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Can I take a girl home on my first date?

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Statistically, that will not work out well for you because less than 10% of the couples who have sex within the first three dates make it through a year. The second reason is safety, and at this point, even health. People of all age groups need to feel comfortable before doing it.

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Is it okay to kiss a girl on the first date?

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Kissing a girl on the first date is inappropriate. People feel that they need more information before doing that. It takes three first dates to do it.

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How can I get close to a girl on a date?

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You can do certain things to make the girl feel more comfortable, like open the door for her and offer her a compliment. Then you can sit close to her and touch her hand a bit.

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Do women like to be caressed often in a relationship?

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It depends on the woman. Not all women are the same. If you're ever unsure about if and when you should touch someone, talk to them about it.

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I want to caress a 40-year-old woman. How to do it?

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A woman's age is not important. Women want to feel cherished and beautiful. First, make sure she is giving you the signs that she wants to be touched - consent is the most important thing. Then, touch her gently and reverently. If she sighs and leans into your touch, you can become more firm. Pay attention to her body language as well as her words.

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What part of my boyfriend's body should I caress to get a response out of him?

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Rubbing a hand along his chest or the back of his neck can be very stimulating. If you know you both want to go further with things, moving your hand from his chest down to between his legs will always get a response. But again, always make sure he's comfortable with this!

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How do I know if I've gone too far?

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Quite often a girl will tell you if she wants you to stop, but pay attention to her body language. If she stiffens up or you just feel like she isn't into it, stop. If you're going to touch her in any sensitive areas, ask permission/consent first. It's always better to be safe than sorry.

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Where is the navel?

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It's the scientific name for the bellybutton.

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Is it okay to caress a woman's breasts while kissing her?

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As long as she consents, yes.

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How does one get in sync with a girl's kissing style?

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Try to mirror her movements, and remember to take it slow at first. Hold her face gently to aim better while kissing.

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I have a wonderful wife and our intimacy comes from gentle touches or tender looks every day. People keep telling us the honeymoon period will soon be over, but we are always like this. Will the honeymoon phase die?

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Sometimes the honeymoon phrase will die out. But as long as you remembered why you fell in love to begin with then it will be longer before the honeymoon phrase dies out. Keep making an effort to make her feel special, no matter how long you are married.

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Will my girlfriend mind if I try to rub her belly?

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Ask her. Everyone has different things they're comfortable with.

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