tries to Make You Jealous .
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    What does it mean if a guy blushes when I smile at him?
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    If a guy blushes when you smile at him, it likely means he likes you and feels a bit shy or embarrassed. This reaction suggests he is emotionally affected by your presence or attention.
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    Should I allow playful touching from a guy who broke up with his girlfriend recently and hasn't asked me out yet?
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    It's difficult to determine his true intentions. He may still be processing his recent breakup and might not be ready for a new relationship. It's advisable to maintain your boundaries by communicating clearly, saying something like, "I prefer not to be teased like that. If you want to date me, then we can discuss being more comfortable with certain interactions. Until then, it's not appropriate." This approach allows him to reflect on his intentions towards you. Be patient with the situation.
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    What does it mean if a guy makes me laugh a lot?
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    If a guy makes you laugh a lot, it often means he enjoys your company and wants to make you happy, which can be a sign of interest.
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    What should I do when everyone knows who my crush is?
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    People may tease you, but if you ignore it or agree sarcastically, it will often stop sooner. It might also work in your favor if your crush hears about it.
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    What is the ideal age to start having a boyfriend or crush?
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    There is no perfect age, but maturity is important, and parental guidance can be helpful. Generally, mid to late teens are ideal for seeking a longer-term relationship, while earlier years focus more on fun and friendship. By your 20s, any age can be the right time.
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    What do I do if one of my friends asks him if he likes me and he doesn't have a straight answer?
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    If he does like you but doesn't want it spread everywhere, he's hardly going to tell your friend. He could have said "no" outright but the hesitation and failure to give a straight answer shows that he probably does like you and just can't come up with the words fast enough to put your friend off the scent. Take it as a positive sign but still look for other indicators before presuming anything further.
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    How can I tell if he acts the same way with every girl?
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    Ask some of your friends to spend time with him individually and report back. If he behaves the same way with every girl, you'll find out soon enough.
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    Should I text him more or talk to him face-to-face?
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    It's better to talk face-to-face, as it reduces misunderstandings and can help deepen your connection with him.
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