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What is an independent person like?

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Rahti Gorfien is a Life Coach and the Founder of Creative Calling Coaching, LLC. She specializes in working with artists, entrepreneurs, and college students in creative fields. Rahti is accredited as a Professional Certified Coach (PCC) by the International Coach Federation, an ACCG Accredited ADHD Coach by the ADD Coach Academy, and a Career Specialty Services Provider (CSS). In addition, she has personal experience in the fields she coaches - she is an alumnus of the New York University Graduate Acting program and has been a working theater artist for over 30 years. She was voted one of the 15 Best Life Coaches in New York City by Expertise in 2018.

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An independent person doesn't mind what other people think or say about them. They also won't feel the need to change who they are just to be liked by another person.

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How do I stop acting the way people expect me to?

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Maybe it's time for a vacation, or at least time away from the friends who make you act a certain way. Spend some time treating yourself to a solo activity and thinking about what kind of person you want to be. Before returning to familiar social situations, write down what you're going to say or do to turn over a new leaf.

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How can I be independent while I'm financially dependent on others?

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It may help to talk to the person who supports you financially, and figure out exactly what that means. Can you put yourself on equal footing by working in return, or promising future repayment? If you hate having to ask for money all the time, could you set up an automatic payment or access to a shared account?

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How can I be independent if I am under 16?

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It's almost impossible to be truly independent at this age, but following the steps in this article, such as the emotional or friendship aspects, will prepare you for when you become older.

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