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What do you say to your crush when you like them?

Erika Kaplan
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Erika Kaplan is a Dating Coach and Matchmaker for Three Day Rule, an exclusive matchmaking company across nine cities in the United States. With over six years of experience, Erika specializes in helping singles find quality matches through date coaching and premium matchmaking services. Erika graduated from Penn State with a Bachelor’s degree in Public Relations. She worked for Rolling Stone, Us Weekly, and Men’s Journal before leaving publishing to pursue her passion for connecting people. Erika has been featured on Lifetime, the Philadelphia Inquirer, and CBS as well as in Thrillist, Elite Daily, Men’s Health, Fast Company, and Refinery29.

Erika Kaplan

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There are no hard and fast rules here. You just have to speak your truth. Be honest, and articulate how you feel in a genuine way. Go in with the assumption that this is going to go well if you need a little boost of confidence. If they don't respond well, don't worry about it! Shake it off and move on.

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What if I'm really nervous?

Erika Kaplan
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Erika Kaplan is a Dating Coach and Matchmaker for Three Day Rule, an exclusive matchmaking company across nine cities in the United States. With over six years of experience, Erika specializes in helping singles find quality matches through date coaching and premium matchmaking services. Erika graduated from Penn State with a Bachelor’s degree in Public Relations. She worked for Rolling Stone, Us Weekly, and Men’s Journal before leaving publishing to pursue her passion for connecting people. Erika has been featured on Lifetime, the Philadelphia Inquirer, and CBS as well as in Thrillist, Elite Daily, Men’s Health, Fast Company, and Refinery29.

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Do whatever you can to pump yourself up before you go through with it! Remember, even if you it doesn't go exactly the way you want, you can only control what you do. You have nothing to be nervous about, and there's no need to overthink it. Speak what's true to you!

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What should I do if my crush doesn't want to talk to me anymore after receiving my note?

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You must accept that your crush might not feel the same way and respect their feelings. If they don't want to talk, it's important to move on gracefully.

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Should I use an anonymous note to tell my crush I like them, even though my friends like them too?

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An anonymous note won't lead to any real progress since your crush won't know who sent it. It's better to directly tell your crush about your feelings. If they reciprocate, you can take things further; if not, you can move on. Also, be honest with your friends to avoid misunderstandings or resentment.

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