The jack-o-lanterns are carved, your costume is all picked out, and the sun is just starting to set on a spooky Halloween night. Now it’s time for the best part: trick-or-treating! Grab a group of friends, stock up on flashlights or glow sticks, and get ready to indulge that sweet tooth. We have everything you need to know about trick-or-treating —including how to hand out candy and safety tips for trick-or-treaters . With a few simple tips, you can have a safe and successful trick-or-treating experience, complete with a whole pile of tasty candy. Happy Halloween!
How do you trick or treat?
- Go up to a house with the lights on.
- Knock on the door.
- Say “Trick or Treat!” when someone opens the door.
- Take one piece of candy.
- Look at them and say, “Thank you!”
- Walk to the next house (don’t run).
Steps
Going from House to House
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Start trick-or-treating at around dusk. You'll probably want to start trick-or-treating as soon as you get home from school, but be patient! Have a good dinner to fuel you up for the night (and to keep you from filling up on candy), and wait until the sun starts to get a little lower before you head out. In most communities, trick-or-treating usually happens between 6 and 9 PM. [1] X Research source
- If you’re going with younger kids, you might need to leave even earlier to make sure you get home by bedtime.
- Some neighborhoods celebrate Halloween on a weekend night, but in most places, trick-or-treating happens on the actual night of Halloween, even if it’s a school night.
- Some smaller towns might have specified trick-or-treating times to follow, and some communities may have trick-or-treat in the afternoon for kids and parents who aren't comfortable being out after dark.
- Ask your neighbors or check your local newspapers or social media pages to find out what time trick-or-treat starts and on what date, or try googling "when does trick or treat start in [your town]."
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Bring a bag, pillowcase, or other container to hold candy. You can collect candy in whatever container you want. Reusable bags are a good option, or go with a pillowcase for an option that will hold a lot of candy. You can also go with a pumpkin-shaped container or a Halloween tote bag for an option with more holiday spirit. Try to bring something you can hold on to easily, and make sure it’s strong enough to hold a few pounds of candy.
- You can even choose a bag that matches your costume. If you dress up as a mermaid, for example, you could have a bag with shiny sequins on it like scales, or bring one shaped like a fish.
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Only go up to a house if it has the lights on. Look for houses that have their front porch light on, with jack-o-lanterns and other Halloween decorations out front. This means that the people are home and celebrating—and ready to give you candy! If the lights are off, they’re probably not around. Skip it and go on to the next one instead. [2] X Research source
- Be considerate of other trick-or-treaters. If there are already kids at the door, wait on the sidewalk or lawn for that group to move out of the way before you go up to the door. [3] X Research source
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Take candy from a bowl on the ground, if it’s there. Some people will leave a bowl of candy on their front step when they know they’ll be out on Halloween night. In this case, just take one piece of candy from the bowl (unless there’s a note saying you can take more) and move on to the next house. [4] X Research source
- It’s tempting to take a lot of candy when there’s no one there to see, but remember that other kids will be coming to the house after you. Let them get their share of candy, too.
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Knock on the door or ring the doorbell. If no one answers your knock after a minute or so, you can try one more time. If no one answers after that, just go on to the next house. It might feel a little disappointing, but you’ll save time and get more candy if you move on fast. [5] X Research source
- Don’t touch any Halloween decorations or anything on their porch on your way up to the door. You don’t want to break anything!
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Say “Trick or treat” when someone answers the door. They’ll probably say “Happy Halloween!” or compliment you on your costume, then hold out the candy. Don’t hog the bowl to search for your favorite piece—just take the best one that you see on top. If you don’t like any you see, take a piece anyway to be polite. You can always trade later with your friends! [6] X Research source
- Just take one piece of candy, unless they say you can grab more.
- You can say “Trick or treat” in a loud, excited voice, but don’t yell.
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Thank them and wish them a happy Halloween. After you’ve grabbed your candy, look up at the person and say “Thank you! Happy Halloween!” This shows that you’re polite and appreciative, which is especially important if you decide to come back next year. [7] X Research source
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Walk on the sidewalk to get to the next house. No matter how quickly you want to move on to the next house, stick to the driveways and sidewalks to get there. It’s rude to cut across people’s lawns or gardens, and you might trample their shrubs or flowers by mistake. [8] X Research source
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Go from door to door if you live in an apartment complex. Trick-or-treating in an apartment building can be just as fun as going around the neighborhood! You won’t have to worry about chilly (or hot) weather, plus you’ll fill up your candy bag more quickly without walking quite as much. Knock on doors with Halloween decorations and jack-o-lanterns to make sure the inhabitants are handing out candy. [9] X Research source
- Trick-or-treating in an apartment complex is also safer, since you won’t have to deal with traffic or dark streets.
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Plan to finish trick-or-treating by 8:30 or 9 PM at the latest. You might want to stay out all night getting more candy, but houses will start to run out as it gets later. Some people might want to go to sleep, too! It can also get more dangerous to stay out past 8:30 or so, as fewer trick or treating groups are out—so you might be less visible to drivers who aren’t expecting kids to be out anymore. [10] X Research source
- Ask your parents beforehand if they want you home by a certain time.
Handing Out Candy
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1Turn on your porch light to let trick-or-treaters know you’re participating. The easiest way to let people know you’re handing out candy is to flip on a porch light. You can also decorate your porch or doorway if you want to, but it’s not a requirement (same with dressing up—you can if you want, but you don’t have to). [11] X Research source
- Before trick-or-treating starts, double-check that your walkways, porch, and lawn are clear of any debris, toys, or objects that could cause children to trip and fall. Sweep away any wet leaves from your porch and stairs, too.
- If you have jack-o-lanterns with candles, keep them far away from walkways—you don’t want a child’s costume catching on fire! To be even safer, consider replacing candles with battery-operated LEDs.
- If you have a pet (especially a dog), consider putting them in a back room so they can’t get out or scare children.
- If you live in an apartment: Hang a sign or decorations on your door so people know you’re participating.
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2Keep the candy by the door for convenience. Pour all of your candy into a large bowl or container and keep it close to the door so you don’t have to keep running back and forth. If it doesn’t all fit into the container, top it off throughout the night so you don’t accidentally run out if a big group arrives.
- If you know someone in the neighborhood, ask them how busy Halloween night is so you’ll have an idea of how much candy to have on hand.
- It’s a good idea to offer a variety of candy, including allergen-free options and candies that are safe for small children. [12] X Trustworthy Source HealthyChildren.org Health information from the American Academy of Pediatrics. Go to source
- Also, consider adding non-edible treats that are fun for kids, like spider rings, bubbles, and bouncy balls.
- If you want to participate but you’d rather not answer the door all night (or if you won’t be home), consider putting out a bowl of candy with a sign that says “Take one, please!”
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3Open the door and hand out candy when you hear a knock. After you open the door, wait for the kids to say, “Trick or treat!” Then, offer candy to each child in the group. You can either put the candy in their bags or let them choose it from your container.
- Chat with the kids about their costumes. For instance, you might ask what they’re dressed up as, or you might pretend to be frightened by a “scary” costume.
- If the parents are accompanying the children, greet them or give them a wave, as well.
- Young, shy, or nonverbal children might not say “Trick or treat” or answer questions about their costumes. That’s okay—don’t try to force them. Just smile and hand out the candy anyway.
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4Plan entertainment for downtime between trick-or-treaters. Some neighborhoods have steady groups of trick-or-treaters all night, but in many places, it’s a little more sporadic. Keep yourself occupied with your favorite Halloween movie, curl up with a spooky novel, or make a playlist of monster-approved tunes to keep yourself in the Halloween spirit while you wait for the next group.
- If the weather is nice, you could even sit on the porch and watch the kids trick-or-treating—it’s a fun way to get involved in the neighborhood.
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5Turn off your lights if you run out of candy. Once your candy stash runs out or you’re ready for bed, flip off the lights. That should signal to most kids that you’re not participating in trick-or-treating anymore. [13] X Research source
- You might still get a stray knock throughout the night, but don’t feel obligated to answer the door once your light is off.
Community Q&A
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QuestionI can't afford a costume and I can't make one. What do I do?Community AnswerYou could be a character from a TV show that wears regular clothes, or you could do the old cut-holes-in-a-sheet and go as a ghost.
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QuestionIs it normal to trick-or-treating at the age of 12?Community AnswerIt's not uncommon to go trick-or-treating when you're 12, and most kids take advantage of this tradition as long as possible. If you're tall for your age, go with younger kids in a group so you don't look out of place
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QuestionDoes it matter what I am dressed as?PotatoestoseeCommunity AnswerGoodness, no! Just make sure that your costume isn't obscene or sexual, and you're ready to go!
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Tips
Tips from our Readers
- If your neighborhood doesn't have a lot of people who participate in trick-or-treating, shopping malls and stores often have candy on hand to give to trick-or-treaters! Just head to the register or front desk, where they'll usually have a big bowl of candy.
- If possible, put a little extra effort into making your costume super special. Sometimes people will give extra "points" for this, and you may get an extra candy or two. This also goes for having good manners!
- If you're planning on spending a long time trick or treating, make sure to bring some water and a small snack to stay hydrated and keep your energy up!
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About This Article
If you want to go trick or treating, choose a fun costume and head out at around 6:30pm on Halloween night with a plastic pumpkin or pillowcase to collect candy with. Go up to a house that’s decorated or that has all the lights on and knock on the door. When someone answers, smile and say “Trick or treat!” When the person offers you the candy bowl, only take one piece of candy unless they encourage you to take more. Then, smile and say “Thank you!” before heading to the next house. Keep reading for tips on staying safe while trick or treating!
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