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On what date should you first kiss?

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It could be the first date or it could be the fifth date. It really depends on how comfortable you and your partner are. When it comes to the first kiss, it helps to really not overthink it if you've already made it to the dating stage. They already have some interest in you, so try not to dwell too much on it. Just let things develop organically and you'll be fine.

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Is it possible to date two people at the same time without cheating?

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As long as the people you're dating know you're not exclusive, it's not cheating. Cheating means you've betrayed someone's trust, so if any of the people you're seeing think you're exclusive, let them know you're not!

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What if you kiss them and they don’t like it?

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Rejection hurts. Believe us, we know! If you think your date wants to kiss you, but it turns out they didn't, apologize and make sure they're OK. This is why it's important to read all their signs and ask for consent before kissing. But if you kissed and the kiss just didn't go very well, go easy on yourself! Even if this isn't your first kiss ever, it's your first kiss with someone new, and that's almost guaranteed to be a little awkward. You're both bound to enjoy it more after a few attempts (if you're both up for trying again).

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Is it okay to kiss your girlfriend without having your first date?

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It sure is! Some people will say you "must" wait until your first date or even your third date to kiss, but if you and your girlfriend are already dating, and you've gotten to know each other without having an official "date," by all means, kiss away! (Just make sure you're both into it!)

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My girl always drools her saliva in my mouth. Is that normal?

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It matters less what's "normal" and more what you both enjoy. If your girlfriend is kissing in a way you don't like, it's important to communicate that with her. It'll be a difficult conversation to have, and she might get embarrassed, so make sure to bring it up when you're alone and in a private place. Be gentle: let her know it's not a big deal and that you still like her, but that you'd appreciate it if she didn't drool as much.

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