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How can I have a great conversation with a girl?

Stefanie Safran
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Stefanie Safran is a Dating Coach, Matchmaker, and the Owner of Stef in the City, a Matchmaking and Dating Coaching business focused on an honest and hands on approach. Stefanie labels herself as “Chicago's Introductionista®” as she has over 15 years of experience in the matchmaking industry. Her work has been featured on various media such as: ABC7, NBC5, CBS2, WGN, FOX, The Chicago Tribune, The Chicago Sun Times, The HuffPost, and Refinery29. She holds a MBA in marketing and branding from Loyola University in addition to her BA from the University of Wisconsin-Madison.

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Make eye contact while talking to a girl. Show your interest by asking questions and letting her speak. Avoid talking about yourself too much.

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What should I do to date successfully?

Stefanie Safran
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Stefanie Safran is a Dating Coach, Matchmaker, and the Owner of Stef in the City, a Matchmaking and Dating Coaching business focused on an honest and hands on approach. Stefanie labels herself as “Chicago's Introductionista®” as she has over 15 years of experience in the matchmaking industry. Her work has been featured on various media such as: ABC7, NBC5, CBS2, WGN, FOX, The Chicago Tribune, The Chicago Sun Times, The HuffPost, and Refinery29. She holds a MBA in marketing and branding from Loyola University in addition to her BA from the University of Wisconsin-Madison.

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Do not do the same things on every date. Listen to the girl you are with and understand her needs. Then plan your date according to her preferences. Give your suggestions for the time and location for a date and let her make a choice.

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What are the things I can do to make a girl feel more comfortable?

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Stefanie Safran is a Dating Coach, Matchmaker, and the Owner of Stef in the City, a Matchmaking and Dating Coaching business focused on an honest and hands on approach. Stefanie labels herself as “Chicago's Introductionista®” as she has over 15 years of experience in the matchmaking industry. Her work has been featured on various media such as: ABC7, NBC5, CBS2, WGN, FOX, The Chicago Tribune, The Chicago Sun Times, The HuffPost, and Refinery29. She holds a MBA in marketing and branding from Loyola University in addition to her BA from the University of Wisconsin-Madison.

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There are certain things that you can do to make a girl feel more comfortable with you. For example, you can offer her a compliment or go ahead and open the door for her.

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What if a girl is a tomboy?

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Most all of this advice should still work. Just get to know her, show your interest, and maybe you'll find that she shares your feelings.

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Can we love or marry someone of the same family?

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Marriage is a legal issue. Check your local laws.

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When a girl is friends with 2 boys and both boys like her, and one boy proposes and she accepts, how should the second boy react?

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It depends. They've got a choice. They can choose to continue to still be friends or the boy can move on. Its really up to the relationship and everyone's comfort level.

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